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I have a slight problem!! My best friends girlfriend likes me and I like her to. I heard a rumor about that his girlfriend was flirting and dancing with someone else at a party. Should I tell him and have him devastated? I am afraid of how he would take the info!!! He would be sad if he took it wrong. so what should I do? ADVICENATORS, HELP ME!!!!
13/m,sup4321 (link)
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You aren't going to tell him and have him devastated and then start dating his then ex girlfriend are you? Because that would be wrong.
Dancing and flirting does not mean she is cheating on him. If she likes YOU as you say she does then let her break up with your friend on her own. I don't think upsetting him over a rumor is the right thing to do. It might not be true for one thing, and for another it probably meant nothing. :)
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I heard that gynos can tell whether u've had sex or not. Could they know if you masturbate? (Finger yourself)? And if so, will they inform the parents (link)
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No. They cannot tell if you masturbate in any way.
They can tell if your hymen is broken. That doesn't always mean a girl is sexually active.
They will ask if you are sexually active so they can give you information on birth control and safe sex practices. They will not tell your parents anything at all. What you tell tour doctor, stays confidential between you and him/her.
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Teens as you know it are using more and more vicodin as drugs and abusing it. When they take it, and is the prescribed to them, what will the side effects of it be? Like sweating, sleepiness, etc (link)
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With perscribed dosage it can cause dizziness & drowsiness. Of course if it is being abused the
side effects get worse. Here is a site that has the info you are wanting.
http://www.healthsquare.com/rx/vicodin.htm
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Background information:
My age: 13/f
My boyfriend's age: 13/m
His mother's age: 32/f
Yesterday I found out that my boyfriend'd mom got pregnant around christmas but lost the baby in march-may. This came as a complete shock to me because she'd never seem like the kind of woman that would try again after 2 children (little brother is 10). She is going through a really hard time and so is my boyfriend. I tried to be supportive but I can't help feeling horrible. I feel horrible because I think it was a stupid idea that she tried again. My boyfriend says that they are trying again, and that he will have a baby brother or sister by July. Again I got mad because miscarriges run very deep in his family. I just have a bad feeling that this is going to end badly. I don't think their family can take another blow. He's basically bouning off the walls with joy because he's getting a new baby. I, on the other hand have a deep hollow feeling in my gut. I can't talk to his mom because I'm not supposed to know. I'm so sad, mad, and confused. huh. I need help.
Love Kateri. (link)
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First and most important for you to understand is you have no reason to be mad. Its none of your business. If you express those feelings to your boyfriend he probably won't be your boyfriend for long.
She has had 2 healthy children. She has a doctor who
is probably following her progress. If her and her husband want more children then they have every right to try and have them. So please. Keep your feelings to yourself. They will deal with whatever happens in their own way.
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I am under age.. where can i find birth control pills ... do i have to go to a doctor or can i buy them over the counter? (link)
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Birth control pills can only be had after a pelvic exam and by perscription only. So you have to see a doctor.
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Oh my god.. i am only 13 and am a female and i have had sex.. he used a condom but i am afraid i might be pregnant... but i started bleeding today but i think he popped my cherry yesterday (he fingered me ) we had sex about a week ago... oh my god i am so scared what should i do...? please hurry up and answer me its very important! (link)
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If he popped you cherry yesterday that is when you would have bled from that. You are probably now having your period.
If he used the condom properly you are probably safe.
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okay so me and my ex broke up about a month ago and we still love each other we just broke up because he had to concintrate on school and football but he said well get back together when hes figured things out..and like i was always number 3 on his myspace and then i saw two days ago it changed..his friend who was a girl became before me..and i mean it kinda hurt because im thinking maybe his feelings changed or something.But he told me that hes been friends with her just as long as his best friend (whos a guy) and he said that shes his best friend too and like that they skate together and that hes been always with her(not in a love relationship kinda way)and that people always say that they are together and stuff but he said that if i dont believe him fine because no one else does.And i do believe him i guess..but i mean he switched me and her sometimes but only like twice..and i was number 3 for a long time soo now if hes been best friends with her for a long time then why all of a sudden change it so shes before me? why wasent it like that before you know? i feel silly feeling like this but the orders do mean something..so what do you guys think about this? do you think he likes her? (link)
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To be honest I believe the whole we break up because I have to concentrate on other things is BS. He wanted to break up without a fuss and that is what he did.
