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me ex in my bed wen i woke up touchin me???
ok... my boyfriend and i broke up.... i wen to the place where my friends hang out..... he was stripping on a table.... my friends grabbed me and through me up next to him.. he was naked.. i was in my bra and undies. he kissed me then i punched him.. i put my clothes on.. but accidently put his shirt on. he came over one day to get it. i was napping at the moment. he layed down next to me. i knew he was there. i was pretending to sleep. i was on my stomach at the time. he kissed my cheek. i turned over but still pretending to sleep.i was then on my back... he whispered in my ear.. i just need my shirt.. so he took it off. i still was pretending to sleep. i was in my bra. i did not care because he already saw me. then he put his hand down my pants and fingered me. i popped up and made out with him. was that a stupid mistake? should i like do something to him?? we are not officially boyfriend and girlfriend again??? i need advice.. should i give him another chance?
13/f
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see the thing is, is that he fingered you when he thought you were sleeping. i dont think that's very good boyfriend material. i think hes just looking for ass but you need to realize that you so much better than that! hope i helped!
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well what i think is...i mean he seems that he is just using you for ass..or maybe he realized that he missed you. Nd i mean if you let him do that stuff to you then you obviously do still care about him other wise you wouldnt allow it. But why would you let him take your shirt off and everything because your just giving him what he wants..and once he gets it he'll leave you...trust me on this one. Guys are jerks..if u really feel you want to go right ahead but i dont know because i have a feeling you might get hurt.
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What???? Is this a REAL question??? This is absolutely foldeRo.
BUT.. in the chance that this is a REAL question, ditch this asshole, and find NEW fRiends.. and new moRals???? Just a suggestion... think about it....
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Why is there an area with a bunch of naked 13 year olds hanging out?
Thats sick as hell.
And he started fingering you while he thought you were sleeping.
So you made out with him?
You don't usually hear about someone wanting and willing to go along with a rape.
But whatever, its your fucked up life not mine.
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Uh.. why were you in a strip club to start with? Why were you half naked anyway? Why'd you let your friends "put you up there?" They don't sound like real friends, do they? How could you not notice that you had on someone else's shirt? Why'd he come in your room uninvited when you were "asleep?" How come you let him take your shirt off of you? Why'd you let him touch you? Why'd you kiss him?
It seems to me that you made more than one stupid mistake.
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How come you spill something on your leather couch, and it stains, but all those cows stand in the mud and muck, and they never get stained?
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first of all, you need to reconize if you are not only attracted o him (which seems obvious that you are) but that you can see yourself dating him in a long and healthy relationship. if your relationship before failed with him from lots of fighting and hurt then i warn ya, he's no good for you.
second of all, he tried tpuchin ya wen he thought you were sleeping... doesn't that strike you as creepy??? i definantly think kissing him was the wrong move, i believe you should have kicked him on out. but i'm not you and what is done is done so i am going to help you fix all of this. do you not only like him, but see yourself with him for a lasting healthy relationship? is it so hard for you to stay away from him that even the sound of his voice makes you excited? do you think he would ever cheat or hurt you. and finally, is he just in it for the "rewards" if you know what i mean. so talk to him, ask him if he wants to actaully date or is he just a horny lil man, lol.
*good luck hunnie*
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well if you made out with him and let him finger you, then obviously you dont hate him and there is still something between you 2, so i would give him another chance.
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