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okay, i really need tips on how to get better sleep, and wake up feeling refresed

try laying in a different position and fully relaxing. maybe doing pilates or yoga about an hour before you go to sleep will help. as for waking up, take a shower in the morning.

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Ok this is a really stupid question...but please bare with me. I can't apply eyeliner! Whenever I do, it looks very fake, and it looks like I just drew a line around my eyes. How do you apply it properly so that it blens and looks my natural?
I rate 5's!!!!

instead of using dark black, you could use brown. pencil liner doesnt have as much of a dramatic affect. also, u dont need to put it around your whole eye. sometimes just the corners look good.

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Hey everyone!
I'm trying to lose a few pounds and maybe an inch off my stomach or just tighten it up. I was just wondering if doing 100 crunches a day, drinking water or flavored water with no calories,carbs etc..and running at least a mile each day will show results within 20 days or so. I would really appreciate any feedback. Thanks guys!

start out with less crunches a day then work your way up b/c once you build resistance youll have to do a lot more and ull spent a long time doing them. it sounds like a good plan! luck!

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ok..i really like this guy ...he is perfect..but the only problem is that he is in 7th grade and im in 8th should that stop me from liking him?
-confused

im personally against dating sevies but this one girl in my grade did that and appereantly they like it. expect it to go really slow tho..

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i have this friend lets call her jay. jay liked this boy ((lets call him P)) her and P used to go out but he broke up with her because she was to slow. (well cuz she never kissed him) but he still loved her and she still loved him so they were just talking for a while and they kissed a few times to. he finally decided he wanted her back. but thats wen she went to a dance and started dancing with some boy ((lets call him E)) well she sorta got a crush on E i guess because wen she came to school the next day she had i love E on her hand. well that was the day P was gonna ask her out. but she made me tell P she sed no so i did and i could tell he was hurt. now she is obsesed with E and he is 11 and she is 13. how do i tell her that she made a big mistake and that she is dumb by choicing a 11 year old? how do i tell her that w.o hurting her feelings?

he's 11? well shell find out for herself after a lil while. tell P to just hang in there cuz it wont last very long...

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im bulimic and anerexic. i dont eat. then when i do i puke. my best friend knows and wants me to stop. i want to but im not ready. what should i do?

well it will take some time but please start soon before it gets worse and leaves damage.

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OMG I soo totally Love hard rock!..my favorite band in the whole world is Dirturbed and I love every one of their songs and i know the words to all of them and i listen to them 24/7...but i am a christian i like other music too but hard rocks my favorite....is listening to it a sin?? and do they worship the devil??? thnx for any help

whether they worship the devil or not has nothing to do with it unless u start worshiping too. its music and NOT a sin!

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I dyed my hair yesterday and i always straighten/flat iron my hair and i was wondering if its safe to flat iron it after i dyed it? would it dye it out? my hair is well conditioned so it doesnt look or feel dye but i was just making sure. Thanks!

yeah its safe

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sometimes when im in the car i imagen getting in a car wreck and dying. and i also imagen other ways that i could die but there all normal...(not like sucide or anything.) is this normal?

yeah i think its normal. when im in a pool i think of forgetting to breathe and drowning. its scary.

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I have this job, it's pretty stupid, but I hold a sign that says "Hot-N-Ready $5" for a pizza place. Anyways, I'm starting to think that the people I work with don't really respect me enough.
For example, on Good Friday, I get a phonecall from them asking me if I can work from 4-6. I say okay, and I change my easter dinner plans with my family. Well, fifteen minutes before my shift starts, I got a phonecall from them telling me I don't need to come in. The fact that they don't respect me enough to let me know earlier or to just let me come in and work the two stupid hours like I planned really pissed me off.
I had been looking for reasons to quit, because after working there for two months, I was still always working outside, and I had expected to be working inside with more hours. So, the other day, I went in, and asked if my manager would be coming in today, and the other lady was like "No, why?" and I just said "well, I need to talk to her." The other woman kept on insisting that I tell her what I need to talk to her about, so I did, and I told her I was really pissed off, and so was my family. So, she went ahead and told me all this crap about how they love me there and think I'm a "great team member". So, I didn't end up quitting, and I'm waiting until my manager comes back. They kind of go through workers pretty quickly, but I've had it.

Do you think I should quit or what? Should I just forget about it and move on and hope things get better?

Q-U-I-T! that job SUCKS! great team member? dont let that stop you! oh and dont give them a long notice either, theyll try to stop you.

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I like this guy.. lets call him B.. and whenever i'm around him i get butterflies in my stomach.. then if im sad or upset..he's the only one that can cheer me up! is this Love?

I rate.

well thats one of the signs that you like him thats for sure. it could be infatuation or lust.

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I can only access internet explorer on one user account. Access is forbidden on all other users account. How do i change this to allow access for all users?

tools > internet options> then look for where u can change the content/user status.

