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ok so the other day i gave this guy head...and every since then my throat has been hurting SOO bad! its been like 4 days...but i'm not sure if i'm just sick or if its from that, because i don't actually feel sick at all. is it normal for that to happen after you do that?

It really depends...was he using a condom? If so, you probably just have a sore throat. If not, you probably have some sort of STD. See the doc immmediately!!!

I have a dresser,bed, a bookshelf that's attached to my wall and a desk. My furniture is like paper wood color and I really really hate it. I was wondering if I should throw away my nancy drew and crappy books like that, but my mom won't let me, what should I do. My closet doesn't have room for my shoes either. I don't know what to do. If I put my magazines on my books shelf I have over 50 fashion mag. my dad said my bookshelf will have a breakdown.Please Help I rate really high for any answer that helps!

I would suggest getting colored lightbulbs. They have these lightbulbs with pink glass instead of clear, and that could give your room a different glow. The best brand is called "fiesta." If you don't like seeing pink wherever you go, you could get a lamp and put a colored lightbulb in and just use regular lights for the rest of the room. About those crappy books, you can donate them to some charity. For your evil-looking paper wood furniture you could edge it with a pink boa and change the slip cover to a different fabric or color. And you can spread glitter and beads throughout your room...

I really hate my body even though I'm skinny and some girls envy me. I'm too short for my age. I'm 13 and I'm 5'1 and when I get jeans I can't fit into them because I'm skinny but also because I have a regular butt. My mom says it's because of my gene! I wanna gain some pounds but I can't.

PLEASE HELP! I Rate high!

It sounds like you might have a thyroid problem. Your thyroid is what controls how fast your body burns your food. Some people are super
super skinny because they burn food too quickly and some people are obese because they burn food too slow. Check with a doc. You can get pills that help you gain weight. But you might not.

P.S. 5'1 is not too short for your age! I was 5'0 when I was 12 and there where a lot of people shorter than me. Also, remember that Elizabeth Taylor was 4'11 and she was one of the most stylish and sexy people in the movie industry.

Hey I always get eyeliner that smudges.... any ideas for one that doesn't or very little smudge?

most liquid eyeliner doesn't smudge. So try a liquid eyeliner at a drugstore or sumthin that says "waterproof" or says it doesn't smudge.

My guy friend is seriously considering breaking up with his girlfriend. I really like him & he told my friend he would date me if he broke up with his girlfriend. The only problem is that my best friend likes me too. What should I do?

Go out with him! He likes you, right?! Just tell your best friend "Hey, you're really cool and you're a great friend, and I don't want it to go further than that."

is there any way of knowing if your hymen has broken yet?? i want to have sex, but im afraid it will be embarassing if it hasnt--i use tampons and i play a lot of sports... but is there any way of knowing if its "popped" yet?? thanks!

If you use tampons, your hymen has absolutely popped.

Im going to the movies with my boyfriend on Friday, all we do is hold hands and a couple times before he put his arm around me. How do I know if he wants to kiss me but is too nervous?

Well why don't you kiss him? After all, he's your boyfriend...

hey is it really bad for your body when u start to eat less? im about 5'5 and i think im like 110-113 lbs and i want to start eating healthier foods and just eating a little less. Its not like im doing a crash diet or anything or turning anerexic. im j/w can that do any damage to my body? oh and also im taking medicine for lyme disease, that wont make it any worse will it?
thanks!!
~*jaimee*~

I don't think you should. 110-113 lbs is a healthy weight for someone 5"5. It's good that you want to eat healthier foods, but you shouldn't eat less. You should eat when you're hungry and stop when you're full. It won't damage your body , and I know that you're not anorxeic, but often times "eating less" can lead to anorexia, which can [damage your body]. Also, if you don't eat as much as you can, you could lose energy so you won't work as well

is it such a turn off when girls are sorta shy but really pretty...or do guys like confidence and don't care about looks....or do u have to be confidente and pretty....I think i am pretty but the confidence idk....i am courious...what do guys like?

In most cases, the most average, second-rate, popular, skin-deep, typical, pretty girls are the ones who attract guys. Guys are kind of arrogant and want someone they can feel above/someone to control. Deep girls make them feel dumb and threatening to their intellect. Most guys aren't even aware of this. They like to say they are attracted to intelligent, selfless girls with a sense of humor, but that's not usually true. Don't worry about guys liking you, it will only make you feel self-conscious and you get nowhere. Know that you're better than any guy. I learned this lesson awhile ago. Remember that the older you get, the more guys will appreciate you for being smart.

hang in there babe

There is a boy I think likes me, but I cant tell.Here are some things he has done or done for me:Starring(for a very long time now),saving me from from being embaressement,and muble somthing when I pass by.Do you think he likes me?what are some ways to tell?And how can I make him just tell me?