Contrary to what the others say, I don't see you getting back together anytime soon and I wouldn't sit around waiting for it to happen. I'm sorry and hope I am wrong.
I think he may like you as a friend but that's all. If he isn't "dating" the other girl as it appears, he probably will be soon.
Find another guy and forget this one as far as dating goes. :)
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I heard somewhere that if you're very sexually active, it's common to get a urinary infection, brief explanation: one has to urinate a lot, and there is a painful sensation during and after urinating. Is there a name for this? How can it be treated? (link)
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Here is some info on urinary tract infections.
http://www.coolnurse.com/bladder.htm
Most of the time you need to see a doctor and take some antibiotics. There are many causes for a UTI so
no need to worry that your mom or the doctor will
assume you are sexually active if you happen to be a teen.
Don't suffer. tell someone and see a doctor. :)
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I have a cooking problem.
What is the difference between soda crackers and saltines?
If you have an old recipe that calls for "Soda Crackers," can you use regular old everyday Saltine crackers?
Thanks! (link)
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They are almost the same thing...enough so they are listed together in answers.com definition....
A saltine or soda cracker is a thin, usually square cracker made from white flour, shortening, yeast, and baking soda, and lightly sprinkled with coarse salt.
You can safely substitute one for the other. I have done it many times. :)
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I asked this question a fiew days ago but no one answerd so i thought i would ask again.
Recently i have lost alot of weight and my mother is now getting me some protein shake kind of things to help me gain weight. I want to gain weight everywhere on my body accept for my stomach. (especial on my butt and leggs) so my question is how can i work out my stomach without over doing my other body parts (link)
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There is no way to just put weight (or lose weight)
on certain body parts. You basically just gain wherever nature and your genes put it.
There may be some exercises you can do to help keep it off your stomach. You might send one to Mike At
http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=MikeCFT
He is a fitness expert and we are lucky to have him here. I'd bet he would be the one to ask. :)
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I am 16 years old and I had recently had to be transported from an ambulance to Santa Clara ICU because I had been diagnosed with toxic shock syndrome, my organs almost failed and I almost died. I was wondering if it would be okay for me to use tampons again but be more careful this time? ha, Cause I HATE pads. (link)
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Since you have had TSS before you should probably consult with your doctor first. Just to be on the safe side. :)
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ahh okay. i was talking to my friend at the table and he rides my boyfriend's bus. well he said that my boyfriend was begging him to show him how to make "the move" to like get me to make out with him. and i dono when he is gonna do it but i havent even had my 1st kiss yet so is there anyway you can like explain to me how to kiss? or if you cant, maybe give me some tips? thanks a bunch (link)
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Here is a site that has some good kissing tips. :)
http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
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When I was in college (which is now 20 years ago), I did a few things (usually while I was drunk) that were very embarrasing (nothing illegal). The other day while exchanging e-mails, my good friend referred to one of my more embarrasing acts in his email. Although, I think he meant it in "good fun" or as a "joke", I was offended that he brought up this long-ago act. Should I say something or just forget about it? (link)
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I think I would just let it go. To you its an embarrassing moment, to him it was probably one of the highlights of his college years. Its kind of funny some of the things people remember.
So long as he isn't telling everyone he knows, just forget it. :)
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I know that you're allowed to do sports when it comes to a "ladies time" and I play alot of sports... but my question is If I have my "ladies time" am I allowed to jump around... like on a trampoline??? Because I've always thought that if you jump up and down while having your "ladies time" that more blood comes out. Can somebody fill me in on this conundrum? thanks, much appriciated. (link)
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You can do anything you normally do. Including jumping. No more blood will come out than at any other time. :)
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I've given out advices a lot and here and there I've gotten 1's with very rude comments. I've treid my best to answer each question but someone goes "YOU RETARD" or osmething along that line. I'm getting very fed up since 1)They don't give enough details and when we try and answer the question, they go "That didn't asnwer my question *adds extra info*" gives a 1. 2)They don't understand that not all the advice will go out smoothly. No one is going to hold their hands every step of the way and they need to tweak it a little to get it adjusted. Then ther goes the 1 again. This is getting really annoying and I think the moderators who check the questions should reject ones that have barely and information on it and something about it (link)
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OK, I have changed 2 one ratings on your column. I am a L2 so able to get your info...Don't worry, very few of us have this power and I wouldn't have looked myself but since you had a complaint...
