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i love him but he doesnt love me


Question Posted Saturday July 14 2007, 3:23 am

hey!theres this guy I like himmm veryy much and all but he doesnt like me plus he has a gf.I know I have to 4get about him cause that situation makes my life miserable(I cry almost every day).the problem is I dont know what to do to move on???everything I tried so far didnt work ..I still love him the same way and even more..help me please I really cant live that way anymore.

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laceyrose answered Monday July 16 2007, 6:05 am:
i went through this exact same problem for about 5 months and my life is so much better now. yes it is good for those ((few)) times to grieve and have those really hard cries but you know it is just time to move on. discover something that you are good at, take up a new hobby, get a job, stay busy! it will keep your mind off of him. also get social and make new friends!! don't linger in the problem, pick yourself up and move on!!

ps- listening to happier music also helps.

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DrPlayer answered Saturday July 14 2007, 8:23 pm:
Know I am gonna be a little tough but trust me it will work if you listen to me. A lot of my friends have this problem so I want you to be strong and listen to all I have to say. First of all you need to get over yourself. Crying everyday over a guy that has a girlfriend is just pathetic. Sorry I had to say it for your own good. Second it is not love you are feeling just mild infatuation is all. To get over him find someone else you like better. He's out there you probably won't even have to look very hard. Remember infatuation cannot be created or destroyed only changes in form. Find someone else to pour your infatuation on, someone that will do the same to you. Listen you are probably in high school and don't need to be worried about these things. Live life and have fun. By the way don't become his fiends. It won't work I promise you that.

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memoriesxforeverx answered Saturday July 14 2007, 12:17 pm:
okay well it is always a little hard to move on especially to someone you really care about. but just think that he is living his life with his girlfriend and that you shouldnt stop and just wait for him, you should be living your life and enjoy it.
hope i helped :]

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pacsunnnx3 answered Saturday July 14 2007, 11:03 am:
the best thing to do to get over someone is to move onto someone else. i know you probably can't picture yourself liking anyone else, but believe me you can and will. start talking to other guys. you'll find one who you like and who likes you back. good luck, hope i helped<3

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Trina_boo answered Saturday July 14 2007, 10:57 am:
Hey there..
I can tell you it may take some time to forget about him and i know that is what you didnt want to hear...
But what i can say is that you can just connect with him in a "friend" way..
If he doesnt like you why try to impress him he has a lover alredy but you can try to become his best friend... that way you can ge over loving him in a bf.. gf way and more like a friend way...


hope i helped

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