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scared-- shuld i tell him?
okay in like 2 weeks my parents are goin outta town and im thinking about having my realllly realllly realllly close best guy friend over to sleep over. [ we are really close and its just like a friend sleepover thing] but yeah. i actually realy like him tho. ive started to have these feelings for him starting about 2 months ago..well, actually right when we started becoming close i started liking him but ive never let him known.. i duno if he feels the same tho..any tipz on how i should tell him without scaring him off? thanks!
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Hey! well.. this can be a tricky one considering that guys can be funny/ different if he doesnt feel the same wayy- But since you too are really close, then it shouldnt be hard or weird because if your close, maybe he knows a lot about you and just tell him how you feel inside.. Don't make it like weird, just sit him down and tell him that you have had somthing on your mind.. BUt also your scared to let him know because of what he mite think... But just have a good conversation about it, and after you will feel good that he knows, (but also if you think that he would be freaked out, i dont think it would be the Best idea to tel him) But good luck and just be yourself and say that i hope this didnt mess up our relationship at all because i love having you as a friend :).. Who knows- maybe he feels the same way! Good luck ;)=D
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make sure you know what you want first of all. If you are certain that you want him as a boyfriend then please note the following points. 1- There is no going back to "the way it was" afterwards (ar its extremely rare. 2- DO NOT start to initiate something with him and then "change your mind because you realise that what you have is too special to waste", for the love of God realise this beforehand. 3- DO NOT give him small hints on how you feel (I cant tell you how many relationships/ potential relationships Ive seen bite the dust because girls think we are sensitive to such things). 4- Be gentle (some guys scare easy), say that you were thinking about changing their relationhip, and ask him what he thinks. This also gives you some room to back off rather than the "I love you and I want you approach" (note: I know you didnt say that in your question). 5 DO NOT make a sexual approach (kissing, slow dancing, whatever) instead of the talk for one very important reason... If you havent outlined what you want first, some guys will go with the sex and then leave it at that (i.e. no relationship, no friendhip, etc). For many guys love (or even like) and sex are not connected, while for most girls they are.
Hope this was of some use. Best of luck to you.
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First off you can finish school and maybe learn a few things about how to spell and use correct grammar in a sentence. Yeah, I know, on here, I use abrreviations for somethings and I dont spell everything the correct grammatical way. But you'll have that. But as for your question, you should just say it. Of course, he may feel a little awkward about it at that moment and YES, i tell you he may not feel that way about you. If this is the case he may get a little freaked out about it, but he could probably set that aside and still be friends with you. If he does feel the same for you, then congrats go along on your merry little ways. But just to inform you ahead of time, if things dont work out as you would like them to, there is plenty of other guys out there. You have your whole life ahead of you, you will find someone else. Trust me there are others.
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*I know exactly how you feel. I'm really close with this guy rite now thats probly one of my best friends...but I have strong feelings for them too!But I've learned from past experiences that sometimes friendships with opposite sex can confuse you. Make shurr your heart isnt getting confused...but if these feelings turn out to be real then jus sit him down and talk to him like you usually do...honesty is the best policy!
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