Alright me and my ex are really close and we talk about having sex alot...I mean all the time..I feel ready and I think Im ready...I'm only 14...He is 15...I have never hasd sex before and I'm not sure if I should wait or what I should do??? I mean he doesnt push me into anything and never has and never will... Will someone give me some advice on what to do???
Hun if you feel ready to have sex wit this guy.. then i think you should do it.. and its good he aint rushing you or anything.. but maybe you guys should get back together if your going to have sex wit him also..and i hope i helped *~DEZ~*
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 9 months now and we havent had sex... it'll be 9 months on Jan.9th, and i was over his house yesterday when his parents werent home and he tryed to have sex with me, which he does all the time, and he got pretty far until i said no because his little sister was home and i didnt want her 2 walk in on us... but anyways getting to my point, should i have sex with him? plz help me im so confused, and i really dont no what i want to do either... oh just so you know im not a virgin either... and neither is he.
Love always,
*Court~*
Well if you love him and care for him and don't think it will be a mistake to have sex wit him.. but if you dont wanna have sex wit him and you feel its not right then dont do it..*~Dez~*
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when me and my bf fool around, it makes me feel so good...the slightest thing he does to me makes me orgasm..this turns him on...ALOT..and im beginning to think that hes using this to his agvantage..i dont really mind cause he deserves it too...im wondering whether or not to take it one step farther and have sex with him... everything else he does to me is wonderful, so why wouldnt sex be??? does anyone know if this is a good idea??
Well jus cause this guy makes you feel good dont mean have sex wit him.. if you care and love this guy i think you should you wanna make sure you have sex wit somebody who means alot to you.. not jus cause they do something to you that makes you feel good.. but if you love and care for this person and dont think you'll regret it then go for it.. hope i helped ~*DEZ*~
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How do i know if my bf is just using me?
We went out last year for like almost 9 months but i broke it off because i started at a new school and i couldnt handle the relationship too. He begged me to take him back and after 3 months of getting settled and really missing him...i did. But it just doesnt seem the same anymore. Now when we do see each other all he wants to do is make out, feel me up, get down my pants. Ya know. Its not like we're hanging out. Its like i'm just there for sexual stuff. What should i do? Is he using me?
female, 16.
Well this guy might really like you to wait 3 months to go back wit you.. but i don't know how he acts round you any other time so you cant really tel.. but if your feeling used you shouldn't feel like that when your wit somebody.. so i think if you feel that way you should do something bout it instead of wondering.. but if you dont wanna do that kinda stuff all the time tell him and see how he reacts to it.. hope i helped ~DEZ~
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i've had this cough for about a month long. at the beginning it was from a severe cold or something. but i've been around my sister a lot who smokes and i have asthma. could it be from second hand smoke getting into me? any ideas? i rate *HiGH*
Yea it could be that cause i have a reactive airway disease which is very similar to it.. and i got really sick from being around my dad who smokes and i got better after he moved out.. hope i helped Dez..
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what is orgy?
more then then two people having sex..
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ok im 13/f and my bf always asks me do u wanna make out and hell yea i do but i dont know how how? i mean idk.i really like my bf but i am kinda prude and i wanna atleast make out so this is kinda a stupid question but how do u make out with sum1?
ok i need advice asap bc my bf is starting to get annoyed bc i keep saying not right now not right now...any1 have any ideas? im afraid he may break up with me?
Just go along wit what your boyfriend does.. dont think about if your bad or not.. jus let him take control at first then you go long wit it and loosen up wit it and do wha makes you comfortable wit him.. if he really likes you he aint going to care.. and he aint going to pay attention.. but when you make out wit him you might wanna have nobody around but you and him so you wont be so nervous.. hope i helped....$~BABY D~*
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my best friend likes my ex-boyfriend and i still like him too.. but i was the one who broke up with him.. i told her i didnt still like him because she really likes him and he likes her back! but im pretty sure he still likes me because he still acts like it. i am fine with my best friend going out with him because she actually asked me before but i will just be so sad.. i dont know what to do!
