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Ok. i like this guy... but he got out of a bad realationship not to long ago. From what i hear he likes me too. Do i ask him out? Do i wait for him to do it? Ohh.. Im 14 and imma girl.

Sorry I didn't answer this sooner. I think you should give him a little time, but definitely still talk to him. You can also comfort him too. :) If you know he likes you, don't wait for him to make the first move. If you wait too long, it could be too late. There's definitely nothing wrong with a girl making the first move. I think you should go for it! :) If you're ready, of course. I know it might be a little shallow if you get your friend(s) to ask him out for you, but maybe they can help you if you feel nervous or shy. If you need any more advice, feel free to inbox me! :)

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im turning 17 in a few days & im still a virgin.
i havent fooled around much either cause im waiting for the right guy i guess (not cause im ugly or something)
is this okaii? cause ive noticed that most girls start doing stuff when theyre like 14 and lose their virginity with 16.
:S

Of course it's all right! You want your first time to be special. :) and with someone you care for, and someone that cares for you back. I'm 14, (almost 15 :P), and yes, I find it pretty sad and pathetic when girls my age do things like THAT. :\ it's just unbelievable. Some even do it at age 13. There's nothing wrong with you still being a virgin. If you're ok with it, then you should be happy. Others might criticize you or make fun or you for still being a virgin, but it's whatever you know? Who cares about what they think. :) It shouldn't even matter what others would think about that.

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i dont understand how to use funformobile.com
i do everythin right, but then when i finally get it downloaded on my phone its not one of the options in my ringtones. so how do i use it as a ringtone !?

pleeease help, thanks :)

I have used that website before, it's pretty simple. Have you signed up for an account? If you do, you can search for ringtones, and it'll be sent to your phone in the form of a text message! Except the email you sign up with, that will be used to send things to your phone. I'm pretty sure it doesn't cost anything. The best thing about it, is that you don't need an internet plan on your phone to be able to download ringtones. :) If you need any more help, feel free to inbox me.... Also... it would help if you said what kind of phone you have?

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I found this dress:
http://www.promgirl.com/shop/viewitem-PD398840

i am obsessed, i love everything about it especially the color....but theres no way i can spend $250 on a dress. Can anyone please please please help me find an almost exact replica of this dress for cheaper (im looking at $150 at the absolute most i can spend)

thanks in advance

This was the closest I could find. :) and it's even red! :D

http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=dress%5Fdressy&product%5Fid=2065902111&Page=1

If you don't like it, you could also just try searching the internet, like on Google! You could narrow down your search results by including the word 'red' in your search.

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m/14

my gf lets me put my hand in her bra but its like im hurting her or something when i rub her (*) (*)s. does it hurt when guys feel a girl up there?

Umm, how exactly how you rubbing her? o.O No, it shouldn't actually hurt. The most it should do is tingle or arouse her or something. Maybe she's just really sensitive, or her breasts could be sore/tender since, they could be developing still. Have you asked her if it hurts, or has she told you?

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i have this black, right below the knee cocktail dress and i was wondering what halloween costume i could make out of it.... any ideas? its got crenolin so its kinda puffy

My friends and I are probably going to wear dresses and dress up as those girls in horror movies who get killed. xD If you get what I mean... I think we're gonna buy fake blood too (of course we aren't going to put blood on our dresses! Unless it's washable) If you aren't going trick-or-treating, then you can wear heels.... Otherwise, I wouldn't suggest it... x.x If you like that idea, maybe you could go to your nearest halloween store that has fake blood, or something you can make fake cuts/wounds/injuries with?

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At my shool, we're having decade day.

Its where you dress up as like, a hippie, or somthing old school

I'm not lookin' to go all out with it since I'm late, and it's TOMORROW and I can't really get props.

But I need some I deas.


I don't want to be a hippie either, it's not original and everyones going to be doing it.




haha.

Help?

80s day most definitely! :D
I love dressing up as the 80s hehe.
If you search for "80s styles" or "80s fashions" you will find TONS of ideas!

Some things you could wear if you wanted to dress up for the 80s would be legwarmers, over the shoulder shirts, leggings, side ponytails, neon colors....

Here are some websites that could help. :)

http://www.tripletsandus.com/80s/fashion.htm
http://www.liketotally80s.com/80s-fashion.html#
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1980s_in_fashion

If you want feathered hair, one day we had an 80s day at my school, and my friend had feathered bangs. What she simply did was curl her bangs a bit, spray hairspray in it, then mess it up with her hands if you get what I mean.

If you want any other 80s ideas, you can simply search it. :) Have fun!

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Alright here it goes.
I know that it's only the 27th of September and i usualy get my period around the end of the month but i am worried that i will not have it. But say i didn't have my period this month, does that nessacrely mean that i'm becoming pregnant?