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My best friends are the 2 hottest girls in school. Every guy likes them...this is the order and why guys check them out

Alex-because shes gorgeous, crazy, and outgoing
Paige-because shes pretty, down to earth, and not prude
Me-because of my personality and bc im not prude


It bothers me so much that I'm not pretty. I know having a good personality is better than everything, but Id rather look good.

So my question is:
Should I change myself *not like i havent tryed* just to be pretty? or just deal with it that im not pretty??

u could change something to give you more confidence and make you more comfortable. everyone feels like theyre not pretty enough at one time or another. dont let it get you down!

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Ok i am haven the hardest time with cutting after i do a practice swing!! (that means hitting my self on my shoulder with my bat)
What can i do so i stop hitting myself?
Kris

lol, that happens! you could try ending lower and just stopping. i know u have to have a "full" swing but stopping before busting your shoulder is a good idea.

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13-female & i rate high
my mom and her fiance have just decided that they would like to move in together B4 they get married. (which is sometime at the end of this year.) the lease on our apartment is up at the end of may, and my mom wants us (me, her and my lil' bro) to move in with them (him and his two kids). she says that she doesn't want to renew our lease on our house, b/c at the end of the year she would have to buy out of it b/c she will have to break the lease. his house is not big enough for all six of us to live in, so they have been doing some house hunting in his neighborhood. i have two problems with this:

#1. i am not comfortable with moving in with them right now. i don't really know hime or his kids that well.
#2. i don't want to move to his neighborhood, b/c then i would have to change school districts and leave all of my friends behind.

i have went to dinner with him and his kids. (his daughter is the same age as me.) and we try to do something "together" every weekend or every other weekend, but i feel like this is still not enough to make me comfortable with them. how do i tell my mom how i feel w/o hurting her feelings? i know that she deserves someone in her life that makes her happy, but at the same time i think i should have a say-so too. how do i convince her not to move?

i can understand why u would not like this idea. you are right, your mom deserves someone. you could try talking to her about how you arent comfortable and maybe she would understand and not move in but still be with him. being happy doesnt consist of moving in with him.

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Over the years ive dyed my hair so much from boxes and its developed this orangish/yellow blonde color. A couple months ago, i got my hair professionally highlighted blonde..but the horrible tint/color in my hair is still there. So if i go and get my hair professionally done again, could they strip my hair (take out all the color/dyes)? If so, how much does that cost? I know when you strip your hair, your hair becomes red. So if i dyed it blonde (professionally) after i got it stripped..would it have a red tint to it? If thats not the way to go, what should i do to get rid of all the color in my hair, so i can professionally highlight it so it doesnt look bad? (I cant dye over it, that doesnt work. I need to get rid of the ugly color.)

take a trip to the salon, ask for prices and the stylist should know what the ending color would be.

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Does anybody know where I can find a greek translator?. for free.

why is this under lovelife? ok ANYWAY go to dictionary.com and they have a translator where u put in the text and it translates...for free.

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how do you get nice abs? like i want nice abs with a six pack, just not a noticeable one. i want the outline of one not the inline of one. and i want it to look nice and flat.. any suggestions? i'll rate high! :-D

you shoul go online and look for things to do. some sites have examples and pictures to help you do them the right way.

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this might be long,
At a recent school dance i danced with this really cute boy. That whole night i totally obsessed over him and couldnt stop thinking about him. After the dance i went online and talked to my friend hailey and told her i felt something for him. We talked about it and said "i have no chance hes way out of my league. ill probably never talk to him again" and then the next day at school at lunch hailey came up to me and said " i talked to shane" and i was like "whhattt!?" and she says " i asked him what he thought about you looks wise and he said veerry good" i was really happy about it. I started to get to know him for about a month and when the next dance came he asked me out. We started going out but i felt really weird...not so much the first couple of days. He would come over my house and we watched movies and stuff (and thats it) . then the next weekend he came over again and watched a movie and i got so fed up with having him around and the next day i dumped him. Well to get to the point. I like guys that i cant have. Once they start to like me i totally change and dont feel anything for them. I just want someones oppinion about it. I keep dumping totally sweet boys that girls at my school are dying to get their hands on for no reason!
sorry if it was long
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the way i see it, you are easily infatuated with what you see (and cant have)but when it comes to stuff that REALLY matters, you dont really care. this might mean you are either not ready to be with another person or u like the superficial types. thats probably not what you wanted to hear but its my opinion. stay tru,

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I am 13 and I play sports all the time get up at 6 in the morning to exersise and eat healthy and I still have a bulging gut! What can I do?

maybe you are doing the wrong kind of excersize for your needs. try changing your workout a little bit or do more sets. this should do the trick. as for everyone else, to hell with what they think! its your body and you shouldnt do anything for anyone but yourself! stay posative

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