Well me and my friends have like this thng like once you gone wit somebody and had feelings for em none my friends is allowed to go wit em.. but you should probably do something like that wit your friends cause it will probably lead to more then you jus bein sad you probably dont think that now but you might get jealous or something seein em together.. so i hope i helped.. Baby D
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i have been going out with my boyfriend for a little while now.. we were really good friends before we started dating and he is so awesome. he lives down the street from me and comes over alot and my parents like him. but they are really overprotective so i havent told them that i am dating him yet. im really worried about what they would do because i dont want them to stop letting him come over and stuff.. i meet his parents the other day and they think im a good person & his mom want to take us to a movie. but im afraid that when she meets my mom she will tell my mom that i am datin her son. so i dont no if i should tell my parents or not? what do yall think? i will rate 5's
ps. my sister knows that we are goin out but is waiting for me to tell them.
well if you and him become serious youll have to tell them evenually but anyways you should tell them that you like him more then friends and that youd like to date him.. jus dont say you and him are together yet and see wat they say then.. but thats what i would do if i was you hun..~*DEZ*~
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Ok, i like this guy, lets call him Ryan. And im positive that he likes me back. But i get really nervus around him. I'm not shy to call him but i sound all shaky when i talk because of the nervusness. (sp?) Should i ask him if he wants to go to a movie with me and my friend to get to know him better?
Yes you should.. you can get to know him and get to loosen up more and maybe youll be less nervous round him..DEZ~*~*
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My boyfriend and I are over. He broke up with me and I thought I was okay and didn't still feel for him but I do. He broke up with me because we weren't right for each other but I still love him. I need him more than anything and I can't get over him, don't tell me just to forget it and move on because I can't.
you should try to talk to him.. *~DEZ~*
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OK here it goes. I go out with this girl and we used to spend time with each other all the time until i moved. So right now we r having a long distance relationship. Now everytime I talk to a certain girl she thinks I am cheating on her even when I tell her time to time again that I love her and I would never ever do nothing like that. She writes things about my friends that i don't like and that really gets on my nerves. Basically she doesnt trust me at all. Should I dump her or should I just talk to her. 13/m
well your only thirteen and not married to this girl your young.. but i understand that you love this girl and care bout her.. jus talk to her and try to make sure she dont know you are talkin to other females.. but you wanna make sure them females on the side are jus friends and nothing more.. but maybe this is a little girl that likes to acuse you of stuff and have drama in her life not tryin to talk bout yo girl but that could also be it too... hope i helped *~DEZ~*
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Whenever I'm around guys I get really shy and don't have much to say and then I get insecure and it's hard to be myself. So now all the guys at my school probably think I'm like really snobby or stuck up or something because I'm so quiet. Like there have been a few guys this year that have tried to be friends with me, but I just didn't know what to say around them, so they just kind of stopped talking to me. Help!!!
well guys care how you are but jus act your self round them its not that hard and do wha you can not to embarass yourself.. guys will like you if you jus do that jus dont think bout wha think and youll be okay..hope i helped..*~DEZ~*
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(im a 14 female) I have this guy friend, and he is giving me mixed signals. He tells my friends he likes me and then he makes a huge deal of telling me that we are just friends. I really like this guy a lot. now he's telling my friends that he doesnt like me. I'm so confused! every other day he changes his mind weather he likes me or not! I WANT HIM TO LIKE ME SO BAD! Like sometimes he's really sweet and flirty and other times he's sort of mean to me though which adds even MORE mixed signals. And one time i told him i liked him liked him and he told my friend that he didn't like me that way. BUT like a month later he was acting all flirty and he was like "if i asked you out what would you say?"
Do u think he likes me? Is there anyway i could make him like me even more than he already does? Is there anyway that would help him ask me out if he does like me? HELP!
i think this guy is a little boy and a waste of your time hun.. i know you dont wanna hear that but if he keeps changing his mind bout how he looks at you then thats jus some childish stuff i dont know if he like you or not but if he doin that he jus playin games and wit your head..dont let hiim fliting wit you get you all geeked over him liken you.. cause you know that hell jus make you look dumb and get you upset.. hope i helped and wasnt bein too rude i was jus bein real wit you boo...~*DEZ*~
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I've been with this boy for 9 months and for some reason I feel like things are ending. I love him and he says he loves me but I have this feeling inside that has been there for the past week that its coming to an end. I don't want it to come to an end and I'm not going to be the one who breaks it off but I just feel like he might be getting frustrated with me or sumthing? I mean I'm only 18 and I don't know if this is a gut feeling telling me to move on or what. He says he still loves me when I ask and when I ask him if he doesnt wanna be with me anymore he says that he still wants to but I cant explain this feeling. Has anyone else ever had this before???
