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my first...or should i say second date
well im gettin to meet this guy this week and he likes me rite...thing is im maaaaad shy,
what are some things i should talk about or say,like when i first meet him what should i say?!pleaaase help me...my first date was a disaster cuza how shy i am
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Well I think the b est thing to do is break the ice by saying I hope you don't mind, but I'm kinda shy. Even girls who aren't shy say that, because it makes them more feminine. Some boys like shy, and many don't like pushy girls. Then ask questions about him. Ask if he has siblings, ask if he gets along with his siblings, ask if he gets along with his parents, tell him about your parents. ask him about myspace, what sites he visits on the internet. What was the funnyiest thing he saw on Utube. (lately) and what games does he like best. does he watch sports. Ask him about music, what is his favorite. Remember when you both though _______was cool! (fill in name) what dorks you were.
You know what boys like, being able to laugh at yourself. that makes them more comfortable with you. They also think girls who have confidence are sexy. Do you know that some of the most beautiful women in the world, think they are ugly. Yes it's true. So be yourself, and also, if you do remember to ask all these questions, you also have to remember to BE A GOOD LISTENER>
Hope this helps
Michele
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just stay calm and act confident. Bring up some common topics that could start up a conversations, such as sports, or something you know hes interested in. just remeber to act natural, just pertend hes one of your friends, guys like girls that act like themselfs...
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Just be yourself! Remember, hese dating you because hese interested in you! You both are dating to see if you are right for one another! Just be flirtatious and listen to what he has to say, don't let him feel like your putting him on the spot, guys HATE that. Just tell him that hese interesting, laugh if hese funny, or if he isn't. Help build his self esteem. You'll be fine. =)
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