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still a virgin
im turning 17 in a few days & im still a virgin.
i havent fooled around much either cause im waiting for the right guy i guess (not cause im ugly or something)
is this okaii? cause ive noticed that most girls start doing stuff when theyre like 14 and lose their virginity with 16.
:S
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It's not just okay, it's a very good thing. When you find the right guy he'll be happy. Guys seem to really like virgins.
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Ok comming from a guy here.. when I was your age I was very sexualy active. All I wanted was sex, now I am 26 and regret alot of what I have done. So in my opinion I the longer you wait the better. Wait till u find someone you want to spen the rest of ur life with, if you can. Girls thats start that young have issues.
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I wouldn't let their comments bother me. A lot of those girls will probably end up with stds or an unexpected pregnancy anyway. Your good, and you'll lose it soon enough. Just make sure it's with someone you really care for. Its seems like you have a good head on your shoulders. Keep up the good work.
xoxo,
dottie4
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Of course it's all right! You want your first time to be special. :) and with someone you care for, and someone that cares for you back. I'm 14, (almost 15 :P), and yes, I find it pretty sad and pathetic when girls my age do things like THAT. : it's just unbelievable. Some even do it at age 13. There's nothing wrong with you still being a virgin. If you're ok with it, then you should be happy. Others might criticize you or make fun or you for still being a virgin, but it's whatever you know? Who cares about what they think. :) It shouldn't even matter what others would think about that.
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In my opinion i think its good that your waiting for someone special to share this with. Most people just throw it around like its nothing. Well it is something. You want your first time doing things to be with someone whom you care about and they care about you.
Dont worry what everyone else has done it has nothing to do with what you want and believe. and no one is going to care if you have done stuff or not.
Hope i helped =]
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