Actually im having that feeling too.. but i only been wit my baby for 6 months and i think were fallen apart or something but enough bout that.. but jus make sure everything is okay wit yall and make sure nothing changes between yall.. like make sure how he is towards you dont change.. hope i helped atleast a lil bit...*~DEZ*~
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When I was still with my boyfriend, I never really and truly loved him. I loved him but I wasn't IN love with him, if you know what I mean. He broke up with me, saying we had nothing in common and I thought I was okay. My friends came round to cheer me up and I thought I was over him. Then, yesterday I couldn't stop crying and I realised that I loved my ex. I need him back, I can't live without him. Everyone's telling me that I'm still young and that my heart will be broken a thousand times until I find the right guy, but I don't care. I'm scared that if I don't get my baby back then I'm going to hate christmas forever. What should I do?
you should call him girl and talk to him.. and you better do it soon because christmas is coming soon.. jus tell him how you feel and tell him everythng you wrote on here and do what you can to get him back.. hope i helped *~Dez~*
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i appologize now for this being long...but i just really need some advice!
ima 14 female freshman...
it starts off in 7th grade, me and this guy got 2 gether..we dated for a year. broke up in 8th grade..he messed with sum 7th graders. we were supposed 2 get back 2gther, but he ended up switchin schools. during the summer after 8th grade, we kept in touch..talked on the phone, chilled @ the movies and all that...and yes we were frends wit benefits!!...freshman year started we didnt talk so much, thats wen i met this guy..we dated 4 2 months, and juss a few weeks ago i broke up with him..once my ex boi found owt i was single again..we started talking...(and b4 i broke up wit my boi he told me he would b waiting 4 me!)...so it was true he was waitin 4 me!...we been talkin alot latly! im guessing we do go owt..its juss i dont know if i can trust hiM!..i know how he is..im just scared ima get hurt again!..bkuz he sorta did mess roun wit others back in 7th grade!
well you have to trust somebody befor anything happens.. so if i was you i wouldnt of even bothered.. but maybe he has grown up in the past two years and maybe became more mature.. hope i helped ~$Dez$~
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I just got my period in July sometime and i use pads but i have her people say that tampons are so much better and LESS MESSY. but i am SOOOOO afraid to use one because just the thought sickins me. I'm asking people from experience....does it hurt the 1ST time.
-arielle-
well its never hurt me to use tampons.. and im a virgin.. ive only used tampons the first day i ever started.. and after that i tried a tampon.. so i wouldnt think it would you any.. but please dont be like my cousin and put eveything inside you.. hope i helped..~*BABYD*~
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is ear cartilage piercing safe? i want to do it myself, with sterilized stuff ofcourse. has anyone else done that? what do u think? is it safe?
i pierced my cartilage myself but befor that it was pierced professional.. but it closed up when i went to juvi but i repierced it wit a needle.. i did my friends too but i used ice wit hers cuz she cant stand pain.. but i know alot of people who have done it themselfs instead of going to get it done professional so hope i helped..*~BABYD~*
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ok my bestest friend the world ((lets call her D)) is going out w/ one of my Really close guy friends ((lets call him C)) and yesterday, D was talking to one of C's friends, let's call him J..and D said "if you tell me what C's getting me for christmas, i'll do Anything" and after awhile of persauding, J asked to makeout. and then eventually D and J both admited they had feelings for eachother. and they were all like planning where and when they were gonna do it. and J never even told her what C got her! and then D said to J "i think i'm just gonna dump C after all this, bc i like you more" so my question is, should i tell C..me and him are Really Really close..but on the other hand D is my BESTfriend and she'd get mad if i told him..ahhh helpppp I RATE HIGH!!!
Well you should tell your guy friend but i would make her tell him.. dont jus let her dump him and not tell him why make sure she tells C why she is dumpin him for another guy.. so if i was you id stay out of it til you think its the right time to get in it.. cuz you dont wanna get any drama started and you be in the middle and then have another problem for trying to help.. hope i helped..~*BABYD*~
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