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my relationship of 5 years is going down the drain. we have a one and a half year old. today he got upset because he could not find me. he was at work and i went to school to do some papers. when he got off of work he called me a bitch and a whore and he did not believe me that i was at school. i was about to go back to school for class so he hid my makeup, messed up my hair, and threw laundry around the house. then he followed me to school with his bright head lights on. my son was crying and i told my boyfriend to change his diaper and put him to sleep while i go to school cuz he was fussy. his reply was he was not going to do shit. i am stuck as what to do. i do not work much cuz i am a college student. is it ever ok to tolerate this kind of behavior. it is becoming regular. what should i do and how can i do it? i am bad at making decisions, especially the right ones. thanks for listening. (link)
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*Leave him...if hes already to this point its jus going to keep getting worse!I know its hard because you have a child together but when you decided to have sex *&* have that child...you changed your life!Your first priority in life is to put your child first now...*&* that is no good home for a child to be raised in!I would also suggest getting some kind of a restraining order or something...if he'll follow you to school then most likely he'll try to stalk you everywhere you go!
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What are some good ways to make your girlfriend feel special, like make her feel like you are the best guy in the world (well I know that's probably around impossible. So I am exaggerating a bit, haha.)? What do you girls think would make you special if your guy said them to you or things like that? (link)
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*You obviously feel really deep about this gurl...some ways to let her know you care about her are like tell her you love her every chance you get...send her flowers for no special occasion or send her a secret admirer letter w/chocolates *&* tell her to meet you somewhere *&* then be standing there w/a teddy bear or something...
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okay in like 2 weeks my parents are goin outta town and im thinking about having my realllly realllly realllly close best guy friend over to sleep over. [ we are really close and its just like a friend sleepover thing] but yeah. i actually realy like him tho. ive started to have these feelings for him starting about 2 months ago..well, actually right when we started becoming close i started liking him but ive never let him known.. i duno if he feels the same tho..any tipz on how i should tell him without scaring him off? thanks! (link)
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*I know exactly how you feel. I'm really close with this guy rite now thats probly one of my best friends...but I have strong feelings for them too!But I've learned from past experiences that sometimes friendships with opposite sex can confuse you. Make shurr your heart isnt getting confused...but if these feelings turn out to be real then jus sit him down and talk to him like you usually do...honesty is the best policy!
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I have a problem in the learning catagory. You see, I dropped out of school because of a few things, mainly panic attacks and basic miserableness (which I'm working on fixing now). Before 6th grade, I did great. Math, science, English... was all very easy to me.
Then in 6th grade things started going bad. I've been made miserble purposefully by most of my classmates for years. But I stuck it out. Then in 6th grade I started skipping because it was too hard around those people who hurt me all the time. And then I started enjoying the freedom and not doing all that work. So work started to become harder and I avoided doing it.
Now I feel useless and I actually want to get my education and go to college and all. The first step is to get my high school education. It's hard when I'm 18 and officially dropped out in 9th grade. (I hardly even did 7 and 8. I skipped a lot and they put me in 9th when I said I'd make an effort.) So I'm continuing my education through distance education.
I actually have been keeping up on brainy subjects because it interests me. I've been watching history and science documentaries for years and I've always loved books. The problem is that I have hardly been able to retain any of it in my head. I haven't been able to learn. I am doing all this mostly to learn (and to get ahead). But I just... can't remember how to learn. Hardly anything is getting in there anymore. What can I do? How do I learn? (link)
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*First of all...I know its hard...but you cant let what other people say or do to you bother you enuff to ruin your life. I mean 10/20 years from now...nothing they did is going to matter!Live your life for you...not anyone else!*&* if your havin trouble concentrating or something then see a doctor about possible medications you could get on to help you stay focused and atleast get your diploma and get out of high school
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