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Ok ive been single for 2 YEARS!! This is too long..especially being that these are supposed to be the best years of our lives. ive been living it up with my friends and thats great and everything; but its like something is missing. Im lonely and i think everyone knows loneliness isnt a great feeling. Nobody really like me..im like the girl with the nice personality, but not the looks...i have guys as friends, but thats about it. It seems like i wont have another bf until after high school. iS there anything i can do?? or do i have to just wait it out : /

Thats my problem too, im sweet and i guess cute.. i dono, but im shy. ive basically been single my whole life.. and im always feeling lonely.
If you wanna change this two year pause you can either ask a guy out that you like or just wait until highschool.
sry im not much help... good luck!

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Ok this might sound bad, but I want everyone to think about it. I want to become anorexic, and it's not because I want to be skinny. I'm already pretty thin. The problem is my cheeks(yes face cheeks). They are chubby and not cute at all. I think not eating would make them thinner right? I'm not going to make it a big thing and not eat until I die. Once they get thin ill eat regularly again. Theres no other ways to lose weight in your cheeks right? I mean I know it sounds really dumb to do that but I'm kind of desperate here. Is it that bad? Do you think I can get really sick? Will it work if I become anorexic?

ok im just being honest but i dont think that becomming anorexic will make your cheeks thinner... its not possible. You either have them or you dont. and i believe that somepeople think that puffier cheeks are cute. I know this one girl who has puffy cheeks naturally and it looks adroable. So i would just keep them and deal with how your body just is.

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I have a great friend...we always talk about how we're gonna grow old together. But there's a problem. He smells extremely bad of bad B.O. I don't know how to tell him... people have come up to me and asked me to please tell him about it. I don't want to offend him...what should I do? How should I tell him?
Thanks a bunches for helping out!

when your talking to him maybe bring up the subject of perfues or deodarents... or shower lol. Tell him what you use and maybe have him try it (a new one of course) basically anything that will work on him. Or maybe he's not taking enough showers, reminding is always helpful.
good luck

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my face is breaking out!! okay i have 2 ? any way one is anyideas on how to reduce these pimples?? and is it true if you put toothpaste on them they get better?? i know it sounds weird but thats what i heard!
thanks

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i did try the toothpast before i went to bed and i was suprized that it did help. Eating fruit and drinking water helps reduce them. I use this cream that i got from a vitamin shop and it really helps too. Its called homeopathic fragrance-free acne cream. It works pretty good for me so maybe try that. Ive also heard that proactive works but i havent tried it yet.
hope i helped!

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About 2 hours ago I asked if I was going blind and I talked about my eyes and stuff. Well, I said I got a headache after that and it became worse. I layed down and I just woke up and the headache is just as bad. I still feel dizzy, and I feel like I'm going to throw up. Is this what migraines do? I took an Advil and it didnt help at all. Ugh! I feel horrible!

its allergy season. thats what it does to you. just take some advil or just let it pass... i know it sucks but its nature..
h.i.h.

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One of my old friends' never talked about guys. Like, we would be on the fone, and i would be talking about the guy i liked, and shed kinda just, "push away" the subject. She always said she never likes anyone, and she dosent think that anyone is "cute" or "Hot". I think thats kind of weird. Then one day, we were talking online, and she told me she was a lesbian. It was really awkward, and i really started to believe her, and then when i saw her the next day at school, she was like "omg that was hilarous last night! i was joking!"....I dont know but this kind of looks strange to me..Any ideas on why she might not like to talk about guys? oh by the way..i dont want to talk or ask her about this. thanks!

some girls just arent open about the subject as much as others, or they just might not feel comfterble telling others how they feel about a certin person because people might mess somthing up.
i hoped that helped.
:)

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I got my first period in January. I haven't gotten it since then! I know I'm not pregnat.

What's wrong with me?

well if its your very first itll be irregular for about a year or two so theres nothing wrong. :)

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Today, my family and I (14/m) were out playing sports. All was well for a while. Untill my lil brother started to misbehave and be uncooperative.I got vexxed, but i controlled my rage untill we got home.

At home, i was still vexxed.
(since my birthday is about a montn away)My mom asked me what i wanted for my birthday. I told her "i want my brother to be gone for my birthday. that would be the perfect gift."

She got vexx at me. so vexx she couldn't speak. Sheleft the room.

I went to look for her later and i found her crying. what i said really got to her emotionally. she just looked at me like everything was lost.

that look got to me. i am sorry i told her that.
but i dont know what to do.

What should i do?
i can't let her feel like she grew me up wrong- i am her 1st born. she will just give up with the others too.

please help.

We all say things that we might mean at the moment but then regret. Sometimes you dont even mean for it to come out either. What i sugest you do is talk to your mom tell her your sorry and that you were just annoyed by your little bro. Just dont make it something dramatic lol. Um.. maybe if shes in the mood tell her what you ment to say and give her an idea of what you would like for your birthday. Or you could just ignore that and mention it later. But tell her how you feel about what you said so she understands.
good luck!
h.i.h and
happy early bday!
simone

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well...i just saw the movie 'something like love' and it got me thinking. does love like that actually exist? i'm sure not many people have seen it yet as it is a new movie...but they just seemed so, i don't know, made for each other. it was surreal. i know in real life guys might not stand outside and sing to you with a guitar to win your heart...but the way they felt for each other...does that really happen? thanks!

i think it does. and if a guy would come to me some how playing the guitar trying to win my heart i would fall for it too. but yea i do think love like that exist.
i really wanna see that movie! lol it sounds so good. :D
h.i.h. lol

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I fancy this boy in my year but I never talk to him at all I know all you people out there are just going to say that I'm a looser and I should forget it but I can't .
Any horrible answers will get a horrible feedback and people who go to their column list will see it and never ask them a question.

