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too sensitive guy
okay so i just started to hang out with this guy (we're not going out. i've only made out with him once) and im pretty sure he's more into me than i am to him. hes at the beach and he told me that the stars were really beautiful and they reminded him of me.
now as cute as that sounds, im really not into cheezy things like that. hes also in a band which might be a reason for this whole passionate thing.
how do i deal with this? do i tell him straight up he's too sensitive?
i mean we only talked a bit and he's kinda rushing things. help please!
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This guy seems like he really likes you! Guys are usually just as nervous about telling girls their feelings as most of us girls are about telling them. Chances are, he's so stunned by your brilliance (ok maybe not take it that far) that he cant help saying cheesy things like that. I say give him another chance after you talk to him and say that you want to slow things down. Tell him that you want to go to one of his band practices or something. Spend enough time with this guy after you ask him to slow things down and see what happens! you never know who you'll find repulsive in the beginning and love in the end
lots of love,
leah
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well you have to tell him how you feel cause it wouldnt be fair to him if you didnt. just let him down nicely and tell him to slow down a bit. if he cares enough he'll understand and go at your pace.
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hahah i know how you feel i used to date someone kinda like this and I HATE sensitive guys, i really do not know why but i just do haha. ok but what i did is we were talking on the phone and i asked him what things about a girl did he like and then he told me and then i go ok what DONT you like in a girl..and he told me. Then i told him what i like in a guy and wat I DIDNT LIKE in a guy. in the part were i told him about what i hated in guys, i told him i hated when guys say cheezy,sensitive things and well i think he got the point bc he stopped saying weird stuff like that. so i would try that and see if it works!
good luck and i hope i maybe helped!
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Just let him know that your not really into having a relationship with him.
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Honestly, I don't think he's rushing things, and he's definitely not being over-sensitive. All he said was "that the stars were really beautiful and they reminded him of you". Is that "rushing it", really? I don't think so.. but.. I'm going to stop my lecturing, and answer your question:
But if you think that he's rushing things and he's too sensitive, you should just tell him straight up. How else is he going to know how you feel? He surely can't read your mind ;]. But, you shouldn't be too rude about it. Just be honest [more with the rushing thing] and as nice [more with the sensitive thing] as you can about it. Everything should be fine, and hopefully he takes it well.
--Jack
(15/m)
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