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I want to become something different!
Well I'd have to say my current reputation at school isn't the one i want. I'm dating a guy that everyone likes. People think I'm a bitch but i'm not i'm just sarcastic. I want to be one of them people that is friends with everyone. Pretty and is on school teams. You know that type. How can i turn into someone like that. I shop at hollister so its not like im emo or anything. How can i make more friends and become like that.
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Be hated for who you are, not loved for what your not. B
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If everyone at school likes your boyfriend, then why wouldn't they like you? Obviously he's dating you for some reason, and other people will recognize that and think you are fun to be with. Don't just date him for the reputation though. Date him because you like/love him, and for no other reason.
Don't allow people to think you are a bitch. Don't be sarcastic, be nice. =] Smile at everyone, make small talk with people who seem lonely, and make yourself fun to be around. If you are nice and friendly to others, people WILL notice that, and will want to be your friend.
Just know that where you shop (whether it be Hollister, Chanel for God's sake, or the Good Will) doesn't determine whether people are going to like you or not like you. It's about your personality, not physical appearance.
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Well cut down on the sarcasm.
If you dont think you can do sarcasn with a smile. LOL let them know your joking.
Join school teams. Join a club if you have to.
Talk to everyone. Even people you dont know. Just smile conversation even if you dont really like them.
AND everyone is probably hating on you because your dating a guy that everyone likes. lol
And I bet you are pretty. so just give yourself a break.
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From what you've said, I'd honestly say that your personality doesn't sound horrible. You're not a bitch, and you're obviously pretty.
Honestly, just join school teams. If people dislike you for stupid reasons, then why would you wanna be friends with them anyways. They're being rude to you off of a judgement, so what good are they to your life?
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Well, it is very hard to truly change your personality and who you are. If people think you're a bitch- it's probably just because they are jealous of you- and that usually just goes away with time.
If you want to be on school teams- join them. And you obviously are already pretty if you're dating a guy that is popular. As for being friends with EVERYONE- that is not always possible, especially if you have a real personality. Not everyone can get along, but you can try and just be nice to everyone but don't change your ideas and who you really are just to be friends with others.
Honestly, just be yourself- it pays off in the end.
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