Dear Readers,
I've asked this question many times, but I haven't been listening to people who answer it because I'm just too afraid. Can you help me and please be honest.
There's this guy, L, and he's a Freshman while I'm in 8th grade. We go to the same school and for about 8 months, I've been having a MAJOR CRUSH on him. He seems like a really adorable, cute, nice guy. He's smart, and I like him because with all the guys I've liked, they are mean to me.
How can I approach him? I rather approach him with no friends around him. I want to know his schedule so I can see him all the time, not to talk him though! I'm urging to call him, but last time I did, he didn't want to talk and seemed fairly annoyed.
HELP!!!
-My lips are sealed
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? DefinedEyes answered Saturday September 16 2006, 7:24 pm: Oh, well in my opinion.
Dont be afraid to read what people have to say, because there isnt any point in asking for advice, if you wont atleast consider someone is trying to help you.
Well if you spot him in the hall or something, or have a class with him, make effort to talk to him. Dont call him, I mean if he doesnt know you, he would probably think "geez an 8th grade is obsessing over me.. how annoying" I mean, it kinda sounds like you are obsessing over him. Wanting to know his schedule so you can see him all the time, if he knew about that, or found out about it, I'm sure he would want nothign to do with you. And there is more to liking someone, from other than their adorable,cute, nice, smart.. thats what you can see from a person, but that doesnt mean you "know" him, there is a difference of "knowing OF him" and "knowing him" and it sounds like you know of him, and from what you've heard you like him. Just let me remind you there is a big difference between that. <3
So be careful, and be calm, and keep in mind that things dont always work out.
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