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hmm where to begin...i saw this boy at one dance that i'd never seen before. he was really cute so i just smiled at him and he smiled back. at the time i didnt really think anything of him, just another cute boy at my school. it turns at he was a year older than me so i wouldnt have any classes with him. then as the year went on i started seeing him more and more and thinking about him more and more. then at a school event we finally talked for to the first time. he kept smiling the entire time. then like 2 weeks later a friend of mine who is also a year older than me borrowed on of my soccer hoodies that had my name on it and she had a study with him. after seeing it he started asking a bunch of questions about how long we knew each other and everything. then he told her i was cutee. :) then one day i got a pass to one of my friends studies and he was in it. needless to say i went like everyday. we talked and flirted a few times. and it started getting to a point where everytime i saw him he'd say "hey, whats up" and we were getting close but now its summer. and i dont see him much. i need to know if 1) hes interested and 2) how should i try to see him
im friends w/ him on myspace, i have his screen name, and one of my friends is dating his best friend, but i dont want to come on too strong. help meee please ! (link)
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hey,
ok i think what i had would have been better but something happened and i can't write exactly write what i had before i actually don't want to write again but any way i was saying something like this:
i think you should tell him how you feel to often we feel certain way about people and we don't say anything and when someone else comes along and expresses their feelings for that person and end up being with that person we wanna hate. all i'm saying is that you should tell him how you feel bofore someone else does and things become more complicated for you, make it clear that you just wanna know if he feels the same too.
(keep in touch)
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ok well i listen to my chemical romance and green day and all these other punk bands, and everytime i listen to them my bros are like \"they are so gay, they look gay, they laugh gay. \" and all this other bull crap. well i mean i just get really ticked off and i just go in my room and slam the door. plus like when im talking to my best friend mikey (who is a little on the feminin side) my brothers are like oh my gosh he is so freaking gay. like one time i was talking to him on aol and i said hey boy and he was like \"hey gurlie, whats up? and then later on i told him i learnt a new trick on my skateboard and he was like oh my gosh thats soooo awesome!!! and my brothers were just sitting there calling him gay. which another thing. my whole family thinks there is some huge issue with homosexuality. i mean i dont get whats the big deal. i mean no im not homo but i have no problem with other people being like that. i mean my dad is all \"well you should be who you are and not care what other people think\" and if who you are is being gay or bisexual then so be it. but i mean anyways how do i get my family and my brothers to stop critizing all these people and calling them bi or gay. i mean i\'ve tryed talking to them and then they\'re all (well u just have an obsession with them and you dont want us talking about your \"precious friends, or your precious my chemical romance\" so talking doesnt help, and i dont wanna be a snitch or nothing. so what can i do???? thanks so much in advance. (link)
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Hey
believe me your not going to get them to stop as long as your bothering with them they are going to keep doing it, so i think the best thing to do is to try and ignore them when they are behaving like that, and besides its an everyday situation where people make fun of other people i'm sure you've done it sometime in the past, i know i have done it. people also have their opinion about things and people so don't let their opinion get you angry and that kind of stuff.
you could also try seriously telling them how you feel when they do it.
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ok there was this guy that was like obsessed with me he would like call me and talk to me and message me every chance and i didnt really like him that much but he was trying so hard. so eventually i kinda started to like him and the last time i talked to him on the phone he told said that he was my boyfriend..and i was kinda skeptical about that cause he never asked me anything he just demanded that "your my gf." anyway that was like a week ago and ive messaged him a couple times but he never replies and he doesnt call any more and i havent seen him in like a month. could he have stopped liking me? did i scare him away or make it to hard for him to like me? he did recently get a new job with some wierd hours but he just had 4 days off and in that time he didnt even try to get in touch with me. and he knows its my bday this weekend when i talked to him last he was all sure that he was going to get me a present or whatever. and i dont care about the present lol just the fact that he hasnt made any attempt whatsoever to try to talk to me in so long.. =/
any advice good!
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hi
i just joined this site minutes ago and i just wanted you to know that you will be the first person i'm advising. i joined this site because i enjoy listening to people and trying to help.
i was in a similar situation (well i Still Am) but any way i think its like this.
you go to the store and you see this shoes or dress that you really like you want it and will do whatever you could to get it and when you finally get it you like wonder why you wanted it so much, you don't clean the shoe as when you first bought it you don't walk careful in it anymore and that kind of stuff.
if you get where i'm coming from, he wanted you , he could not have called you his own so he did whatever he thought was necessary to get you and now that he has you he's like, "i already have her so its no big deal i don't have to call her as before", my girlfriend use to call me everyday before we came together but now she hardly do. don't let it bother you to much but try to go somewhere quiet with little distraction and talk to him. i could be wrong there could be something else but ask him what is the reason for him not calling tell him how you feel when he calls so that he knows and see what happens.
(After you try this tell me what happens and keep in touch)
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