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its been a long time..too long
Ok ive been single for 2 YEARS!! This is too long..especially being that these are supposed to be the best years of our lives. ive been living it up with my friends and thats great and everything; but its like something is missing. Im lonely and i think everyone knows loneliness isnt a great feeling. Nobody really like me..im like the girl with the nice personality, but not the looks...i have guys as friends, but thats about it. It seems like i wont have another bf until after high school. iS there anything i can do?? or do i have to just wait it out : /
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Just wait it out....you shouldnt have to have a boyfriend to have fun or feel good..Try finding a hobbie and concentrating on other things besides boys ( i know its hard lol ) but once you get your mind off boys and concentrate on school/work/family/friends/hobbies you'll find that you will barely notice that you dont have a boyfriend..trust me i dont have one either and doing this helps alot...just feel confident in yourself and be happy with what you've got..People act like girls 11/12/13/14/15 are supposed to have boyfriends and if you dont your not normal and thats completely NOT TRUE...you most likely will not find your soul mate at the ages of 11/12/13/14/15 or even 16 so the only point of having a boyfriend is getting hurt in the end...yea it may feel good at the end but girls usually push into their minds that you love or have to love them, and in the end it breaks your heart...I know you feel lonely, i sometimes get like that too if i have an off day...like today for instance i was really tired and grouchy which made me feel upset and lonely...and when that happened i ate some ice cream, sat down on the couch and watched a movie, called and talked to my friend for like 1/2 and hour, and took a nap, then when i woke up i felt better and just to get myself back to normal ( and burn a few calories from that ice cream i ate ) i took a jog...it helped me loosen up and got me back to normal...so just remember to focus on friends/family/school/hobbies etc live life in your teen years it'll get better...you dont need a guy to make you happy...hope i helped need anymore leave one in my inbox
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Wow! We could not have anymore in common. So I'll just give the advice i guess i would give to myself: If you havent found the right guy yet what if the point of having a bf? If you do like someone tho, and they dont like you back then there is rly nothing you can do. Just wait for the right guy to come along, and dont worry, he'll be here soon!
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heyy .. i dont have that problem but basically yea you will just have to wait it out because you dont want to make anyone like you or anything like that because that will just cause you pain
hope i helped
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Thats my problem too, im sweet and i guess cute.. i dono, but im shy. ive basically been single my whole life.. and im always feeling lonely.
If you wanna change this two year pause you can either ask a guy out that you like or just wait until highschool.
sry im not much help... good luck!
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how old are you, because thats something i need to know to answer.. but if your in middle school, almost in highschool i honestly think that highschool brought alot of guys to like me because they are all more mature. but if your in highschool just dont be shy, talk to older girls, and begin to hangout.. be yourself, and when you think you have feelings for someone let them know, whats the worst that can happen? i also started hanging out at our mall and meeting a bunch of new people.. hope i helped xoxo
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I know what you mean=(
There is something you can do; but if its not the time for you two to meet, then things might not work out so well. You could try asking around. Don't be ashamed! Ask your friends if they know a nice kind of guy. If everything seems like it's not working, then I think you ay have to wait it out.
However, your wait shouldn't be too long, because there are lots of guys(just hard to find) that want a girl who's not full of herself, which you definitely are not...Just have hope that things are gonna work out! Hope this helps you out some, and I hope you do meet a nice guy!
*Diamyn*
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there really isnt anything you can do.. somebody will eventually move on and come to you.. just give it more time even though you might not wat to and it might be hard.. much luv dez x0x0
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