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Ok me and my boyfriend have been having some trouble lately and we haven't been talking that much. Well the other day this boy pranked my friend and he got her number off our friend and they called me on 3 way and I started talkin to this boy. I talk to him like every day now and I am falling for him! He's so great. But i dont even know what he looks like but i don't think it would matter to me because he's just the greatest person in the world to talk to. But theres just one thing I HAVE A BOY FRIEND. I don't know what to do I like both of them so much! What should I do??
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Whenever you are in a realationship that starts to have problems of course you're going to open up to other guys. The first thing to consider is, how long have you been with your boyfriend? Have you and your boyfriend had problems before or is this the first time? I think if you sit down and really think about those two things it might clar something up. Honestly though if you continue talking to this new boy and you decide it's not going to work out with your current boyfriend, I'd say you really have to get comfortable and get to know this boy. Take your time with that though because as you said, you don't really know him as it is.
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Have you ever met this 'boy'? He could be some 30-year old homeless guy. you never know. But if you're starting not to have feelings for your current boyfriend then stop wasting his time and break up with him. You're only hurting him by staying with him IF you don't love him anymore.
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Well the first thing I am going to say is, you obviously don't care as much about your boyfriend if your talking to another guy and allowing yourself to develop those type of feelings. If you loved your boyfriend, you wouldnt still be going on with this other guy. I understand that we can change our feelings about people, but if this is how you treat your boyfriend, it's probably how you will treat this other guy if you get with him. I think you should sit down and seriously think. Do you like and want to stay with your boyfriend? or do you just wanna forget him and go for this new guy that you dont even KNOW?. At least with your boyfriend you kno who he is, you kno what he looks like, he cna actually do things with you.. but this other guy you kno nothing about him besides what you hav talked about on the phone. I think you need to prioritize yourself and really stop screwing around. You are not only screwing your boyfriend around, but your going to end up hurting yourself. Take my advice and think about what you want before you continue on with either one of these guys.
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Start talking to this boy on AIM. And ask him for a pic so you can see what he looks like and you can decide if you like him or not. Maybe hang out with him in person..with a group of friends so your bf doesnt get jealous. Then decide who you like better.
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who do you like more? choose one.
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you are going to have to choose one. i say you break up with your boyfriend and go for the new boy. he seems like a great guy! and plus you said you and your boyfriend haven't been talking much! ya'll are probably just spreading apart..
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hey i think you should get to know the both of them a little more and find out which one you like the most about
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See if the other guy likes you and if not stay with your boyfriend
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