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My Friend Has Brought Up an Embarrasing Past Act
When I was in college (which is now 20 years ago), I did a few things (usually while I was drunk) that were very embarrasing (nothing illegal). The other day while exchanging e-mails, my good friend referred to one of my more embarrasing acts in his email. Although, I think he meant it in "good fun" or as a "joke", I was offended that he brought up this long-ago act. Should I say something or just forget about it?
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It would probably just be best to forget about it. Everyone has embarrassing moments in his or her lives and it seems everyone always remembers it. It is just something that happens. If you were offended by it, just try to forget about it. I'm sure he didn't mean it in a bad way. He just wanted to bring it up for a laugh. If he's not going around telling everyone, you should be fine. ♥
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id let it go. the more you bring it up, the more hes gonna bring it up, and thats the last thing you want, right? hopefully, if he sees that thats al in the past, then he'll let it go.
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I think I would just let it go. To you its an embarrassing moment, to him it was probably one of the highlights of his college years. Its kind of funny some of the things people remember.
So long as he isn't telling everyone he knows, just forget it. :)
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For now, I would just forget about it. I know you were offended, but he probably did just mean it in a joking way and was just talking about the funny good times. But, if he continues to mention all these times that offend you, mention it to him then and ask him if he'd please stop talking about them because you don't like to be reminded or that you're offended by it. I hope I helped.
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