Question Posted Thursday December 23 2004, 4:43 am
When I was still with my boyfriend, I never really and truly loved him. I loved him but I wasn't IN love with him, if you know what I mean. He broke up with me, saying we had nothing in common and I thought I was okay. My friends came round to cheer me up and I thought I was over him. Then, yesterday I couldn't stop crying and I realised that I loved my ex. I need him back, I can't live without him. Everyone's telling me that I'm still young and that my heart will be broken a thousand times until I find the right guy, but I don't care. I'm scared that if I don't get my baby back then I'm going to hate christmas forever. What should I do?
SmoothiesFknRock answered Thursday December 23 2004, 12:48 pm: Why would you hate Christmas forever because your boyfriend broke up with you?! = Anyways tho- I know this isn't what you want to hear but your friends are right. There's so many more guys out there who will be good to you and will have more in common with you. Don't waste your time crying over this one guy. But if you try everything and you still can't get over him- talk to him and tell him how you feel. Communication is the only way to make things work out. Hope I helped!
-Jennifer [ SmoothiesFknRock's advice column | Ask SmoothiesFknRock A Question ]
AdInA answered Thursday December 23 2004, 12:28 pm: there isn't much you can do, because HE broke up with YOU. he probably isn't interested in you anymore, and that's part of life. :( you will get your heart broken! don't try and get him back if that's not what he wants! just try to hang out with your friends some more and enjoy christmas without the thought of him! [ AdInA's advice column | Ask AdInA A Question ]
ballerina04 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 11:41 am: maybe you need to talk to him. tell him how you are feeling. if he rejects you, realize that you have to move on. there are going to be more guys [ ballerina04's advice column | Ask ballerina04 A Question ]
tish answered Thursday December 23 2004, 11:13 am: hey dont let a boy stand in the way of your life belive in your self you are a great girl and you are going to find a lot of boys that like you and you will find that you will have a lot of things in common with the next guy that comes along [ tish's advice column | Ask tish A Question ]
lilcutie1212 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 10:19 am: Dont let a boy stand in the way of your life. Say there is a giant rock in the road are you just going to wait for it to go? No your going to going around the rock and move on. So act like the guy is the rock and just move on hunn ok? Good luck and hey Merry Christmas. XoXoLexiXoXo [ lilcutie1212's advice column | Ask lilcutie1212 A Question ]
DeeplyInLove102203 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 10:16 am: Juss try talking to him and be like i love you so much and i cant stand not being with you juss be like we can try again and see if we can work it out i really wanna be with you.... stuff like that juss sit down and talk it through with him and see what he says.. Good Luck Hun... if you need anything juss drop one in my inbox Caitlin* [ DeeplyInLove102203's advice column | Ask DeeplyInLove102203 A Question ]
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