ok there was this guy that was like obsessed with me he would like call me and talk to me and message me every chance and i didnt really like him that much but he was trying so hard. so eventually i kinda started to like him and the last time i talked to him on the phone he told said that he was my boyfriend..and i was kinda skeptical about that cause he never asked me anything he just demanded that "your my gf." anyway that was like a week ago and ive messaged him a couple times but he never replies and he doesnt call any more and i havent seen him in like a month. could he have stopped liking me? did i scare him away or make it to hard for him to like me? he did recently get a new job with some wierd hours but he just had 4 days off and in that time he didnt even try to get in touch with me. and he knows its my bday this weekend when i talked to him last he was all sure that he was going to get me a present or whatever. and i dont care about the present lol just the fact that he hasnt made any attempt whatsoever to try to talk to me in so long.. =/
any advice good!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TryMe answered Friday July 6 2007, 11:11 pm: hi
i just joined this site minutes ago and i just wanted you to know that you will be the first person i'm advising. i joined this site because i enjoy listening to people and trying to help.
i was in a similar situation (well i Still Am) but any way i think its like this.
you go to the store and you see this shoes or dress that you really like you want it and will do whatever you could to get it and when you finally get it you like wonder why you wanted it so much, you don't clean the shoe as when you first bought it you don't walk careful in it anymore and that kind of stuff.
if you get where i'm coming from, he wanted you , he could not have called you his own so he did whatever he thought was necessary to get you and now that he has you he's like, "i already have her so its no big deal i don't have to call her as before", my girlfriend use to call me everyday before we came together but now she hardly do. don't let it bother you to much but try to go somewhere quiet with little distraction and talk to him. i could be wrong there could be something else but ask him what is the reason for him not calling tell him how you feel when he calls so that he knows and see what happens.
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