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is it wrong to love a baseball player thats a year younger than me?
*honest oppinion needed*
i rate high

i dunno what him being a baseball player has to do with it. but ANYWAY, im not really into the girls being older personally but if you love him then go for it. follow your heart!

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can sum1 please tell me when a disposable razor needs to be disposed of? i've 13/f and i've never used a disposable razor before.. whats a way to check if its dull or how do you know when you should throw it out? thanks

you can tell when its really dull and you have to go over the same spot a million times to get a close shave. you can tell when it doesnt remove hair as well as before.

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my boyfriend just broke up with me and he gave me this necklace while i was going out with him and it meant a lot to me. i want to give it back to him but not to his face, i want to put it in his locker with a note. i don't know what to say in the note. ive thought of everything and nothing feels right to say its got to be short and meaningful. something that says "i'm over you", "its your loss" and stuff like that...but i dont want to say something MEAN b/c i dont want him hating me...i want it to say basically "i've moved on", and "you missed out." something like that Please Help Me. I really want to leave a big MEANINGFUL impression on him....HELP.
(the phrases i put in quotes...i dont want to use those exactly....)
xoxo Arielle

make him feel guilty lol. try "i thought you were the one until i got to know you" or something. im not really sure what you want out of it. try quoteland.com if you want a specific quote. also, try lyrics from songs (i.e. since youve been gone).

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My partner and I are from Auckland, New Zealand. My partners sister gave her son who at the time was 5 mnths (so she had only had him for 5 mnths) when she gave him to us to take care of. (we are a same sex couple) We hvae now been taking care of him for 1 whole year now, she signed a letter stating my partner is now the gardian of her son and we have been providing for him for a whole year. Our question is, as we have nothing legal stating he is my partners, we are scared she could take him back at any time. We realise if we wanted to do any legal adoption we we need to have her permission but does anyone know if we have any legal rights as his gardian if she were to come back say after 2-3 years and say she wants him back?

Any legal advice on this matter would be great as he is our life and we will fight her all the way if she were to come back

im not sure about the laws in new zealand but i know in the US they have adoption restrictions on same sex couples. the only way either partner could have custody is if they did not have the other partner. so no legal adoption yet? you might want to try and get that asap so she cant take him back. if she signed a letter saying that your partner is the guardian i dont think she plans to take him back. if you ask her for legal adoption and she does not get permission i would say get a lawyer to help you keep him. good luck

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My friend and i have a bet going. We already know what i will do if i lose, but if he loses, we do not know his punishment. Got any ideas?

it depends on what your punishment is. well something embarrasing my bff and i did to our guyfriend is we dressed him up in a short dress and put full make up on him and took some pictures :-) have fun!

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I bought a shirt from Abercrombie today and washed it when I got home (I don't like how their clothes smell). Well, when I got it out of the dryer, I noticed that I accidently grabed a Large and it's wayy too big. I don't know if they'll let me exchange it since it's been washed. What do y'all think? I can't just forget about it becasue it was a 48 dollar shirt.

well you could try returning it. if they dont take it back, you could try selling it to a friend that wants it. if all else fails, try shrinking it the old fashion way.

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OKay my i need 2 get my g/f a pair of pants for her birthday. So I need to know how girl sizes go. Like 12,14,16_,_,_,_,_ ect. Thanks a bunch. P.S i rate high

hahaha thats cute! umm i recommend snooping to find her pants size before you go...sorry if this isnt exactly what you needed to know.the sizes depend on the store (i wear anywhere from a 1 to an 11) try getting something that comes in S-1-3, M-5-7, L-9-11 sizes if you dont know what to get. hope i helped!

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I'm 14/f~
I still dont have a 8th grade graduation dress and I dont know any good stores to go to I live in WI in the Milwaukee area and I dont know where to go!! does anyone have any good suggestions!??! HELP PLEASE!! I rate high! thx~

try big department stores like macy's, dillards, or jc penny. i think theyre all over the US. DEB shops have some too: www.debshops.com

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what is the shampoo called that makes your hair a different color? not like dye but i saw a shampoo that brings out the color in your hair. one of my friends bought the one for people with red hair and didnt realize that it changes your hair color and she has really blonde hair and her hair turned like a strawberry blonde. so yea, does anyone know what it is called?

its not the color pulse~ i have to make that correction. ok its the john frieda line. there some sun activated stuff for summer. im not sure how well the shampoos work..

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ok, this is weird, i know, but i am going out with this guy who i really like and we just started going out like 3 days ago and i only see him in the halls because he's a grade younger than me. should I hug him first or let HIM hug me... or wave to him.. ugh, i just don't want to embarress myself.. please help!
~morgan

well if hes shy like my boyfriend, then no dont hug him at school. you could hug before you leave school or when you arent surrounded.

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When i wash my hair the day after it gets really greesy! any ideas what i can do to make it not ask greesy or not at all?
thanks a bunch
will rate

i find that when i straighten or leave it down, it gets greasy from touching it. you could try switching shampoos or using a 2 in 1. pert has a shampoo for greasy scalp.

