I have a slight problem!! My best friends girlfriend likes me and I like her to. I heard a rumor about that his girlfriend was flirting and dancing with someone else at a party. Should I tell him and have him devastated? I am afraid of how he would take the info!!! He would be sad if he took it wrong. so what should I do? ADVICENATORS, HELP ME!!!!
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Dancing and flirting does not mean she is cheating on him. If she likes YOU as you say she does then let her break up with your friend on her own. I don't think upsetting him over a rumor is the right thing to do. It might not be true for one thing, and for another it probably meant nothing. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
kered88x2945 answered Monday September 18 2006, 10:39 pm: ouch that is brutal as much as it hurts for even me to say it but there is plenty of fish and not enough friends so the right thing to do is to tell your friend sit him down and break it to him gently tell him because hes your friend and he deservs your friendship and for in that your up most respect as a friend just be strong for him and tell him that he deserves better than to be treated like that and trust me if she dose that to him shell do it to you!!! trust me Im gay me and girls were mentaly one well if you need more advice please feel free to email me @ dnp6000@sbcglobal.net [ kered88x2945's advice column | Ask kered88x2945 A Question ]
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