Help! Zoey

you could try talking to him, or flirt a little and see if he does back. You can never say you dont have a chance if you never try.
I was in your situation a few weeks ago but i decided that i wanted to talk to him so i did and things turned out great. :)
Just dont go to fast because you caould scare the guy off. So when he looks at you smile or look at him and then shyly turn away. Guyz always seem to dig that lol.
h.i.h.!
simone

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Ok, problem here dudes.

At my school, Im a freshie, 14/m. I have good looks, but I never thought I was something to die over. Every day I have these indirect confessions from people I do or do not know that they like me, but I can't say the feeling is mutual. I'd like to know how to break this to them in a nice way, because some of them are a little over the edge if you know what I mean....

what ther first person wrote is pretty much as good as the advice can get.
Either gently turn them down by ignoreing or.. just tell them that your not interested.. and im sure its not your falt that you just happen the be the hot spot to like. lol.
good luck!

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I have a friend that has been drinking and stuff. I've told her not to but i know she doesn't care. And now everybody is all like yeah i drink a lot and i've gotten drunk and smoked that. It seems like everybody smokes and drinks! it's crazy we're all still young! I don't do that kind of stuff and I feel weird like ppl think it's no big deal drinking and i say it's wrong and they think i'm weird. I'm so confused! does everybody do the drugs? i'm not going to start doing them but should i still speak up and say they're wrong?

i believe the exact same thing...we are WAY to young for that stuff... so yea i too would call them weird and they would think the same of me, but dont feel like an outcast theres still people out there that think the same as you. :)

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i've been seeing my girlfriend for 2 years now and we've always been open about everything but lately she's been acting differently i'll reach out to touch her and she'll jump like she thinks i'm going to hit her and the other night i noticed that she had bruises on her stomach and i hugged her and she acted like i hurt her i think that someone has hitting her and she's afraid to tell me i just don't understand it because she has always told me everything how do i find out if she is being hit and how do i help her if she is being abused?

Maybe go over to her house until late and see how her parents treat her, watch them carefully. How they talk to her if they hug anytime or if they touch her... all the signs of abuse.
Maybe sit her down and talk some where private and ask her caringly(sp?) so she feels comftorble to tell you. And ask her spacific questions like.. if they thretend to hurt you if you told anyone just know ill be here for you of somthing, but i guess that would be more into the conversation.
i hope everything goes good :)
simone

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Well everytime i go some where like walking around my neighbor hood or driving in my car all these guys stop and look at me! its really starting to make me mad. I was walking home from school and this guy stopped and asked me my name and stuff. and just today a car full of guys stopped and asked me to come over to them its really gettin on my nerves. i dont dress slutty or any thing i just wear jeans a a big shirt or shorts and a long shirt. how do i get them to stop!

well i think they think you probably cute. And you cant really change that. But you could always try dressing different or.. changing your aditude but i would just be your self and ignore it if you dont like it.
h.i.h.

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Do yOU find anything wrong with A white girl and a Black guy being in-love dating, and wanting to get married?

please, share your oppinion, and support it!
I am open to hear both sides!

no i dont think theres anything wrong with that. You love who you love! :D so if you both really care for each other and want to get married thats your choise but i think its totaly normal! go for it :D

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How do i do that icon that says speak your mind...

well i didnt make it so i have no idea how to, if thats what your asking.
Or if you're meaning what it means..? Just speak your mind and say what you think, even though sometime you gatta watch because one person could get pissed off really easy.. lol

h.i.h.
simone

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I have a really great singing voice, but I'm so embarassed to sing in front of anyone, even my mom. Can someone please give me tips to overcome my shyness? I RATE HIGH. Someone pelase help

basically when you get very comftorble with your slef and singing the shyness will naturally go away. So when ever your ready you'll know.

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when is mothers day?? thanx!!

mothers day is on the 8th of May (a sunday)

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I have a problem my dog, just recently died and so we got a new puppy Razberry. But as he has gotten older he has become vicious. I just go into the backyard to try to play with him after school and i throw a ball or two. Then I go check if he needs more water in his bowl or not. But then out of the blew he jumps up bites me really hard in the back then I turn around and he bites me in the leg which leaves a scratch and a popping out bruise. Then i try to get away from him and out of the backyard but he keeps biting me. This has been happening for a while now and I dont know what to do to make him stop. I love my puppy and I dont want to give him away. He can be soo sweet to me and i can just tell in his eyes that he loves me too. I think he is just trying to play but doesn't know when to stop. I just would like any suggestions on something I could do to understand that biting me like that is wrong and it hurts. I have tried disciplining him but then he becomes more vicious and bites more. Please help me!
thnx a bunch!

make sure the dawg is trained well, but you also have to show the dawg whos boss. The way you stand look at him/her move ar wayz to make your self look more powerful. Especially if it's a male dawg, they always have fight for whos leading in the wild and its just instict so if you look more powerful and act more powerful he/she should leave you alone and not bite.
good luck!
simone

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Hey! I

omg i luv that song! lol
the title is: "your still the one"

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