Please help as soon as possible.

It would help to know when you first started your period, and if you're trying to imply that you've had sex.... If you DID have sex, and semen entered the vagina, then yes, you could possibly be pregnant. That doesn't necessarily mean you ARE pregnant though. You CANNOT become pregnant if semen doesn't come intact with/within the vaginal area. If you're really worried, take a pregnancy test, or get checked. In your first years of having a period, your period can be irregular. So that's also a possibility. Just wait until the end of the month, then you'll see if you're going to get your period or not. Just make sure not to freak out and immediately think you're pregnant, cause you may not be.

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Okay so a bunch of people
online have cool names like
CaitlynCatastrophe
or
ShadyShawna
And I wanted a name that would
go with Jordan.
Like Jordan''
and some J word for the ''.
thanks so much!
buyy

- Jordan Jackpot
- Jordan Junction
- Jordan Jacuzzi
- Jiggy Jordan (haha :P)
- Jordan Jaguar
- Jammin' Jordan
- Jazzy Jordan
- Jumpin' Jordan
- Jolly Jordan
- Joyful Jordan
- Jubilent Jordan
- Juicy Jordan
- Jordan Jamboree
- Jampacked Jordan

Easy.

http://words-that-start-with-the-letter-j.wordover.com/p/j*/

:)

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17/F.
Okay so i jus started datin this guy from another school cause he asked me out n i like hiim so i said yes...well that was only a week ago but i dont like datin. at all. i like to be able to do what i want when i want to n talk to whoever i want. i like the "im not datin you but basically am" kinda thing bc it doesnt restrict. dont get me wrong i like my bf a lot but i dont know!! we talked for bout a month before we started datin n i saw some odd things he did but didnt think he was a weird kid. Well now im thinkin he might be on the weird side. ahh! i dont know some things he does is jus straight weird n immature n im thinkin really? the times i really like him is when its jus me n him wi no one else round cuz he doesnt do all that weird stuff. i mean if he does its not over the top. i have my weird side too but i dont want him to scare me away wi all of the weirdness if u understand what im tryin to say. Its jus not like me to date but i like him a lot n didnt wanna lose hims so jus said yes but now i dont know if that was a mistake. AHH! help please!

What you described, would be called 'friends with benefits'. I understand how you feel though, because that's how I kinda feel right now. But you should've gotten to know him better before you went out with him. I know you really liked him and all, but 'hooking up' isn't the way to go when it comes to dating. What kinds of weird things does he do? It would have helped more if you said what he does. It depends on what 'weird' things you're talking about, but if you truly like him, then you should just accept him for who he is. Again, you should've gotten to know him better before you said yes to him. I was in the same situation as you, a few months back. I had a boyfriend, but I couldn't help but to think he was an immature douche, and really weird. o.O Just think about this. Do you REALLY like him? Ways you can tell, are by if you can imagine spending a long time with him, you absolutely adore him, you get a nervous/excited/anxious feeling whenever you think about him or whenever someone mentions him, you get butteflies in your stomach just thinking about him, you think about him all the time, you like him for who he is.... You know, stuff like that. There's a lot more ways to tell, but I'm assuming you get the point. :) Now, it IS possible for you to be attracted to someone, but not 'like-like' them, if you get what I mean. You might really like someone, but it could turn out you guys just don't have chemistry or anything.

I hope you can get your mind straight, but just take time to think about it. Don't rush, and don't avoid the situation.

:)

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I cant help myself over liking my friend. Ive tried ignoring him but i always look @ him n try to talk to him i just love being near him. I thought about dropping him n telling him off for that joke he did to me but hes the type of guy who would look u in the face n laugh if u tried to talk crap to him. Hes one of those funny guys who probably wouldnt even be able to shut his mouth to save his life N the worst thing is i have in my gym class tomorrow y is it so hard to face him or get over him?! im so confused???

So are you saying you're into the funny guys? :P

I think the obvious reason for why it's hard for you to face him, or get over him is because you truly like him! :) There's no shame to that, you don't have to avoid your true feelings. Is there a reason why you want to get over him? Because if there isn't, you should totally just keep getting to know him, and so that he can get to know you better too. Don't give up, keep trying. If he doesn't, or never likes you back, then so be it. But don't give up because you'll never think it'll happen, anything's possible, and you'll never know until you try. If he doesn't like you the same way, you should just get over him. It's nothing to get too down about. I KNOW this is so cliche, but I'm sure you've heard of the saying, "there are plenty of fish in the sea".

