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My friend has has some things happen to her this year, and she cut herself afew days ago! She is the nicest person I have ever met in my entire life and I'm not even exaderating. What should I do? (link)
talk to her! tell her that she is the nicest person you know and that the things that have happened are not goin to change as they have been happened. but at the same time cuttin herself isnt helpin and not doin herself any favours. tell her you are always there 4 her! if she finds it hard to talk to u... ask her to write you a letter as this is ehat i do wiv me bstest m8 n it reali helps coz ican say everythin that i mayb couldnt 2 her face!
hope she is ok and stick by her, she needs a gr8 m8 like you around!
good luck xxxxx


hello, ok I just got my Belly button pierced. and the guy told me to clean it once a day with sea salt, is that right? should i use anything else? (link)
well when i got my belly button pierced i used savlon spray and did it 2wice a day, 1nce in the morning and 1nce at night! i have had it done for about 9 months now and clean it every so often! trust me, clean it coz me m8 didnt nd it went reali NASTY! she had 2 let it heal up!

hope this has helped xxx


okay My Kitchen is all white. My cabinets are that weird plastiky white kind with red handles, the appliances are white and everything. The whole thing looks horrible. The floor is old and disgusting linolium, and since we moved our door to the other side of the room theres sheet rock showing below some of the cabinets.We aren't getting the whole thing done until summer possibly. Does anybody have any suggestions on how to make it look not so white? Is there any kind of decorations i can use to liven this mess up? is there any some typical things out there that make the kitchen look any better? becasue really, nothing matches, and looks good.It's just so horrible looking sometimes. I really can't bear it. (link)
me mum n i didnt like our kitchen cupboards and we couldnt afford getting a new kitchen. so we went to a DIY store and got some of this special kitchen cupboard paint that you can paint over cupboards! they come in all sorts of colours and would coat white doors in 1 coat! they are whipeable wen dry etc. also get some new handles as this will give a gr8 affect! it now looks really good! have fun and good luck, i hope it looks nice! xxx


ok how do u tell if you really like a guy i mean ill have a crush on a guy then ill lose it changing classes ever few months doesnt help but i mean ill meet a guy and i like him and then i wont anymore there is this one boy ( exactly like chad micheal murray in a cinderella story) no joke he loves football has the same haircut and looks so much .. well sometimes ill just like him and other times i be like close to totaly crushing on him (like bad) and i talk to him he sits right next to me but i dont wanna act on my feelings cause i have a good idea he doesnt feel the same ( hes never had a girlfriend which is totally amazing to me ) and i dont kno ill like other guys and then he'll talk to me more and i'll lose intrest in any guy but him but when i give him my attetion he just acts like its nuttin but when i dont it seems like he works harder for it PLZ HELP ME
thats alot (link)
it sounds like he likes you and is playing hard to get! (i hope im right, he sounds reali cute!) if you feel like u have a crush on him then go with your feelings! talk to him more and why not u play hard to get! ;-) then if you think he should have got the picture... ask him hu he is likin @ da mo! tell him that there is a reali cute boy you like but you dnt knw how to tel him that you like him! if he doesnt like you... he wil tel you! i know this may seem a bit harsh but at least you wont b wasting your time! you could start lookin agen!

good luck xxx


My mom just moved in with a guy and he has a 13 daughter that I believe is a great person, however I just got out of a mental institution for attempting suicide and depression! I started cutting again and now she is following in my footsteps, I dont want to be a leader in that kind of way, but I cant seem to be able to stop! I want to be a positive influence in her life however I'm just confused! How do I be positive when I'm still a cutter!?! (link)
well why dont you talk 2 her and see why she is cutting herself?! if she is a cutter like you, you could help each other to try and stop! if it doesnt stop, then maybe you should tell someone closer to her and see if they can stop her. you should tell her that it doesnt help anything!
i have thought about cutting myself as i am feeling really depressed but i talked about it to my bst m8 and she got it in me head that it wouldt solve any of my problems. this is so true!
now if i feel down i write a letter and burn it, just to get all me feelings out!

hope this is helpful to you and please try to stop hurting yourself... thank you! xxx


i am being forced to move from my home in texas, to the cold and mean streets of chicago. my mother got a new job, and she is carting me up there in february. however, my father lives here in tecas. i have the oppurtunity to live with him, but i never have, and we arent very compatible. should i go with my mom, or stay with my dad? (link)
first of all you need 2 tlk 2 your mum about how you feel! she needs to know how strongly you dont want 2 move! if you have already done so well done! but you also need 2 talk 2 your dad about it and see how he feels if you were to move in with him.

i can relate to your situation a bit coz my bestest m8 has just moved away from me. she is like a sister to me and lived 5 mins away from me.now she has moved with her parents to a house about 1 hour away! she is reali pissed off about it!

well i hope you sort it out and good luck! xxx


What are some good ways to make your girlfriend feel special, like make her feel like you are the best guy in the world (well I know that's probably around impossible. So I am exaggerating a bit, haha.)? What do you girls think would make you special if your guy said them to you or things like that? (link)
well my boyfrind makes me feel special wen he tells me that he loves me! duh! wen we txt each other n i say bi 2 him, he wil always txt me bk sayin bi bk!;-) that may sound ssssoooo simple 2 u but it shows a girl you care about her! also wen u 2 are tlkin dnt always wait 4 her to tell you about herself and her day.... you ask her questions. for example, how she is, how woz skool/work! this just lets us girls know that you boys actualy care and want 2 show it! good luck and im sure she is a lucky girl, your girlfriend, as you care how she feels and wants her to know how much you apreciate her xxx


well im a guy and so far most of my friends have been girls, but recently i made a few guy friends and it jsut occured to me that i realy have no idea how to hang out with guys, what kind of activities etc... (link)
well you should do the sort of activities you like to do and then while you are doin them... you may make friends! if that doesnt work, then do the activities that the guy m8s you met do. you will get better m8s with them but @ the same time, you may realise you like more activities! good luck xxx


I have a business plan to do and I'm opening a nail salon. Should I name it "Paint" or "Tips and Toes"? thanx for your input (link)
that is ssooo cool ur setting up your own business! ;-) i think you should call it tips n toes coz dat sounds more like a nail salon name! good luck and i hope everytnig goes well for your business! xxx




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