Do yOU find anything wrong with A white girl and a Black guy being in-love dating, and wanting to get married?
please, share your oppinion, and support it!
I am open to hear both sides!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? PrincezzMari answered Sunday April 24 2005, 12:52 am: WHAT THE HELL WOULD BE WRONG WITH THAT?!?!?!?! sorry, i'm just kind of shocked that someone would even think that. skin color... it's nothing... it counts for nothing. i mean, i don't know how to explain it without sounding cliche'd, but love has no color. it's just that the only thing that would be wrong with that would be if you WEREN'T in love or whatever. if you love each other, then there's nothing wrong with that. i mean, have you seen that movie *the color of friendship* ? hello?????? *the color of love* !!!?!?! ok, that was just stupid, but what would be wrong with that? there's really no difference between black and white except a stupid color that defines nothing. i hope that sounded like i meant for it to and i hope i helped! XoxO*♥MaRi♥*XoxO [ PrincezzMari's advice column | Ask PrincezzMari A Question ]
JazzY answered Friday April 22 2005, 10:29 pm: I think nothing is wrong with that! It doesn't matter about skin color, age, hair color, whatever! It matters on how much you care for the person and how YOU really love them. That is what is most important.
-Caydee [ JazzY's advice column | Ask JazzY A Question ]
ChEEtAh_X_gRL answered Friday April 22 2005, 6:11 pm: theres nothing wrong with that -- love is color blind!!
jokerzgrl answered Friday April 22 2005, 3:02 pm: I think Love is blind. If you feel you really love this person, regardless of skin color, go for it. Love knows no boundries. The guy I like is white and I'm black, so what? I totally support interacial dating and marriage. If this person makes you happy, go for it, What I'm saying is porbably no different from the other responses, most likely, but its true.
MAd Love,
Victoria [ jokerzgrl's advice column | Ask jokerzgrl A Question ]
MeLi<3 answered Friday April 22 2005, 1:44 pm: God no if it is their decsion then it's their decsion no one has the right to offend them by the color of the skin.. so i think it is fine to be married or dating that way [ MeLi<3's advice column | Ask MeLi<3 A Question ]
rainbowcherrie answered Friday April 22 2005, 10:56 am: Why would there be anything wrong with it? It takes more than one colour to make a rainbow. If you are in love then the colour of your skin is completely irrelevent. Racism is pure evil and it's so pointless.
I have a friend who is mixed race, his mother is white and his father is black. He has his hair in braids that are quite long. Yesterday, we were in the playground at school and one of us swore. A man walked past the fence and said to a woman who was also walking past "They need to wash their mouths out with soap. Especially that Rastafarian one." And he pointed at my friend.
I have another friend who is black, both her parents are from Nigeria and her and her family are some of the nicest people I've ever met. A while back, she was talking to a girl a couple of years younger than us over MSN. The girl started to call her names like 'Black Bitch' and 'Paki'. The girl had been brought up in a racist family and believed that it was wrong to be a different race. My best friend, Keely, is half Chinese. The other day she was walking along when some random people came over and called her a 'Paki'. These friends aren't even from Pakistan so I don't understand why they called them that.
My mother was once lying next to a swimming pool in Spain on holiday when she overheard a conversation between two families who had obviously only just met. They were talking about asylum seekers as if they were fleas, saying things like "Oh well I don't mind a few of them here and there but they're just everywhere nowadays."
Those are all examples of racism. I didn't mean to write an essay but I wanted to get my point accross clearly. The colour of your skin should never ever matter. There is no other side to the argument, it's just a damn colour.
One of my best friend's (the guy in my first example)parents are married and they are a completely different race. His father is Ethiopian and his mother is British. He has also dated many girls from different races. I know plenty of people who have dated/date black people. There's nothing wrong with it at all.
