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Ok, well i just started liking this boy. He's only one year older than me (im 14/f. )and really cute. I can't help but notice the little things he does,and how funny he is! well anyways, i really want to get to know him more/notice me. (i'm not going to change for him or anything like that.) The problem is he's kind of in a different,well,clique? you could say. He's amazing,soo my question is,how to i get him to notice me?! how can i get to know him and joke around with him?

find something your both interested in and go with that. if your not so sure what kind of things he likes his friends are usually full of info. :)
-good luck

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You know the drill, a family members making cake, or bacon, the smell is so powerful its almost impossible to not smell.

So you take a deep breath inhaling the fantastic smell right before you ask "whats cookin'?"

Anyways, is it possible that when you took that deep breath that you've inhaled calories?

I know the amounts are insignificant if any, but is it possible?

straight up if calories were inhailable i would be morbidly obese. i dont believe you could actually inhale calories. when you smell something "good" it sends certain signal to your body which makes you think yummmmmmm.....but thats all it is just a signal to your brain nothing more.

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ok i know these questions are always on here and people are starting to get tired of them, so i'm sorry. i was just wondering how to loose 10 pounds asap. i'm about 5'3 1/2" and i'm 137 pounds. i would like to lose at least 10 pounds. mostly in my lower abs because its just gross all my fat is there. i do 60 crunches every day before i go to sleep but that doesnt seem to work for me. any ideas how i can lose the weight? thankss.

there is no "fast" efficiant way to loose that many pounds unless your planning on losing that kind of wieght in a unhealthy way. what i like to do is a stretching type yoga that stretches your lower body. another thing is leg-lifts. those for me are most efficient. good luck

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Hey everyone,

I've come to the realization that I should probably just get over my guy friend that I like a lot. I always thought that maybe him and his girlfriend would end, but its up to their 6th month together, and when he's on the phone with her thats the only thing he talks about. I text him a lot, and we always had been good friends since 3 years ago but since he has been going out with his girlfriend we've kinda slipped. I'd just like to know what I can do to get him out of my head, to stop looking at his myspace and texting him and basicially just torturing myself!

Any advice would be helpful.
Thanks so much

to get over someone you've had your eye on for a long time is hard and its cool that your taking the sain aprouch and not trying to split them up (or kill her), you need to see him as one of your good friends instead of your long time crush. if you can do that then eventually thats all you'll see him as but untill you can fully recover i wouldnt go to his myspace or anything like that untill you have a grip on your feelings so your not killing yourself in his pressence.

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Okay, I just watched Premonition with Sandra Bullock and Julian McMahon, and I don't really understand it. Is it about believing in something even though its gone? Or, what? I really just don't understand it. I wanna hear your opinion.

to make a long explanation short its about a wife trying to save her husband from dying but in the end he dies because she tried to control something that was completely out of her control.

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So i have this group of friends called the FOXY 4. We hang out and do everything together. This girl who just dumped her like last 2 friends wants to hang out with us because she just got back from her long vacation, because she was homesick and stuff. All she does is talk about herself. She is soooo self centered. Like today on my friend's bday, she bought herself 2 pairs of earrings, refused to go where my friend wanted, kept making everyone comment her on her outfit and her stupid sign that she made that said " happy bday BLAH BLAH". I just want to get rid of her without killing our friendship, but making it so she doesn't call us everyday.

how do i make her take a hint?!?
I need some useful " how to dump the friend" stuff!! My friends feel the same way, but we want to let her off easy so we're still like a little group during the school year.

i dont blame you, she sounds like a handful. you need to tell her about the stuff that she does that bothers you. you cant just "dump" a friend but you can try to work with her. if she still acts like that then tell her you dont want to hang with her when she acts like that.

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okay so i just started to hang out with this guy (we're not going out. i've only made out with him once) and im pretty sure he's more into me than i am to him. hes at the beach and he told me that the stars were really beautiful and they reminded him of me.
now as cute as that sounds, im really not into cheezy things like that. hes also in a band which might be a reason for this whole passionate thing.
how do i deal with this? do i tell him straight up he's too sensitive?

i mean we only talked a bit and he's kinda rushing things. help please!

well you have to tell him how you feel cause it wouldnt be fair to him if you didnt. just let him down nicely and tell him to slow down a bit. if he cares enough he'll understand and go at your pace.

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16/f i really hurt my 2 best friends very badly (emotionally). i was just recently diagnosed with schitzonfrenia, anxiety, depression and my 2 friends got involved with it. i never had a good realtionship with my family and the 2 most importnant ppl to me are my friends. they absoutly hate menow and will not speak to me. weve been best friends for like 5 years and we are together every single day all day long. its so hard to exept theyll never be my friends again. i never ment to hurt them, but they dont undertsnad im sick, but im still the same old person i always was (i havent changed, i just hurt them *not gunna say what happened*)it was bad tho. how do i deal with out them when my whole entire life revolved around them =[ please help

i'd tell them how important they are to you and maybe explain your sickness to them a little so that they can understand a little more of what happened between you guys. i doubt that after how long you guys have been friends they cant ever forgive you even if it was really bad.

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Myself - 16/f
My Mom - 51
My Dad - 60

I realize my parents are getting older, and it scares me to no end. My parents haven't smoked for years but they used to, my dad needs knee surgery but won't get it and they both get very little exercise. My mom walks a lot, but my dad really doesn't do anything. Every time we go out, I can't help but worry that something might happen to them.