Whether this is just a small crush, or a big one, I can see that you like him, or at least attracted to him. :) Best of luck to you! and if you ever need any advice, feel free to inbox me. C:

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if i want to send an image to my phone, is there a way to do this, without having to pay for it?

This should also probably help you. :)

http://www.sms411.net/2006/07/how-to-send-email-to-phone.html

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In the movie "Click" with Adam Sandler, there is a scene where his son Ben is getting married. Right before the band sings "Linger" by the Cranberries, there is a jazz song sung by a man. I can't remember any lyrics to the song to find it on youtube! Does anyone know what this Jazz song is?

p.s. There are only like 10 seconds of the Jazz song in the movie, if you don't know its name, the lyrics would be fantastic. You guys ROCK!

Try this! :)

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0389860/soundtrack

Just type the song names into Youtube or something, and hopefully you'll find the song you're looking for. :)

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...as more than a friend?

We're 17 by the way

If these don't help, then they should at least a little. :)

http://www.wikihow.com/Know-if-a-Guy-Likes-You
http://www.wikihow.com/Tell-if-a-Guy-Likes-You-More-Than-a-Friend

(Haha, I know, Wikihow, 'wow' right? xD)

Just keep in mind that all of those things are NOT 100% true. They can be, but not all the time.

Some things that popped into my mind instantly were:

- Does he try to hang out with you a lot?
- Does he talk to your friends a lot, or sometimes ask them things about you?
- Does he try to touch you? (not inappropriately of course!)
- Does he ask you for hugs after you guys leave somewhere?
- Does he act differently around you than around all his other friends who are girls?
- Does he call his other friends hot, sexy, fine, but call you pretty, cute, and beautiful?
- If he sees you somewhere (say it's at school in the hallways), does he walk over to you, just to talk to you and hang out with you?
- Does he stare at you whenever you're talking to other guys?
- Does he compliment you a lot?
- Is he really concerned about you, if he thinks you're in a bad mood or having a bad day?

I could go on, but I'll stop at that lol.
Good luck, and if you need any other advice, feel free to inbox me! :)

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f-14

ok so like i kind of got drunk at a party i went to @ this guys house, but it was the type of drunk to where i still remember what happened and so i had sex with this random guy but he was really hot. a few days ago he enrolled in my school and every girl wants him. he put a note in my locker (cheezy) and it said- "i hope you remember that night at the party, your the only thing iwant right now." and a lot of people tell me that he stares at me all the time, but i dont like him,, and he kind of scares me because at the party he was really demanding and rough. wht do i do???????

For now, you should just ignore him, or better yet, let him KNOW that you aren't interested back. Hopefully he'll leave you alone. Also be sure not to be alone around this guy. If he knows that you aren't interested, then he might back off. If that's not the case, then unfortunately, he might think you're playing 'hard to get' and be even MORE interested in you... You shouldn't let him bother you though. If he is making you feel uncomfortable, or even touches you in ANY way that makes you uncomfortable, that could be considered as sexual harassment. Even if he leaves notes for you; if he is saying things in the note that makes you feel uncomfortable, that would still be considered sexual harassment. If he doesn't back off, you should tell one or a couple of close friends just to be safe, and tell a trusted adult. If that doesn't work out, imediately talk to your counselor. Trust me, you can't just avoid this situation. You HAVE to do something about it. If you do end up talking to the counselor, then your counselor will do their best to resolve everything. Again, just be sure you clearly state that you're not interested in him.

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there's a song on the real world cancun that plays on the last episode after ayiiia and joey hook up when ayiiia is crying and the words i picked up were "they say that it's life, the ache and the strife, but who are they to say, when it's going that way. it's all coming down, it's all coming down." and i CANNOT find out who sings it or what it's called for the life of me and it seems like other people can't either because i've been searching it forever now. so if you know anything about it PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me because i'm dying to know this song.
thank you in advance!!!
:)

Try this. :)
http://www.mtv.com/ontv/dyn/rw_cancun/show_music.jhtml

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Ok, so I just spent about ten minutes just going through a million different links to try and see what actually happened at the vma's but I can't find it. I want to see the actual vma's replay of the whole thing but I cant find it anywhere, all that keeps coming up are like blogs and responses to what happened...can anyone send me a link to the actual video please

http://www.mtv.com/videos/misc/435995/taylor-swift-wins-best-female-video.jhtml#id=1620605

There may be a short ad in the beginning though.

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I go through anime series pretty damn fast... and now I need another one to watch! Any recommendations? I've already seen Death Note, Sailor Moon, The Melancholy of Haruhi Suzamya, D N Angel, Eureka 7, Elfin Lied, Fruits Basket, Ranma 1/2, Chobits, Wolfs Rain, Lucky Star, Blood+, Naruto, Cardcaptors, Mew Mew Power, Pokemon, Bleach, and Ghost Hunt. I'm sure there's more.. but I can't remember! Aaanyways.. I'm really into actionish romancy things. I get so involved..