I am so confesed

P.S his friend smiles at me.Plese help me:)

probably not.

those are small signs. It's like a treehouse and an umbrella. You might put the umbrella on top of the treehouse as an addition, but you wouldn't support your treehouse with an umbrella, right? In the same way, if you had bigger evidence such as flirting, you could top that off with little pieces of evidence, like staring/mumbling/saving from embarassment/whatever.

a good way to tell whether he likes you is to wait for your next class. Stand a few feet away and make direct eye contact for 5 seconds. I'm sure you can use your good judgement to interpret whether he likes you or not by his reaction.

but he might. You never know. Just don't tell anybody your thoughts about this (*seriously!*), cause rumors could get around and if he doesn't like you, and he knows you think he does, you're in deep shit. And even if he does like you, he'll most likely be embarassed by the publicity and avoid you.

hang in there babe hope i helped

Normally I'm the to give advice to girls on this site who think they are pregnant and tell them ways to calm themselves so that the stress doesn't affect them any more. Well, one of my BEST friends told me that she thinks she's pregnant. She is on the pill and uses condoms all the time when she has sex. She finished her pill on Saturday (the 26th) and was supposed to get her period on Monday (the 28th) it is now Thursday, and she still has not gotten it and that it has NEVER been any later than Wednesday. Like I said, I'm normally giving other girls advice on how to stay calm, but I can't keep myself calm! I mean, this is my BEST FRIEND we're talking about. I told her to try to stay calm and take a nice hot bath and think POSITIVE but now it's alittle hard on me. I'm really nervous for her right now. What should I do? To help both me AND her?

I'm going to be there for her no matter what, if she really is pregnant I'm going to be there for her through the whole thing.

If she's on the Pill and uses condoms, she's probably very very safe. She might not have gotten her period on the precise date, but periods don't come or come late often because people haven't been eating right or they're too stressed. Or it just comes late sometimes. So just wait awhile, and if she's not having her period for a long time, see the doc.

Well im supposed to get my period tomorrow..but sometimes its late. and i need to go swimming all weekend and next week. but i dont use tampons..so is it ok to swim with Pads? thanks

No it's not ok at all! First of all it feels really gross. second of all, dirty lake water will go "up there" and you could get a vaginal infection.

ok this is a really werid question but i need to know i am alomst 14 and my period is REALLLY late i am really scared cause this has never happend befor i have never had sex so i have nothing to worrry about right??? is this normal is it going to be ok???

No, you are absolutely not pregnant or have any STDs cuz u never had sex right?

Don't be scared.

Sometimes periods come rather late or become irregular or don't come at all for a long time because you might be stressed or you aren't eating properly. Or it might just come really late just because it does that sometimes.

hope I helped!

I am getting my room put in the basement but the problem is that the room I'm going to be in has a door to the laundry room so people will constantly be going through my room. Is there a wall or divider type thing I can put between the two rooms that is cheap? If you have specific stores that carry such things, or ideas for ways I could divide the room, please tell me!

Well you can have the door ripped out of its hinges and put a nice curtain in its place. It will give your room a kind of plushy feel. You can get really good materials at Jo-Anne's Fabrics. Or, if you don't like that kind of stuff, you can have the door nailed to the wall, have the doorknob removed, and paint over that

sometimes i can not tell the difference between capital and lowercase letters,and sometime i look at words and they are backwards or flipped,also i get confused with the letters "d" and "b" or "y" and "g" or "m" and "w"
Why does this happen?

You have dyslexia. That's where your mind reads things backward or flipped and you have trouble with all of the things you mentioned. You also might have trouble reading notes in music. Some people like Orlando Bloom get their words mixed up, or you might lose focus sometimes. It's very common. It doesn't mean your not smart. It can be genetic. You just have to work a little harder, that's all.

I have this weird question ...
You know many of the singers out there are born into being famous. Well what about the other singers out there who weren't..how did they become famous?!?
*Jacquelyn

They start taking singing lessons when they are very young...about 7-8 at the oldest...on a rare occasion a totally musical genius might start at about 10 or 11 to build up their voices. The singers that become famous usually are recommended by their voice coaches to great universities like the Bozarcs (France) or the Royal Academy (England) or Julliard (New York). If they prove to be exceptional, they move on from there.

