last summer was the best summer of my life i met the lov of my life we were best frinds for the whole summer and we knew we liked eachother everything was so perfect then he aske dme out in october and we've been going out for 9 months now las month i cheated on him and everythings so different now well even befor ei cheated on him things changed we still love eachother to deatha nd we cant be without eachother but last summer was awesome becasue we were always having fun and now we argue a lot how do we bring back how it used to be? please help
kc answered Saturday July 14 2007, 11:48 pm: You can't. You cheated on him.
Which ruined your trust.
Trust is a huge part of a relationship.
Until you prove to him and you build that trust back up, things won't be the same.
I know, trust me.
You need to prove to him that it was a stupid mistake, and that he is the only one for you.
Teenagerr answered Saturday July 14 2007, 11:10 pm: I don't think you can really bring it back to how it used to be. You must have known while you were cheating on him that things had changed. If you really loved him as much as you're telling us, you wouldn't have cheated on him. I'm not surprised things are different, seeing as you broke the trust in that relationship. Maybe you can make a scrapbook or something from last summer to show him how things used to be and tell him [and mean it when you say it] that you'll never cheat on him again. Tell him you miss how it was before and that you don't want to fight anymore.
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