Thank-you in advance!

You should try this website. :)

http://www.animecrunch.com/

You can go to the forums if you want to ask about good anime series, or to read reviews.

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Do any women in New Jersey over the age of 18 have the guts to kick me in the balls?

I bet $500 that no women have the guts to kick me in the nuts without feeling bad about it. The same day that happens is the same day I'll put on panties and dance to a Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera, Rihanna, Katy Perry, or Pussycat Dolls song. That's how sure I am! You can pick out the song and panties, I don't care!

I'm pretty sure no women can do this because most are too wimpy and would feel guilty about causing me pain.

I agree with Rahzie.

Wow. Why would, and how could this question be approved?

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I know this isn't about sex but i didn't no what to put it under lol.


So I think Obama should have never became president
I think hi is an idiot.

So i want to know people who did vote for him why you did what were your reasons?
Cause if you think hes ganna pay for your bills and provide for you hes not.

I just wanna know everyones reason for why they voted for him or why you didn't vote for him.
Also a lot of people including me, Think he manly won cause he is black and i think if that is true witch i think it is i think thats wrong.
My resons are because I think racism is wrong and if people vote for him only because he's black just means your being racist. Now you might note be but your basing your decision on the color of his skin i and i think thats horriable.
I bet if he was a white man he would not of one or he wouldn't of one for the reasons he did.

PLEASE DO NOT TAKE THIS OVENSIVLY IM JUST SPREEDING MY OPINION ON WHAT I BELIEVIE AND I WANT TO KNOW WHAT PEOPLE BELIEVE OR THINK.

If you think Obama is in idiot, then I'm sorry. But how old are you? Were you old enough to even vote in the election? If not, then you should just stop complaining/whining. Some people say that you don't have the right to complain on who's president if you didn't even vote. (In case you're wondering, no, I'm not old enough to vote yet.)

I don't get why people hate Obama so much, and keep complaining about him. I mean, I do understand, but I think people should just get over it. He won, because OBVIOUSLY, the majority of people voted for him. 'Majority rules'... right?

I don't think he won because he's black though. People voting for him because he is black would just be ridiculous. American has come a long way from the past, but we STILL have a long way to go when it comes to racism. This isn't about racism, but about gender. Hilary Clinton ran for president, but people didn't vote for her to represent the Republican Party because she's a WOMAN. I don't think it would be any different, whether if Obama was white, or maybe if McCain was black. Who cares about race, just focus on what each candidate believes in.

Do you have any other reasons why you dislike Obama? People who dislike Obama should have good and valid reasons why they do. The same goes for if you approve/disapprove of Obama or McCain. I think it's stupid when people approve or disapprove of someone like a president when they don't have any logical reasoning behind their opinions. Sure, you may dislike and disapprove of Obama, but how can you expect him to be PERFECT. Nobody is this so-called 'perfect'. Do you really expect one person to be able to please EVERYONE? To satisfy and make everyone happy, and everyone lives happily ever after? It's just not going to happen. Whether it be one single person, like Obama, McCain, or any other president. People are going to agree and disagree on different things. Therefore, not everyone is going to be happy with Obama's decisions, let alone any other future president's decisions. Obama has barely been in office yet. Well, if you look at how long he's been in office to the total of 4 years being in office, then he's barely gotten started yet.

I don't think Obama is doing this on purpose. I'm sure he has reasoning behind his actions. Do you honestly think Obama is trying to 'screw up' on purpose? I find it amazing that people think he wants to doom America. It's not like he WANTS to fail.

You're probably going to rate me low on my answer, but considering the fact that you disapprove Obama, you should still rate answers fairly. Rating Obama-supporters low, and McCain-supporters high wouldn't be fair at all. You'd almost be contradicting yourself when you say it's not fair for people to vote for someone based on their race, but it's ok for to rate based on whether they agree with someone's opinion or not? I mean, you DID say you wanted people's opinions right? Well I am sharing my opinion, and so are others.

People should just accept the fact that Obama is now our president. Obama as our president is REALITY now.

If you think all the black people voted for Obama, then you are wrong. I have a good friend that is black, but she strongly supported McCain. I also had other friend's who were of different race strongly support Obama. I really don't think race had anything to do with the results in 2008's election. People 18 years old and over should be smart and mature enough not to base their vote off of race.

If I was able to vote, I would vote for Obama. Why? Because I agree with what he believes in, and his view points. I don't agree with EVERYTHING Obama belives in, but I feel like I agree more with him than McCain.

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