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I recently downloaded some program that is used for the chat rooms on teenspot.com. I really don't want to use the chatrooms anymore, and I don't want the program on my computer. How can I uninstall it? (link)
hey

go to start - control panel - add or remove programs - find the program - click "remove" & follow the instructions to uninstall :]

sometimes, the icon stays on your desktop / quicklaunch / start menu, so you gotta delete it if you don't want it to show up.



Okay, so i just got a new s/n for AIM, but i don't want to have an email account through it. is there a way to get rid of the email account, but have the s/n? (link)
hey

you don't have to use it. it just comes automatically. but if someone doesn't know your official email address (the one you call your actual email address), then they might just use your aim one to send you an email. it kinda sucks if you don't want to use aim mail, but if you tell everyone your official one then no worries.

anyway, no, there is no way to delete the account. the only way it will be deleted is if you delete the sn. but that doesn't really answer your question.

if you want to turn off the little box that comes up everytime you sign on, you can go to -
setup - preferences - mail - and uncheck "display alert window" (the first one).



i have been doing EVERYTHING to lose weight lately! i have worked out most days of the week and on days i dont work out, im always up doing somethinglike cleaning. i have even gone down to eating 1000 calories a day, but i havent lost any weight! its driving me crazy! what gives??? im 138lbs. 14/f 5'9" (link)
thats an awesome weight for your size, dont even worry about it.


14/f

sometimes I get this weird feeling where my vision gets all blurry then all i see is black and for about 5-10 seconds I can't see anything and my whole body gets like that prickly feeling that you get when a body part falls asleep, and sometimes my muscles like tremble (it's NOT an orgasm i assure you)

i have no clue why i'm like this.

it rarely happens, but when it does it's really weird

so just tell me what you think this is. (link)
I get it too, it's called head rush. It's when you stand up too suddenly and all the blood rushes to your head. It's a bad feeling and only prevented by slowly getting up. You just need to grab a hold of something and wait about 30 seconds and your good. Make sure you hold onto something, the head rush in cases can be bad and you almost pass out.


I had my ears peirced at clairs, like 7 weeks ago and i woke up this morning and one of my earlobes where swollen. It doesnt hurt and it feels kinda num ,
do you know whats wrong with it?
and do you know what i could do to make it better?

thank you soo much,
and if it matters im a 13/f. :D (link)
Really, don't worry about it. You probably just irritated it somehow. It should go away if you don't mess with it. My ears were like that when I got my second hole done. Listen to the answer below me, there's really no reason to go to the doctor at all unless it starts looking bad. Don't take it out either.


i have been doing EVERYTHING to lose weight lately! i have worked out most days of the week and on days i dont work out, im always up doing somethinglike cleaning. i have even gone down to eating 1000 calories a day, but i havent lost any weight! its driving me crazy! what gives??? im 138lbs. 14/f 5'9" (link)
hMm..my guess is that you're gaining muscle while losing fat. Even if you're not losing weight on the scale, you might still be getting thinner. What are you doing to work out? Try to do more cardio than anything else.


Well i like this boy right im 15 and his 14 were both in eyar 9 and his a little bit shorter like 4 cm and my friend always tell me its wrong to like him but i dont judge people by there height or age (As long as its not 10 years lol) i really like him do you think its wrong to like him ? (link)
No it isn't wrong at all. I don't see how it's wrong to like someone because of their height. Who cares. Their height doesn't make who they are, personality does. And age? He's in your grade, it doesn't matter. Your friend is silly, don't listen to them.


I want people's opinions on this. Do you think people should wait to have sex until their married. Do you think People would regret it? I mean because like youve waited and now your wondering like "what would it feel like with someone else?" On the other hand i hear people having sex when there 14 and having STDS and they probably should've waited. idk

Opinions? (link)
I don't necessarily believe it should be before marriage. I myself believe that if:

-you really love the person
-are committed to them
-know their sexual past
-are well educated about sex
-and feel as though you can emotionally handle it

it's fine. However, I doubt most young people can apply to even half of those. Most people probably aren't ready until they're at least 18.

