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HELP PLEASE I GIVE HIGH RATES!!!
Ok well I just turned 12 and now thats its summer I dont see my boyfriend much anymore. I'm kinda shy though is my problem. I'm afraid to call him cuz I dont think his parents know that were going out. And I would feel weird callin him. I get real nevous and talk to fast. And I really really like him and he likes me and I just want to see him more often. The last time I seen him was like June 16 and at my one game a few days ago. ( Just because he had all star practice).
PLEASE HELP! p.s please dont give me just answers like to go to his house or somethin like that.
Yours truley,
Shy but in love
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Why dont you have a friend on the fone and 3 way call him or sumthing soo that you can have a group date. His parents dont have to kno that you two are going out but thats all that i kno to tell you ..
kaitlyn jO*
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i think that you need to try & talk to him. and when you call him, if your too nervous to go out just the two of you, then bring friends. and about his parents not knowing, they wouldnt know anything, for all they know your just friends.
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o wow i have just finnished dealing with the exact problem so i can help you here. first of all, AIM or Instant Messanger (whatever you like to call it) is a very easy and effective way to talk to your boyfriend, i find AIM to be my main source of conversation with alot of people in the summer.
also, you are going to have to call eventually so practice what you are going to say before you even dial. perfect it...and remember to breath lol. i find that if you klnow what you are going to say it is much less likely to slip up and say something dumb.
and my favprite* invite him to the movies or mall. the movies is a quiet yet intimate place for a bf/gf. you don't have to talk, but rather cuddle. as you two hold hands and such during the movie i promise you that you two will feel close again.. and it's just you two, nobody else. but the mall is a more fun place to shop around and goof off. so if you are a couple that feels more confortable just being together without all the cuddling and kissing then just eating and shopping round the mall alone with him will help bring you two back together.
i hope i helped, good luck
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Don't you have to be 13 to use this site?
Whatever.
Just go to his house or something.
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I'm kind of "phone shy", too. If it is much easier for you, you may want to try talking to him on AIM(or any other instant messaging program). If you still want to try talking to him over the telephone, you can ask your bf when he will be home and when he would like you to call him so that you'll know that he will pick up the phone. If anybody other than your bf picks up the phone, just stay calm, and tell them your name and whom you would like to talk to.
I hope I helped a little bit.
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ahh, I have the same problem - I am pretty shy & I don't like calling boys. But maybe try talking to him on AOL & trying to plan to go to the movies or something...and if you think you will fill uncomfortable then ask to invite some other friends. & if he doesn't have AOL then try calling him & just saying your a friend.
I hope this helps..sorry if it doesn't =(
XOX !@#$%
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