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Im 14/Female and i havnt had my period yet. But i discharge...its heavy (been heavy) since maybe october. Not all the time though. Is it normal for it to be yellowish white? Because i will be in school sometimes and i will discharge and i will always look down to see if i had my period and i dont but its scary. When i do get my period and if im in school will it just come out when it wants to (like people could see it) that would be embarresing! Please Help Ladies! i rate high and give feedback!!!! Thank U

if it does come at school, im sure a friend will tell you. by now, a lot of girls have theirs so they can more than likely help you out.

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does anyone know where i can get one of those rings that symbolize that you are saving yourself until you are married- i forget what they are called- jessica simpson used to have one, they are silver bands..thanks!

theyre called PURITY rings. some christian jewelry stores in different symbols; bible, words: true love waits, hands, etc.

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how can you get rid of cramps ***WHILE*** or BEFORE you are running?? I NEED to know soon! thanks!!!!!!!!!!

well if its like water cramps, you can just prevent it by not drinking or eating much before or while you run. i do some ab excersizes before i run..it helps a little bit. if its like pms then i have no idea.

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hey, im meeting with my girlfriend today, and prolly a few other friends, what are ideas that we could do outside, like putt putt or somthing, im up for anything!

go to the park and just play. i bet they have the soccer goals up at gower..*coughcough* i need a 5. :-)

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we were having foreplay..n wen i blowjobin he suddenly couldn resist it n he splashed around..n while he was cleaning up his sperm he got it some to his hands n soon he wiped off wit his handkerchief..then after a while he finger penetrated my vagina..will tis cause pregnancy..im 20 n his 19..

nope. if your worried, get a test.

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my friend is having her bday party...but my other friend is having hers the same day..but invited me afterwards. I want to go to both..should i try and work where i leave one party early to go to the other..should i just pick one party to go to? i dont want to hurt anyones feelings.

dont stay at the one if it keeps you from being at the other one. you could try leaving early. sorry this isnt exaclty perfect advie, i dont know how to word it right but i say try to go to both.

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i belive in no religion and i think i need a purpose in lif. does anyone know a good place for me to find about every religion since there is so many out there.

simply going to church wont cut it. maybe talking to some people who have been converted to the religion could help you. they can tell you how they got into it. if you talk to a layperson/priest/rabbi/w.e, they will say anything to get u to believe. i cant give you a specific website. i honestly would recommend going to witness the faith in action cuz some of the religious websites are cheesy.

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I guess this would go under this catergory but anyway....

I always buy make-up well not always but its always the wrong kind, some look to dark or to light so which do i buy..

I have
-brown hair
-freckles (but i like them cuz i do)
-blue eyes but then sometimes grayish
-i have glasses but im gettin contacts this month not that it matters anyway
-im white

do you know any products i could use also...like be specific

well if you want to keep your freckles, dont wear foundation. on your cheeks, use a rosy pink. my friend has almost the same complexion and she uses a almost maroon-pink on her eyelids just doesnt apply a ton. lips-try something nude or clear. hope this helps.

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Teen christianity is becoming an enormous problem. In hordes normal children are being brainwashed into believing their elders that the world will end within their lifetimes.
As a result kids aren't just kids anymore. Everything that used to be "fun" is suddenly a "sin." We're busy thinking about heaven and our church before we hardly even had a chance to see the world, and we're waiting for the "world to end."
What a crock of sh**. I personally don't even want to go with Jesus if there is an apocolypse. I never was attracted to Christianity. Your parents shove it down your throats before you even have a chance to thin for yourselves. It's a religion created by old men, for old men, and against personal gain or women in general. Well, being an AMBITIOUS woman and a FEMINIST I want nothing to do with this faith. I know I'll be getting some violent attacks from all of you brainwashed little turds about how right you are and wrong I am, and I'll sit here and sigh and understand because you're in a box that you didn't necessarily put yourself in.
So here is my question- what makes you believe anyway?

well im a teen christian and honestly, i made the choice to be. sure, im raised by catholics but i too questioned why the hell anyone would believe in anything like that. honestly, my parents couldnt care less whether im catholic/christian or islamic; i made the choice once i could truely see that there is some power greater than i that made everything good. its a simple as seeing a prayer be answered that can make anyone believe. by belonging to a religion, you dont have to believe everything you are told. you have to have one solid belief and then it will lead you from there. i dont know what faith thinks the world is going to end but thats a bunch of bullshit! if they had any faith in ANYTHING they wouldnt think the world is going to end. against personal gain...thats a harsh way to put it. its to not be selfish, not poor and a missionary. its also not against women. we worship mary, the mother of our God. feminism shouldnt be a conflict with this. you have a right to an opion as do i. i dont mean to attack you, but i want to make clear that there is nothing wrong with christianity. i wasnt pressured into it. im sure some are, but that does not mean every christian is.

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