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i need him to trust/talk to me....
*me- female
*me- 14, guy- 14
ok, there is this guy, jason, he is like, almost perfect, to me anyways. He has alot of problems, emotionally, goin on with him right now and hes talkin to people about them, but not me. He talks to my friends and tells them not to tell anyone, so they won't tell me. No one knows i like him cause, well, i guess of traumatic experiences that keep me from opening up. I try to talk to him whenever i can and get to know him and maybe he'll start likin me and all, but i never can. My friend is always walkin with him to classes and all and they never talk or whisper to themselves about his problem and so i never talk to him or anything. I asked her why he won't talk to other people besides her and she said he doesn't feel like he can trust anyone. I really want him to talk to me and trust me, but i have no clue on how to accomplish this....
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this kind of thing takes a lot of time. and some people have the gift of atracting people to came and talk to them. the be able to share yourself with people and being able to trust that person is a big thing. sometimes if you really need to tell someone something, some people have the tendency to be at the right place at the right time when that person is ready to tell someone. and that builds a trust bond. if you really want him to share himself with you then you will have to be patient. and its possible that this thing he is telling your friend is something that he doesnt want you to know because he actually does like you. you have to view it from his point of view. but to be honest, just because you like him, you cant be selfish and think that he should tell you everything (not saying that you are that way) but just give it time... dont confront him about it though because it will make it worse.. just let it happen. if he wants to tell you he will, just be a friend
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hey babe! i think that you just need to be there for him and just be like hey i know u have some problems but you should talk about them with me.. just talk about the problems and try to make them better, if he has a screenname get it and talk through that and eventually let him know your feelingss.. hope i helpedd<3
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