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hmm where to begin...i saw this boy at one dance that i'd never seen before. he was really cute so i just smiled at him and he smiled back. at the time i didnt really think anything of him, just another cute boy at my school. it turns at he was a year older than me so i wouldnt have any classes with him. then as the year went on i started seeing him more and more and thinking about him more and more. then at a school event we finally talked for to the first time. he kept smiling the entire time. then like 2 weeks later a friend of mine who is also a year older than me borrowed on of my soccer hoodies that had my name on it and she had a study with him. after seeing it he started asking a bunch of questions about how long we knew each other and everything. then he told her i was cutee. :) then one day i got a pass to one of my friends studies and he was in it. needless to say i went like everyday. we talked and flirted a few times. and it started getting to a point where everytime i saw him he'd say "hey, whats up" and we were getting close but now its summer. and i dont see him much. i need to know if 1) hes interested and 2) how should i try to see him
im friends w/ him on myspace, i have his screen name, and one of my friends is dating his best friend, but i dont want to come on too strong. help meee please !
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awwww....(sorry about that....) thats really cool and i'd definately say he's into you. i hate it when you get a good thing going with someone and then when summer comes around things just die down. you should definately try to just keep in contact with him so he doesnt think you dont want to chat. if your nervous about asking to see him you just have to take a deep breath and do it. you never know, he's probably just waiting to hear from you. :)
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"i need to know if 1) hes interested"
That made me laugh. You aren't looking into your own question very deeply.
When someone asks questions about you and comments on you being "cute," generally that means they're interested.
Since it's summer your chances of seeing him have dropped greatly. You're probably only going to see him by running into him. You'll have to wait for the new year to start.
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hey,
ok i think what i had would have been better but something happened and i can't write exactly write what i had before i actually don't want to write again but any way i was saying something like this:
i think you should tell him how you feel to often we feel certain way about people and we don't say anything and when someone else comes along and expresses their feelings for that person and end up being with that person we wanna hate. all i'm saying is that you should tell him how you feel bofore someone else does and things become more complicated for you, make it clear that you just wanna know if he feels the same too.
(keep in touch)
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aww thats so cute! okay so here are the facts from what you described: he definitely likes you, hes interested in getting to know you, he's willing to make an effort for you.
i think you should strike up a conversation on AIM or myspace and casually ask him what he's doing this summer. its really important to ease your way in so that you don't sound too forward. then ask him if he's free on so-and-so day. and then you have a date!
i hope i helped you and good luck with your man
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