Everytime I think of something happening to them, which is everyday, I just start crying. I haven't even seen another teenager for the last two weeks because I have been spending everyday with my parents. I take as much time as I can to be with them but it never feels like enough. I'm so scared for them and it makes me so emotional.

Please help me find a way to cope with this, thanks. The one thing is, I will never talk to them about it or go to a therapist. If that was what you wanted to tell me, sorry in advance.

there's no way of having this problem solved if your not willing to tell your parents, especialy you father, how much it scares you that they dont try to take better care of themselves. sorry but i dont like admiting what scares me either but this might be you chance to make a difference.

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So I love my boyfriend very much. When something is wrong with me, I cannot open up to him. I have tried SO hard and I cant even force myself to say antyhign and it causes so many problems and guilt. He thinks its because my last relationship was abusive emotionally and so i just shut down. How can I fix this? I want to takl to him about everything!

wow, he thinks you were in an abusive relationship? first of all i would tell him that you weren't in that sort of relationship and let him know you just have a hard time sharing your feelings. easy enough right? then you have to make an effort of talking. you dont have to do it right away just slowly will probably do. but it isnt fair to your boyfriend if you dont just open up a little. sure its scary but after a while it wont be so bad.

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I have a 5-year old Yellow Lab, and I was wondering if I gave her a bath, would it be okay just to use "people" shampoo? We don't have any dog shampoo in the house, & my dad is too cheap to go out and buy any.

Would she be okay?

lol your dad sounds exactly like my dad. i use human shampoo on my dog all the time. the best kind i think is one that gives hair shine. it makes the dogs coat look really healthy.

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last summer was the best summer of my life i met the lov of my life we were best frinds for the whole summer and we knew we liked eachother everything was so perfect then he aske dme out in october and we've been going out for 9 months now las month i cheated on him and everythings so different now well even befor ei cheated on him things changed we still love eachother to deatha nd we cant be without eachother but last summer was awesome becasue we were always having fun and now we argue a lot how do we bring back how it used to be? please help

i hate to sound like Oprah but you guys NEED to talk to eachother about your feelings and whats been going on between you two. those problems arent just going to go away with time.

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I'm coming onto the 1 year anniversary of my fiancee's death. She was 27, but after 1 year, I still can't get over her. I had waited almost 30 years for someone like her, and she was the love of my life. I'm a wreck, and I don't know what to do. Is this normal? What can I do?

damn i am really sorry for you loss. it's completely normal for you to feel lost about this sort of thing cause a death of a loved one is hard and everyone has their own pace of healing. dont think that just because it's been a certain length of time that your just going to get over it. its better for you just to let yourself have time. i am truly sorry for your loss.

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lol this is gonna seem really weird but.. i just want to flash someone. i know i cant but i just want to idk its weird so how do imake this "feeling" go away?
lol thnx

i can honestly say that is really wierd but i luv wierd. all i can say is if your dead set on it and thats all you can think about 24/7, which i dont think you do, just be cautious of your actions cause you dont want to do something you'll regret.

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hmm where to begin...i saw this boy at one dance that i'd never seen before. he was really cute so i just smiled at him and he smiled back. at the time i didnt really think anything of him, just another cute boy at my school. it turns at he was a year older than me so i wouldnt have any classes with him. then as the year went on i started seeing him more and more and thinking about him more and more. then at a school event we finally talked for to the first time. he kept smiling the entire time. then like 2 weeks later a friend of mine who is also a year older than me borrowed on of my soccer hoodies that had my name on it and she had a study with him. after seeing it he started asking a bunch of questions about how long we knew each other and everything. then he told her i was cutee. :) then one day i got a pass to one of my friends studies and he was in it. needless to say i went like everyday. we talked and flirted a few times. and it started getting to a point where everytime i saw him he'd say "hey, whats up" and we were getting close but now its summer. and i dont see him much. i need to know if 1) hes interested and 2) how should i try to see him
im friends w/ him on myspace, i have his screen name, and one of my friends is dating his best friend, but i dont want to come on too strong. help meee please !

awwww....(sorry about that....) thats really cool and i'd definately say he's into you. i hate it when you get a good thing going with someone and then when summer comes around things just die down. you should definately try to just keep in contact with him so he doesnt think you dont want to chat. if your nervous about asking to see him you just have to take a deep breath and do it. you never know, he's probably just waiting to hear from you. :)

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okay i'm very responsible and love kids so i started putting flyers in peoles mailbox's that have kids i did it 6 times and only 1 person responded and they havent called once so how can i get more costomers?

if you really want to advertise your best bet is to go to the local newspaper and have them put in an add for you. it doesnt usually cost anything but some papers do charge you for advertising but the cost isnt that much.

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I was just wondering..
If four people are in a car and three of them are smoking weed.. does the fourth one [the one not smoking] end up with any of the affects?

hmmm...i guess it depends on if the windows are up or down. if the windows are up then thiers a good chance the 4th person in the car will breath the smoke in. but if the windows are down then the chance is less likely.

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i feel like im nto havign as good of a summer as i should i believe i deserve to have the best times and go out and have a lot of fun and share new experiances but this summeris boring and i feel liek its going by to fast an im not getting as much out of it as i should its not fun what can i do to have the best rest of the summer

I know exactly how you feel. if you dont know what to do during the summer than try doing some community work like i did. it makes you feel better about yourself and your also helping someone out. maybe you could get some friends to volunteer with you. but if your not into that sort of thing than try hooking up with some friends.

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