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Question Posted Sunday September 17 2006, 9:16 am

okay so me and my ex broke up about a month ago and we still love each other we just broke up because he had to concintrate on school and football but he said well get back together when hes figured things out..and like i was always number 3 on his myspace and then i saw two days ago it changed..his friend who was a girl became before me..and i mean it kinda hurt because im thinking maybe his feelings changed or something.But he told me that hes been friends with her just as long as his best friend (whos a guy) and he said that shes his best friend too and like that they skate together and that hes been always with her(not in a love relationship kinda way)and that people always say that they are together and stuff but he said that if i dont believe him fine because no one else does.And i do believe him i guess..but i mean he switched me and her sometimes but only like twice..and i was number 3 for a long time soo now if hes been best friends with her for a long time then why all of a sudden change it so shes before me? why wasent it like that before you know? i feel silly feeling like this but the orders do mean something..so what do you guys think about this? do you think he likes her?

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karenR answered Sunday September 17 2006, 4:40 pm:
To be honest I believe the whole we break up because I have to concentrate on other things is BS. He wanted to break up without a fuss and that is what he did.

Contrary to what the others say, I don't see you getting back together anytime soon and I wouldn't sit around waiting for it to happen. I'm sorry and hope I am wrong.

I think he may like you as a friend but that's all. If he isn't "dating" the other girl as it appears, he probably will be soon.
Find another guy and forget this one as far as dating goes. :)

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holahayley56 answered Sunday September 17 2006, 3:54 pm:
It could mean something, or nothing at all.

My one friend, thats a guy, moves me around all the time, sometimes I'm not even on it, but its not like that changes his feelings for me as his friend or something, you know? I usually put my friends, according how important they are to me, or the same place that person has me, but whatever.

This one kid I know..he doesn't even have me in his top eight, but hes like inlove with me, but he has like 3 girls, in there.. but there all just his friends. Apparently, there too ugly for him to date, but there cool. Maybe thats how he thinks of that girl, just as a really good friend, but he has no attraction, besides in a friend way.

If hes telling you, he doesn't like her, then believe him. If he wanted to like her, he would ask her out. But, since hes telling you he doesn't like her, then he wants you to continue to like him.

hmm, thats what i think. kbye (:
hope it works out for youu.

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LM answered Sunday September 17 2006, 3:52 pm:
I'm pretty sure he still likes you. Don't hound him so much about it. IT'S MYSPACE!!! A top 8, no less. People change the order of theirs all the time. They may have 16 people that they want on their top 8, so they switch people up so they don't have a top friends that takes up half a page. Should people whine about getting booted out of number three for spot seven? Of course not; that's stupid. It's a top 8; it doesn't determine if the person still likes you.

You should ask him directly about your relationship, not about the order on his top 8. Ask if he's still interested in a relationship with you, or if he wants to date this other girl. It's the only way you're going to know.

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evan66 answered Sunday September 17 2006, 3:35 pm:
Alright well I really like this one girl and shes on my top 8. I have one of my best friends (thats a girl 1st) and the one i really like about 5th and there the only 2 girls on there. Now i just currently moved the one i like to 7th because im trying to see if she responds to it. If she does than i can know for sure if she likes me again. But you shouldn't worry about it's probably Just like what im doing. Hope I helped

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