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wats an emo thanks (link)
I'll give you the whole run through...

It all began with Punk music, punk music is defined by a fast paced tempo, or beat. Punk is also a subculture, and from the rebellious members of the punk subculture spawned hardcore music, a much faster and garage band like type of music. Hardcore music talked about society, and relationships more than punks and government. Both are considered punk however. Eventually hardcore spawned a bunch of people who couldn't stand the mosh pits and rough crowds, so basically they take the same lyrics as hardcore music, and toned them down... giving you EMOTIONAL hardcore. You really cant get more in touch with your feelings than hardcore already was, emo just succeeds in getting in touch with your feminine side :/

Unlike emo, hardcore is trying to make a positive difference, and their median is music. Emo is just bitching and wanting everyone to do shit for them. Lazy bastards.

FIRST FAILER BY GORILLA BISCUITS (HARDCORE)
I've worked so hard on things that never seemed to pay off.
But looking back I realize that I never really meant that much.

And I let you down.
It might not be the last time.
I'm sorry, and I know how it feels when my eyes see a loser in the mirror.
I think "what did I do?" sure I fucked up, but I got back up,
so that loser shits out the window
And if I let you down., it might not be the last time.
Cheer up, it will hurt much less tomorrow.
We're all tired of fucking up and that's not just being sorry.
It means brush the dirt off, get up and try again

When you1re sick of trying, how can you expect to succeed?
I can't recall my first failure, and I'll forget this one too over time

And if I let you down, it might not be the last time.
Cheer up, it will hurt much less tomorrow.
We're all tired of fucking up and that's not just being sorry.
It means brush the dirt off, get up and try again

I AM ON YOUR SIDE - HAWTHORNE HEIGHTS (EMO)
I never meant to hurt you
Sometimes these thoughts have a way of making sense
Secrets that we keep turn into accidents
If you burn away the bonds with the fire of selfishness
The positive and negative have a way of blending in

End this now, we've gone too far
Let's take back words that turn to scars
If I could find a way to turn back time
Had to let you know I'm on your side

Took the easy way out I shut myself down
The only way to ease the pain is to drink until I drown
I'll say it out loud my voice is the only sound
So listen up, I'll spell it out
I need your help, I need it now

End this now, we've gone too far
Let's take back words that turn to scars
If I could find a way to turn back time
Had to let you know I'm on your side

Am I now everything that you wanted me to be
tried my best took a shot in the dark and I lost

End this now, we've gone too far
Let's take back words that turn to scars
If I could find a way to turn back time
Had to let you know (had to let you know) I'm on your side
If I could find a way to turn back time
Had to let you know (had to let you know) I'm on your side


what do people mean when they say "be true to yourself?" (link)
Do what you think is right. Try to avoid outside influence for a while so you can think clearly, and then make your decision. Think of the consequences, and the benefits of doing something. In a nutshell, being yourself meens doing something, even though you might get so much negative reputation from it that you lose all of your friends. Fuck idols for a second, and follow your own path. Ask if something your doing is really you, if it's yes, then keep going. If your doing it just impress another person, a crowd, or just fit in... then that is being someone else. They don't like you for who you are, but what you are trying to be.


im 16/f and i need tips for fighting other people like i mean fighting other girls. (link)
Don't fight them in the first place, try to stay out in a crowd, and don't ever be offensive. If they come for you, just bonk them in the nose as hard as you can and run away.


someone told me that they knew a way to see a persons top friends on myspace even if they were hidden by using firefox.. does anyone know how to do this? thanks! (link)
Go to View -> Source, hit Ctrl+F in the notepad and try to find your myspace name, or the person your looking for. If it says your name, along with friend repeater 00-42 to the left, then your in their top friends


what does a guy look for in a friendship with a girl? (link)
In a friendship with a girl I usually like girls that are interesting and open minded, and are happy people. I'm not necessarily looking for a sexual relationship, but just playing around, flirting is really fun. It helps build my self esteem up.


