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best friend?
so, my best friend, can treat me like DIRT.
i mean horrible. she's just sooo rude! what do i do? i mean i love her so much, and shes amazing. but when shes rude i dont know what to do! i just take it. beucase i NEVER want to loose her. i NEED HELP!
15fem.
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She is your best friend so you don't want to hurt her.
When she is treating you badly just say small things like, "That's not a nice thing to say."
or "Is that something you would say to your best friend?"
Just say small things to make her get the idea.
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Tell her straight up, when she is rude. Be like that was rude and your being rude right now. Some people just dont know when they are being rude, annoying, or etc. Or your friend may be moody and just takes it out on you. People say people take their frustrations out on the people that care for them. Dont stop being her friend, talk to her about it.
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You just have to own up to what she's doing and tell her what she's doing wrong. Don't make it so she gets mad, if there's an easy way to just sit down with her and explain how you feel, maybe she can change her ways and you can enjoy her company again.
It's really not that hard, I promise.
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Lightly tell her that you don't like it. Don't come off as offensive though, or she will turn defensive. Some people just have personalities like that, and it might take her a while to learn that your not someone who can handle that. She doesn't meen anything by it, so when she says something just mention it or completely ignore it. If she really is your best friend shes just having some fun.
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You should definatly talk to her about it. Although you dont want to loose her as a friend, shes going to keep treating you that way intill she learns she cant do that to you. You have to let her know that you won't let her treat you like that, because shes probably just used to you wanting to be her friend and thats probably what she thinks, that you are always going to be there no matter what. That is a pretty good thing, because no friends are perfect, but if she really was your best friend maybe she could rethink of how she treats you.
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Here is what I think. Me and my best friend are aways mean to eachother, but playing around you know. But if she is taking the meaness to a different level, meaning seriously. You need to say something or else she'll think she can take advantage of you. You can either treat her the same she treats you to let her know how it feels, OR you can just tell her. I mean she can't be a best friend if she is NOT willing to at least listen...Hope I helped.
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Talk to her about it. Tell her exactly how you feel, and if things don't seem to change, then you do need to lose her.
Best friend or not, it doesn't mean she can treat you like shit. That's not how friendship is so somebody needs to clue her in.
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well i friend like that to. if your not looking so great that day she tells you to never wear that again or you look horrible change! fix your hair like that. or she will look at someone up and down and give them a nasty look and tell them that they look bad! to thier face. i hate it when she does that i usually tell her idc what you think or ill tell her that really hurts my feelings. she understands after but she hasnt yet stopped fully! just tell your friend that she cant be rude like that. nicly and she mite make it to a big deal but obviously its hurrting you so you need to tell her whats been bothering you and if you loose a friend like that then she isnt a friend at all!
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Why would your best friend treat you like dirt? Maybe she's your best friend, but you aren't hers. Talk to her about it & ask her why she's so rude to you. You have to be honest with her because you can't be treated this way by anyone, especially a friend. You can't sit there & take it. It's understandable that people get angry & may say rude things, but if it happened a few times, that isn't right & you need to speak up. If it gets bad, maybe talk to another friend or family member to get help.
-hope that helped!♥
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