Next time you feel you are rated unfairly, file an abuse report. It isn't that hard to do, all we ask for is a link back to the question/answer you are wanting us to check.
I also banned the user who called you a retard. Name calling is not allowed here.
I will say that sometimes your tone when answering a question comes off sounding a little rude. You might try being a little less harsh at times because that has a way of pissing people off, if you know what I mean. You give good advice...just leave off comments like "get lost" and you will do very well. :)
Now, this is to ALL users reading this. It needs said so please take no offence. Since you mentioned it I am going to take the opportunity.
We get a ton of questions every day. Most of them are not spectacular. What we all need to realize is that we work with what we have. A lot of our
users are 13-17. A 13 year old is not going to have the same skills asking questions as one who is 18+. If they are really horrible they don't get approved. If we stopped approving every question that has already been asked, or isn't written perfectly we would have NO questions to give you.
We also need to remember that a question we think
is stupid may be very important to a 13 year old who is just getting her period and has heard misinformation on the grade school grapevine.
Please take all these things into consideration when answering a question. If you feel you can't answer or are sick to death of a certain type of question...just don't answer it.
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Um. Well. I'm a 15 year old girl and I just started high school. And I met this fabulous guy in my english class. He's really great. He's adorable, funny, shares my political views, and nearly perfect. Nearly. He has a girlfriend. She doesn't go to our school, so I don't really know her or anything. It's really frustrating because I'm really ecstatic that I found a guy who's not a complete idiot. And I feel guilty because he belongs to another girl, and I feel that I shouldn't even look at him or else I'm somehow intruding. I am NOT looking to break them up. No matter how much it hurts, I would never sink that low. I really think I should get over him. But...I can't. Everytime I make a vow to get over him, I see him and I'm instantly enamoured again. ...He has the most beautiful smile. The heartmelting kind. None of my friends think he's cute because he's a little on the chubby side. He's not totally fat, mind you. NOT THAT THERE'S ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT. He's just a bit chubbier than the skinny emo guys that go to our school, ya know what I mean? And he has low self-esteem, which is weird because he is just so wonderful...But I really feel as if I have no chance. I don't know what his relationship is like with his girlfriend. For all I know, they could be happy and in love or they could be on the brink of a break-up. What should I do? Wait for them to break up? Move on, no matter how hard it will be?
I know this is horrible, but I'm secretly hoping for them to break up by the end of this month. You know, so I could make my moves on him in time for homecoming. I'm a horrible person, I know. But I need your advice. My friends don't understand. Thanks a bunch! (link)
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If you get along that well I see nothing wrong with your being friends with him and getting to know him better. Why try to get over him? He isn't married yet just dating someone.
If you want to ask him to homecoming I see no reason not to. He may have to say no this time BUT it will get him to thinking about you. Graciously say you understand and then sit back and wait. He will see
you differently and maybe even break up with the girlfriend. :)
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is an itchy sensation at head of penis a sign of an std (link)
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I will give you a chart so you can take a look but
I kind of doubt it unless there are other symptoms.
If you have been sexually active without a condom with someone you suspect has been around it might not be a bad idea to have it checked if you are able to. And definatley watch for other symptoms.
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Okay so I love the smell of cascade dish soap and i smell it like everyday. I know thats weird but do you think its bad? (link)
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No I don't think its bad at all. People just sometimes like to smell different things.
Can't find them much anymore but I used to just love the smell of tire inner tubes. Kinda makes cascade seem normal doesn't it! *grin*
Guess what my husband does for a living? He builds tires for Goodyear. :)
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Is it safe to sex during pregnancy?
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Yes it is safe to have sex while pregnant for most people.
Occasionally if a pregnancy is in trouble a doctor
will advise against it. But that isn't common. :)
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when people ask you if u do drugs, is vicodin considered a drug? (link)
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Well aspirin is considered a drug!
I think they are probably meaning the illegal kind.
Say no. :)
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