I am 13 years of age. I have been put in a situation where I could have sex. I really like the guy and I think he likes me. I am not sure if I should have sex with him or not. I really want to. I need advice. HELPPP!! (link)
these are the reasons you should NOT
*you said your not sure
*YOUR THIRTEEN!
*you said you THINK he likes you
you should have sex with a guy that LOVES you and who you LOVE
so basicallllyyy ... no


i do muay thai boxing
i was wondering if anyone knew songs that i could shaddow box to or even just listen to while using the punchbag
just to give you an idea just now i listen to eye of the tiger,..i know that is a boxing song but its got a good beat to it so anything with a good beat that i can punch and kick with would be much appreciated

kaitxxx (link)
Cypress Hill. The WHOLE album with the son Insane in the Membrane. The beat is great for muay thai!


Well I'm 15/f and I was wondering...do most guys in highschool look for girls that are really hot and have a good body? Cuz I mean I've had boyfriends, but nothing serious...a lot of guys and girls think I'm pretty but I don't have that "amazing body". I've been told I'm really sweet and I do have lots of guy friends who are considered "hot". But i don't know, I don't see myself as a hot girl whose girlfriend material. I want a serious boyfriend and stuff. So basically my question is...what do guys look for in girls? Do they have to be hot and skinny or does personality count too? Sorry this was kind of long...but I really appreciate the help :D (link)
Most guys yes. However I prefer girls with at least average looks and a great personality. The guys looking for sex are more interested in looks. The guys who want a girlfriend are looking into personality.


Well, i go too high school. At high school we have populars and well geeks and i really, really hate this! No one has the right to tell you who you are or name you.
Populars think they can boss me about for example 'get out of this room', 'go away, you can't hang around here'. Am really fed up i just want to answer back but then everyone will hate me, and my friends are scared because they don't want to be hated, and everyone eles sucks up to them.
i would really like to know how can i stuck up for my self without being hated by people. (link)
Be yourself, choose a clique that best represents you, or don't. Either are good. Highschool is a short, 4 year popularity race, a race which you don't have to run. Don't care what they have to say, they don't know you. Look at your character and personality, or their any aspects that you can improve on? If your happy with who you are, please, don't change. Your going to be hated by someone sooner or later. Man... looking back on my freshman year I must have been in a couple of fights every month. Toughen up, I don't meen fight people... just get used to the idiots and do your own thing. You'll have much more fun that way.


Well I'd have to say my current reputation at school isn't the one i want. I'm dating a guy that everyone likes. People think I'm a bitch but i'm not i'm just sarcastic. I want to be one of them people that is friends with everyone. Pretty and is on school teams. You know that type. How can i turn into someone like that. I shop at hollister so its not like im emo or anything. How can i make more friends and become like that. (link)
Be hated for who you are, not loved for what your not. B


hey. well, i'm 14/f. and this year i'm going to be going into high school. and i'm really scared about being around all of the older kids and stuff, but thats not what i'm most scared about. i'm scared about sex. this probably sounds really stupid to some ppl, but i don't care. i really want to wait until marraige, but there is so much pressure in high school, i don't want to do something i know i don't want to do. i mean, i don't even know if i'll have a boyfriend or anything, but if i do, i want him to be someone who won't pressure me. how can i have good judgement. please help. and any other good advice about high school will be much appreactiated. thanks a bunch!!!! (link)
The pressure to have sex is all in your head, you create it out of envy and jealousy. Just because everyone else is doing doesn't meen you need to do it. You'll know when your ready to have sex, and obviously it's not right now. Some great people in high school have sex their freshman year, but the truelly great don't pressure other people. If your being pressured just ignore the idiot.


I'm going back to school in about two months, so the summer vaca just began. When I go back to school I want to be different. I'm a nice person and everything and I talk enough, but I want to be more outgoing and more talkative and different. What should I do to change ? (link)
You should work on being yourself, instead of being someone else.


okay so i am a 16/f and im about to be a junior. my life is really hectic. i have a really bad attitude. and i get bad grades. like d's and alot of times f's. and i hate it alot! because i want to get good grades like a's and b's. and whenever my parents tell me to study or to do something i get mad at them. i have ADD so its really hard to concentrate in school especially since i always get picked on. i get mad and then start saying things and thats why i have no friends because people are always picking on me. i don't understand why. i don't do anything to anyone. i mean some epople think im annoying and i talk too much. and and because im so skinny. and i have no friends at all. no one ever talks to me. and whenever i talk to someone they start acting weird. and well i did have friends but they're moving. and i have no one to sit with. i did use to sit with these really nice black girls but like they talk to me in school only sometimes and they never call me to hangout. and i fell like no one wants me around. so what should i do? (link)
It's teenage rebellion. You need to improve on your self-discipline if you want to succeed. NO ONE can make you do anything, not even your parents. You need to let your parents know that you are trying, they only tell you to study because they expect more from you. Thats what parents do. Make sure your study environment is not distracting, and pick out a time of day and schedule it. You need to take charge, only you can change it. This is life. It's fucked up, and you have to deal with it.