I sound like a hypocrite really, I have sex and I'm 15 myself. I'm probably not emotionally ready because of my age, the person I'm with has been my best friend [now boyfriend] for a long time and we do care for each other, others can argue if we love each other or not. I know about his sexual past, and I am well educated about sex for my age [thanks step dad and sexinfo101]. But because I had sex this young doesn't make it right for others, I probably should have waited.


My girlfriend how I am hopelessly in love with is going to a party tonight and I can't go; and there will be alcohol there and she loves to get drunk...I trust her with my whole heart but when shes drunk she loses control of what she does and she has told me stories of how she got drunk and she made out with guys...she promised me that nothing would happen and we tell each other EVERYTHING!! I just want to know what you guys think will happen if she gets drunk and how can I find out if anything DID happen?

thanks guys
Tyler (link)
Honestly, I would worry if I was in your situation as well, especially with those stories of hers. To find out if anything happens, you'll just have to ask people who were there. Sit down and talk to her, maybe ask her not to drink.
You could say something like,

"I know you promise nothing will happen, but if you drink, especially if you drink a lot, you'll lose control of yourself. I know you wouldn't cheat on me sober, but if you are drunk you won't really know what you're doing. Can you please not drink at that party? Or at least not a lot. I love you and I just don't want anything bad to happen to our relationship."

I hope I helped at least a little.


okay the whole having him lay down and me get on him, it doesn't work because my legs are too short. the only length i have in my body is my torso. i'm 5'2" and my boyfriend is taller but he's got a 7 1/2" penis, and since my legs are itty bitty, i can't seem to get up and down fast enough. he gets either bored watching me try to do something impossible for my size, or he starts to get turned off. and both are not good. :[ we do this thing where i am turned away from him and he wraps his legs around my hips and it seems to work better, but not much. ahh its bugging me. i'm leaving in 8 days for five months, and i want to leave him wanting a lot more.... :[[

help?
thank you to the people that answered the last one, but i need a little more. (link)
Just do doggy or missionary.


Hi. I'm 15/f.
Well there's this guy who is friends with my older brother.
Anyways sometimes we "talk", but I like him as a friend. My brother thinks I like "like" him, but is ok with it.
We were supposed to hang out yesterday night, but I was too tired so I stayed home and said we could hang out today.
This morning I called him and we hung out-- and drove around for hours (it was a bit awkward).
When my brother got off work, we picked him up. Then I went to a church thing with my other friend (a girl).
Afterwards, my brother and the guy were being complete jerks. I mean, they usually tease us, but they've never been really mean to me before. It sounds stupid, but I cried (I don't think they saw, though).
My friend and I were going to hang out with them, but instead we just left.

So why was he like that (my guy friend)?

Thanks. (link)
Thats what guys do when we're next to each other, you sure he was really being meen? I joke around alot (too much) with all of my friends, but I don't meen any of it. Some people respond to my teasing a bit different. Some girls think I'm being flirty (I usually am) but others can't handle it. Usually sophomore or freshmen girls don't like it. Juniors and Senior girls don't mind it and some flirt back.

You NEED to let them know that they REALLY are bothering you. Don't just say you guys are mean. Talk to your brother when hese around, tell him that you didn't like what him and his friend did, and make him tell his friend the same thing. That way He gets a clear message that he offended you.
It's very imporant you do this, or else he will think that it's okay do mess around with you like he does everyone else.


me and this guy i like talk every once in a while on IM and we always end up saying 'so....' then we like dont talk again until one of us has to go, i always try bringing up stuff but it never lasts long, any ideas to keep the conversation going? (link)
Sometimes when the conversation is dead i send them a link of a funny site or someones myspace or something and the conversations start up again.
If that doesn't work then maybe talking about movies or music or somehting.