XxnickixX answered Friday April 22 2005, 9:43 am: theres nothing wrong with someone being in love if they are a diff colour! anyone can be n love with anyone (unless there is a massive age gap).
so dont worry
luv nicki xxxx ♥ [ XxnickixX's advice column | Ask XxnickixX A Question ]
Shelly_x answered Friday April 22 2005, 9:33 am: no i think its a good thing, there shouldnt be a problem with differnet coloured people having a relationship.
luv shelly [ Shelly_x's advice column | Ask Shelly_x A Question ]
Karen answered Friday April 22 2005, 9:17 am: There is nothing wrong with that all. If they both love each other, than that's what matters and not their skin color. You can't help who you fall in love with. In my opinion, a relationship that involves two different types of people is better. If they both love each other, then their skin color should affect anything. [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
Peachgirly answered Friday April 22 2005, 1:50 am: I don't think there is anything wrong with a white girl and a black guy dating and wanting to get married. I think that as long as they are in love with each other and the color of someones skin shouldn't ruin it and it doesn't matter at all. ♥ Peachgirly [ Peachgirly's advice column | Ask Peachgirly A Question ]
hitler_the_goat answered Thursday April 21 2005, 11:38 pm: as long as you are not in alabama or mississippi, its perfectly legal.
both motioned to repeal their mixing laws, but neither was in a statewide vote. which leads me to believe; the south is still fucking messed up.
-hitler
edit// hey, i'll try to explain this as simply as possible; the rightfully deleted answer from carl was not carl. his little racist piece of shit brother got on to his computer. carl-"I sincerely apologize for the recent racist remark made in my name by that fucking piece of horseshit that is my brother scott, I am not trying to suck up or whatnot, I just want you to know that the kid is going to be in crutches for his actions. again I apologize for any possible emotional hurt caused by that rat bastard."
sorry for the problem, it is in the process of being solved, as carl's parents are ripping him a new asshole as i type. racism in any form is wrong, including jesse jackson.
-gunner [ hitler_the_goat's advice column | Ask hitler_the_goat A Question ]
Stacey64 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 11:33 pm: ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!! There is only one race, the HUMAN RACE. Every living body is human, no matter how you want to judge them for the color of their skin. What makes race colors is judgemental, rude people. Don't make African-Americans suffer like they once did. Back then you have more decency for a pile of poop laying on the ground because you would be nice enought to step over it, and the blacks weren't even given that much respect! I have an open mind and i am not afraid to share it! [ Stacey64's advice column | Ask Stacey64 A Question ]
HyperactiveMiss answered Thursday April 21 2005, 11:09 pm: Definitely not. I think the whole interracial dating taboo is completely stupid and outdated. There are some people that are against it, but I don't see why they are. Color is exactly what it is, color. Nothing more. Color doesn't show what kind of person you are or anything of the sort. If other people are against it, they are free to be because we are all entitled to our own opinions. However, that's all they can do about it, have an opinion. They shouldn't try to make other people's lives miserable and nose into their business. It's not their life and they have no say in it. [ HyperactiveMiss's advice column | Ask HyperactiveMiss A Question ]
Spong3BobChick09 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 11:04 pm: No i dont think there is nothing wrong with that! i am actually roud of it b cuz i no itz hard these days to b with someone outside your raise B cuz people r always judging but never knowing if 2 people love each other it should nvr matter bout kolors! HOP3 I HELPED LUV YA! BUH BYEZ... [ Spong3BobChick09's advice column | Ask Spong3BobChick09 A Question ]
angelinluv6767 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 10:57 pm: nothing is wrong with that. i dont get why some poeple think there is something wrong with it. the only difference in white people and black people is there skin color. [ angelinluv6767's advice column | Ask angelinluv6767 A Question ]
Sherry answered Thursday April 21 2005, 10:53 pm: Nothing is wrong with it. Love is love. Skin color doesnt mean anything. At all! We are all people, and we all love..and want to be loved. Whoever tells you different, is ignorant. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
confusedbabii answered Thursday April 21 2005, 10:43 pm: racial difference should play no part in a relationship. other people might say stuff, but if you are in love with a person of a different race, you've just made the world a better place. because as Tracy said in the movie Thirteen, if everyone marriend someone of a different race, there would be no more racism or discrimination against people of a different race!