Is only eating 300 caloroies a day considered anorexic?! (link)
Depends on who you are, but I say AT LEAST 1,000. C'mon it's easy if you eat 3 meals a day.


I'm starting high school this year, I'm curious to know how much pressure there is to drink, smoke, and have sex. I know some of my good friends that have changed alot, but I also know tons of kids that haven't changed a bit! I have strong goals, I don't drink or smoke however I have taken part of sexual activity. Any tips to staying strong in high school? Most of my friends have drank or smoke, but none of them have pressured me. (its usually an if-you-want-to type of thing) Should I expect that to change alot? (link)
Listen to me carefully. The pressure is all in your mind, you create the pressure out of envy and jealousy. Theres no problem with experimenting, but if you go overboard it WILL fuck over your life. You can meet many great people in high school you do indulge in these things, but only the best will not pressure you. If they tell you to do something just don't hang out with them. It's not like you HAVE to do it. It's just a popularity rat race you create in your head to fit in with society, don't play their games.


I cry almost every day for no reason. I'm angry and irritable over the smallest things some days, and other days it's like nothing matters. For the past couple of weeks every time I let my mind wander I end up thinking "wouldn't it be spectacular [I actually use the word spectacular] if I was sure there wasn't an afterlife. Then I could just kill myself" The only thing keeping me from suicide is my conviction that there is an afterlife and I don't want to have to explain myself to a higher entity. I haven't slept more than 20 hours combined in the last 2 weeks. I'm pretty sure I have bipolar disorder, but my parents always think I'm over-reacting. How can I convince them to let me see a psychiatrist? (link)
That doesn't sound like Bipolar Disorder, just your average depression. Hang in there and find something active to do, and I hate to admit this, but what I need to do is try to dumb myself. The less I think the less I worry about the bad things. It could be teenage depression. Just be yourself and do your own thing, that often helps keep your mind off the depression. Wait a while then reflect on this time, ask yourself if it really was all that bad.


what are signs of teen depression/? (link)
If you are consistently depressed for a long period of time, not just 1 day or 2. More like 1+ weeks of CONSTANT depression then you most likely have real depression.

Teen depression can be caused by school work, relationships, sports, appearance, and friends. Basically anything social. Its hard to decern between teenage and real depression.


How do you know whether a boy actually really likes you or just wants to have sex with you? (link)
It's hard to decide. Just pay attention to him and take your time. If he likes you he will try to hang around you, maybe put his arm around your shoulder, listen to what you say, etc. Don't let him take control though, let him know that your not interested in someone just for sex. Take things slowly, if you let him do too much too fast he will think that he can score off you. If hese still interested in you for about a month or so I'de say hese not just looking for some sex.


so, my best friend, can treat me like DIRT.
i mean horrible. she's just sooo rude! what do i do? i mean i love her so much, and shes amazing. but when shes rude i dont know what to do! i just take it. beucase i NEVER want to loose her. i NEED HELP!
15fem. (link)
Lightly tell her that you don't like it. Don't come off as offensive though, or she will turn defensive. Some people just have personalities like that, and it might take her a while to learn that your not someone who can handle that. She doesn't meen anything by it, so when she says something just mention it or completely ignore it. If she really is your best friend shes just having some fun.


im 16 years old and am having a major problem..my hair is falling out like crazy and idk why!!..like i just run my fingers through my hair,look,then have a hand full of hair..im really bothered by this. what could be the problem?! (link)
if you dont take care of your hair, than that could cause it. like if it gets tangled really easily. switch shampoos
if you have an eating disorder, than that could cause it, but you didn't mention that soo...




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