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That Feeling... Long, but I need your help...
Background information:
My age: 13/f
My boyfriend's age: 13/m
His mother's age: 32/f
Yesterday I found out that my boyfriend'd mom got pregnant around christmas but lost the baby in march-may. This came as a complete shock to me because she'd never seem like the kind of woman that would try again after 2 children (little brother is 10). She is going through a really hard time and so is my boyfriend. I tried to be supportive but I can't help feeling horrible. I feel horrible because I think it was a stupid idea that she tried again. My boyfriend says that they are trying again, and that he will have a baby brother or sister by July. Again I got mad because miscarriges run very deep in his family. I just have a bad feeling that this is going to end badly. I don't think their family can take another blow. He's basically bouning off the walls with joy because he's getting a new baby. I, on the other hand have a deep hollow feeling in my gut. I can't talk to his mom because I'm not supposed to know. I'm so sad, mad, and confused. huh. I need help.
Love Kateri.
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dont worry about it
they most likely no that they might not have a baby
but they are determined
i would just relax and give them their space
if they end up not having a baby,
confort your bf
but just wish for the best
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First and most important for you to understand is you have no reason to be mad. Its none of your business. If you express those feelings to your boyfriend he probably won't be your boyfriend for long.
She has had 2 healthy children. She has a doctor who
is probably following her progress. If her and her husband want more children then they have every right to try and have them. So please. Keep your feelings to yourself. They will deal with whatever happens in their own way.
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