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16/f/CA...I'm almost 17 and I've never had a boyfriend. Not that the "style" always or really does effect his personality or whatever, but I'm into the "surfer/swimmer" guys mostly. On occasion I like the musician/poetry type of guy. But I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never been asked out. I do remember a long, long time ag0--actually back in middle school one of my friends said to me "yea, I know a whole mess of guys that like you"...but that was the end of that and she never brought it up again...
I'm the kind of girl who loves to have fun. If you dine and dash on a date, I'll do it too (most likely, I'm the one to bring it up). You wanna go TPing, I'm right behind you. You want to leave secret admirer letters to random people thinking that someone is "in love" with them? I'll write them for you! I just love to have fun and mess around with people and play jokes. But then I get get very serious and moody also. I also love to feel special and loved. I like guys who could sweep me off my feet or surprise me. I'm not the kind of girl who throws herself at a guy, or starts flirting or competing just because girl who, in my opinion, is more prettier than me. I hate when girls do that... not that I just sit there and watch, but I hate when girls are ALL OVER a guy who they aren't even with, and they're just like "lYkE oMg! yOu'Re sOoO fUnNy!!!" ESPECIALLY when they're doing it because another girl is there and they're "competing" for the guy. Is there something I'm doing wrong? I have lots of guy friends, but none that has actually tried becoming more than friends with me. If a guy who I think hot says something or he tries to be funny, I'll smile or chuckle and maybe say something back (unless it REALLY is funny, I'll laugh...but I don't want to overdo it). What should I do, and since I kind of gave you a basic idea of my personality, what kind of guys would be good with my personality?
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This is not an answer, but a question. You said you'd write letters from a secret admirer. I want to get one to my wife, but i'm having a hard time with it. I want to put it in her car, as if it's from someone around our area that is entranced by her and include an email address so she can feel good that someone other than me finds her so attractive. would you consider helping me? I can be reached at ericmsdw2005@yahoo.com.
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I'm the same way you are, there is no specific type for anyone really, but if you feel a slight attraction to someone, you have the right to jump on it. If it helps, my current boyfriend is a badboy/skater/listens to rap/white boy, mostly badboy. A guy that would be good for your personality is someone that understands you, and can keep up with you, but not someone exactly like you. They're not that hard to find, but you do gotta look. Hope I helped and good luck sweetie, Happy Holidays. -Angel
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hey. it's not your problem or nothing. things just happen for reasons...i never had a boyfriend until now but it's okay. you dont have to look for him right now. your only 17 you have during college and after college to find your perfect person. how do you feel like do you feel like you absolutly need a guy? most of the time if you do end up being in a relationship it wont really do much but hurt you. believe me i know how that feels with my first bf. i mean in a way who needs guys anyway? you should just concentrate on school and get into a good college if you are planning to go. i like the fact that you are yourself when you are around guys so i dont see the problem. if you really do like this one guy you can try to make the first move...because some guys think that you are confident with yourself enough to do that. hope this helps. take care. x3 SweetStar.
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well hun i dont think you need to go around searching for prince charming, i think if you just lay back about things about bfs and that stuff, that prince charming will come to you! you seem like a really cool girl, and since you do have alot of guy friends its better than having no friends (in my opinion guy friends are soo much better lol).. so i think that he'll come to you eventually, sometimes in life you dont have to have a boyfriend, all you need are your best friends to have a good time =). x0
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