advicegiver13 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 10:42 pm: No i don't because black people and white people are exactly the same we just have different colored skin! I mean it's like a dog, you don't see anything wrong with a pitbull and a rott, not that i'm saying people are dogs but w/e. I think that we have come very far and we should be together no matter wat ur skin color is or ur hair! [ advicegiver13's advice column | Ask advicegiver13 A Question ]
EnemaOfTheState answered Thursday April 21 2005, 10:25 pm: i dont think that theres anything wrong with it.. its just skin color.. why does it matter? its whats on the inside that counts. you should love a person for their personality.. not their race [ EnemaOfTheState's advice column | Ask EnemaOfTheState A Question ]
x3bEstOfmEx answered Thursday April 21 2005, 10:18 pm: i dont think ANYTHING is wrong with that its perfectly fine and we are all just peopl with light or dark skin that shouldnt even matter!i dont kno why people disagree with different races getting married [ x3bEstOfmEx's advice column | Ask x3bEstOfmEx A Question ]
charmed-cherry21 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 10:15 pm: Theres nothing wrong with it. To some people there may be. But have you seen the movie SAVE THE LAST DANCE? That's pretty much what happened. And if you are in love then there's nothing wrong with it.
bsuperstar14 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 10:14 pm: i say heck yea cuz i like this dude thats black and im white but my parents would kill me if we even went out so if you have the chance to go out with a black guy o it for all the white gilrs who cant lol i deffently support it [ bsuperstar14's advice column | Ask bsuperstar14 A Question ]
sunshine805 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 10:13 pm: Nope. What's wrong with it? Just because people are different races doesn't mean anything. As long as they love each other and are faithful, what's the problem? [ sunshine805's advice column | Ask sunshine805 A Question ]
Michele answered Thursday April 21 2005, 10:09 pm: There is absolutely nothing wrong with it, BUT you have to both be VERY VERY strong, for your relationship to withstand all the other people who will have a problem with it. Including your families. And I know mixed racial couples, married ones, and some have stayed together and some have not. Marriage is hard enough without that added burden of being a mixed racial couple. So take your time and make your relationship the most important thing in your lives. It does not happen overnight. Give it some time, and when and if you do marry, wait a few years to have children. Because if your marriage isn't strong...if you don't have complete respect for each other, then your children will be harmed by the disrespect they are bound to run into out in the world. But I will say this, things are easier today, and it is more accepted than it was 30 years ago, but I think that as humans, we still have along way to go. Good luck to both of you.
ShYbl0nD3 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 10:07 pm: no i dont think theres anything wrong with that. You love who you love! :D so if you both really care for each other and want to get married thats your choise but i think its totaly normal! go for it :D [ ShYbl0nD3's advice column | Ask ShYbl0nD3 A Question ]
redxroses answered Thursday April 21 2005, 10:07 pm: I find nothing wrong with anything having to do with different races falling in love or getting married. Racism is stupid. It's a big risk to fall in love or marry someone from a different race because there will always be people to hate you for it, but sometimes it's just worth it. :) [ redxroses's advice column | Ask redxroses A Question ]
Brunettesweetheart2468 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 10:06 pm: No, I find nothing wrong with that. Love doesn't depend on your skin color, or how old you are, it depends on how you feel about yourself around that person, and if you really love them. I totally see nothing wrong with that. And if anyone gives you a hard time, ignore it.
hrdcoreX34Dustin09 answered Thursday April 21 2005, 9:55 pm: well i dont think theres anything wrong but i mean you are gonna have to go through some pretty hard critism because some ppl think its wrong but i mean idk if your in love you cant really help it so thats why i think theres nothing wrong with it! [ hrdcoreX34Dustin09's advice column | Ask hrdcoreX34Dustin09 A Question ]
o0xbrianna answered Thursday April 21 2005, 9:54 pm: No, as long as you guys are in love!
Sporkster answered Thursday April 21 2005, 9:49 pm: There's absolutely nothing wrong with it morally or spiritually. If you're two young people in love, what does color/race/ethnicity matter? It doesn't.
The only problem you two will have to think about is the racial division between races. Sadly, today's society looks down upon interracial dating/marriage for some stupid reasons. Just don't let anyone who doesn't believe in you too get you down.
MummuM answered Thursday April 21 2005, 9:47 pm: I don't think anything is wrong with that at all. If you guys are in love, you can't help who you fall for. Even if they are black, white, big, small, tall, or short. You can't help your feelings for someone. So, nothing is wrong with getting married to a man of a different race. If you don't think it's a big deal, you shouldn't care what others think.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
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