If you're talking about rock/pop stars, usually they start out as popular singers in their clubs. or other minor places then some record producer finds out about them and offers them a record deal. For example Madonna was a homeless person in New York then she started a band and performed at clubs. then this guy offered her a record deal and then she became famous.

ok so i see some cameras come with a printing dock..whats the advantage of this? what are some qualities in a camera i should get when i buy one..any suggestions of what camera to buy? would walmart have decent ones?

I only know a little about digital cameras.

Sorry.

You would not use a scanner to send them. You'd e-mail them. And yes, you put them on your photo bucket.

I would not go to Walmart for a digital camera if I were you. The thing is, 80% of Wal-Mart's products are from China, and products made in China are usually not too good. Also, everything at Wal-Mart is really inexpensive, so if you don't know a lot about cameras it would be harder to find a good one [because they're all inexpensive]. If you can, try to get a Kodak Easyshare. You can edit your pictures on the computer to look really cool...you can even change some of the colors on the computer and make it look like it just came out of a coloring book. Also it can record things with your picture so you can listen to the sounds along with the picture [on the camera of course]

For qualities in cameras...you should get one that can do all sorts of things...like take pictures of moving objects and take pictures of things at night.

hope i helped!!!

Okay, so just to set the record straight, my brother is a DUMBASS and cannot be left without the guidance of my parents without doing something completely stupid. He is 17 freaking years old and you'd figure he wouldn't be as dumb. Somehow, Lord only knows how, but somehow, he spilled a half a galon of laundry detergent on the tiled laundry room floor. Of course, he says it wasn't him and leaves it there for ME to clean up. Now, me being the younger sister, shouldn't it be the other way around? He has to clean up MY messes? I'm 16 by the way. So now, there is laundry detergent all over the floor, under the washer and dryer and I have NO clue how the hell I'm supposed to clean this mess up. We have a guest coming over at 6:30 today (it's 4:50 over here now) and I don't know how I'm supposed to clean this mess, and the rest of the house up in time. Does ANYONE have any suggestions on how to clean this up? ANY ideas would be greatly appreciated. Oh, and you have no need to tell me to murder my brother because I'll do that as soon as he gets home from work.

Yowza! You must be fuming.

Don't use water, it will make the place foam up and that'll be even worse. First, sweep it up the best you can into the dustpan. Then, Use lots of soft rags and old towels to wipe it off the floor. Don't use water, it will make the place foam up and that'll be even worse. For the really tight spots just wipe it up and don't sweep. If there's a foul stench in the room from concentrated detergent, spray some lemon juice in a spray bottle into the center of the room.

hope i helped!!!

okay, so i wanna highlight my hair. i usually go and get it done, but i wanna do it myself this time. however, i dont really have the time to go out and buy stuff for it right now. so does any one know, stuff at home that i could use and how to hi-light it, and not make it look like crap?!

i will rate 5's to any one who helps!

xoxo ♥ Brittany

thanks guys~!

Not that I know of.

But there are things you can do that supposedly bring out your natural hi-lights. I have brown hair, so to make it shiny, I mix a cup of cider vinegar, a cup of water, and rosemary and boil it all together and put in in my hair after I'm done shampooing. It works...kind of. there's this other one for blond/strawberry blond/redhead/whatever, but I don't have it right now. If you want that kind of stuff, there's this Klutz book called "The Body Book" by Anne Ackers Johnson.

hey, i had sex for the first time last night with my boyfriend of 6 months, we are with eachother alot so theres no problem that we did if overall. but we had unprotected sex, i know thats bed but, he pulled out a few minutes early..could i still get pregnate? thanks ♥.. oh yeah and i didnt ask for people to bitch at me about this

yup...you can still be pregnant. You are probably pregnant already, so there's not a whole lot you can do about it. except for abortions.

It doesn't matter if he pulled out a few minutes early or an hour early. But you might be lucky, cause you have to be fertile in order to get pregnant. and that only happens about once a month.

If you're fast enough, go to the drugstore and get a prescription for the Pill, since it only happened last night and it takes about 24 hours for semen to reach the egg.
hope I helped, and next time use a contreception.

p.s. even if you're not pregnant, you almost certainly have an STD. You very well could have aids (unless he was a virgin too) or clymydia etc. but clymydia is treatable and aids is not. so don't have unprotected sex anymore!!!!

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