I don't understand what that thing is in the movies where the girl is lying on a table, and a guy licks something off her stomach? It has to do with alcohol, but I don't understanddd (link)
that would be a body shot.
A body shot is a sexual way of doing shots of tequila. Your lime is held in your partner's mouth and the salt put on a body part (stomach, neck, breasts, etc) You lick the salt off of them, take your shot and then eat the lime out of their mouth.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=body+shot


So I was watching The Perfect Man like a week ago, and I really liked Hilary Duff's purse. It was like green, black, and white. These were the best pictures I could find:

http://www.hollywoodbitchslap.com/images/users/198/PerfectMan.JPG

http://www.freewebs.com/heart4hilaryduff/tpm1.jpg

I'd perfer a darker green though. Anyone know where I could get this bag, or something really similar? Thanks in advance! :) (link)
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alcohol?
why do so many people drink it. i've tried it && i hate it alot. do people just not like it and drink it anyways or do they actually like it?
jusst wonderrring :) thankss for readingg (link)
People drink it for the thrill of doing something illegal, to get drunk, to loosen up, peer pressure, etc. Some people might not like it a drink it anyways just to fit in with a certain group of people and others who dont like it just dont drink it.

http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/drug_alcohol/alcohol/alcohol.html

^^ theres a section about WHY teens drink..if you want more info

if you want more sites like that i just searched
only search advicenators.com


well im gettin to meet this guy this week and he likes me rite...thing is im maaaaad shy,
what are some things i should talk about or say,like when i first meet him what should i say?!pleaaase help me...my first date was a disaster cuza how shy i am (link)
Just be yourself! Remember, hese dating you because hese interested in you! You both are dating to see if you are right for one another! Just be flirtatious and listen to what he has to say, don't let him feel like your putting him on the spot, guys HATE that. Just tell him that hese interesting, laugh if hese funny, or if he isn't. Help build his self esteem. You'll be fine. =)


Okay, well I'm 14 years old and I'm 5'0.
I am 165 pounds.
I was wondering what the average weight for me is?
It is really hard for me to committ to a diet.
Does anyone have any tips for me? (link)
Go to the gym and ask for a bodyfat check, calipers work the best. You wan't to be between 5% to 25$ it also depends on if your a male or female.

I'm 16 5'10" and 160 pounds at 10% bodyfat, and I'm on the varsity wrestling team. So I would say, being 10 inches taller then you and weighting 5 pounds less... that yes you are overweight.

You NEED to commit your self to a diet. There is no other way. You need to do this yourself.


You know those pop-ups that say "win a free TV?"
How are they scams? Like what happens if you sign up for one? (link)
These pop ups are created by the "man" (big business like target, sony, wal-mart, etc.) they enter you into a fake sweepstakes, where they require you to give up personal information, and infect your computer with spyware (programs used to gain credit card numbers, and more personal information) They use this information to better target the age group to which they are selling you an item, ending up with me pop ups for everyone else.


ok there was this guy that was like obsessed with me he would like call me and talk to me and message me every chance and i didnt really like him that much but he was trying so hard. so eventually i kinda started to like him and the last time i talked to him on the phone he told said that he was my boyfriend..and i was kinda skeptical about that cause he never asked me anything he just demanded that "your my gf." anyway that was like a week ago and ive messaged him a couple times but he never replies and he doesnt call any more and i havent seen him in like a month. could he have stopped liking me? did i scare him away or make it to hard for him to like me? he did recently get a new job with some wierd hours but he just had 4 days off and in that time he didnt even try to get in touch with me. and he knows its my bday this weekend when i talked to him last he was all sure that he was going to get me a present or whatever. and i dont care about the present lol just the fact that he hasnt made any attempt whatsoever to try to talk to me in so long.. =/
any advice good!
(link)
Sounds like he can't make up his mind. You need to talk to him, not message him.


okay so i have a weird question...are some people automatically attracted to younger guys/girls?? (not like really young but like 1 or 2yrs younger) becasue i tend to always like the guys in the grades below me...and for the most part all the guys that i know like me are in the grades below me (link)
I like younger girls, but they don't necessarily have to be younger. I'm attracted to many types of girls, white to black, tall and short, just as long as they have great personalities. I like younger girls because they come off as more innocent, and thats what I want in a relationship. I'm tired of everyone trying to fuck theirselves up with sex, drugs, and cheap relationships. I wan't a girl who has a great personality, shares the same views I do, and doesn't have her mind in the gutter.




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