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How to get rid of her


Question Posted Saturday July 14 2007, 3:16 am

So i have this group of friends called the FOXY 4. We hang out and do everything together. This girl who just dumped her like last 2 friends wants to hang out with us because she just got back from her long vacation, because she was homesick and stuff. All she does is talk about herself. She is soooo self centered. Like today on my friend's bday, she bought herself 2 pairs of earrings, refused to go where my friend wanted, kept making everyone comment her on her outfit and her stupid sign that she made that said " happy bday BLAH BLAH". I just want to get rid of her without killing our friendship, but making it so she doesn't call us everyday.

how do i make her take a hint?!?
I need some useful " how to dump the friend" stuff!! My friends feel the same way, but we want to let her off easy so we're still like a little group during the school year.

<3 fed up =)


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Clover9 answered Sunday July 15 2007, 7:45 pm:
i dont blame you, she sounds like a handful. you need to tell her about the stuff that she does that bothers you. you cant just "dump" a friend but you can try to work with her. if she still acts like that then tell her you dont want to hang with her when she acts like that.

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Trina_boo answered Saturday July 14 2007, 11:06 am:
you and your friends tell her how you feel about her so you can let her know how she gets on yall nerves and always bring attention to herself..
If you want to let her down easy what you can do is let her know that the things she do is not cool... and what she did on her friends birthday was not even good because she spent earrings on herself when she could've have spent some on her birthday....
she seems stubborn,conceited,obsess with herself, and has wayyyyyyyyyy to much confidence which is good in her case....

BUT she is trying to hard to impress people...
and wants wayyyy to much attention..

i mean come on... it was somebodys birthday... n yet she still wanted the attention when it wasnt even her day to recieve....


let her know everything that is causing yall to be fed up..
becuase real friends tell the truth..
although the truth hurts

hope i helped

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