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Many enemies
I got into a major fight with one of my friends and then all her friends turned againest me, and they were my friends to. I really like them and have said sorry. One of her friends have always hated me to. How can i make them like me, if i don't make up then I know there will be drama next year. How can i stop all this drama and resolve things?
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You cannot make them like you as that is always a decision they or anyone makes alone. You can however, stop the drama. You have to stop letting what they say or do bother you. They want a reaction and to see they've got to you.
Don't give them one or anything new they can use to start shit. Ignore them and go about your normal business. If they talk to you be cordial but don't hang around. Once they see that you don't give a shit about what they think or have to say about you and that you aren't giving them more ammunition they'll move on.
Nobody can turn other people against someone else. Those people must have been incredibly weak and followers in order to do what this other person says. They have a mind--they didn't opt to use it and make a choice not to partake knowing this is wrong.
None of these people ever were your friends in the first place. Nothing was ever solid with them even though you might thinks so. As hard as it is don't waste your time with them and move on to people who genuinely like you. Once you do it these bozos will stop bothering you as they have no real cause to continue bullying you then.
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Why would you want to be friends with them when there's not that mutual attraction? I know you think life just ended for you because of the friendships lost, but this is only an opportunity to meet people who will value you. They'll drop the grudge at some point, but you can't always fast-forward the process. Just let it go. Don't focus on them. You'll be alright! =]
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You can't make anybody like you, but you could try being nicer and saying nice things. Try to have a sunny disposition. To stop drama, just go with the flow. Like I said, try to have a sunny disposition. I have a sunny disposition, and it seems to make my life easier and less... Dramatic. I hope this helped! :D
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