ok, this is weird, i know, but i am going out with this guy who i really like and we just started going out like 3 days ago and i only see him in the halls because he's a grade younger than me. should I hug him first or let HIM hug me... or wave to him.. ugh, i just don't want to embarress myself.. please help!
~morgan
glamnglitz answered Monday April 11 2005, 4:45 pm: Since ya'll have just started going out 3 days ago, I think you should wave and smile to him now. You can wait until he gets around to hugging you, but you can also just go for it and hug him. If you are not sure whether you should hug him just yet, you can give it a little time, and wait until it becomes natural for you hug him comfortably. [ glamnglitz's advice column | Ask glamnglitz A Question ]
LoLo2454 answered Sunday April 10 2005, 10:44 pm: You should hug him first. Why wait for him? Since he's younger he's probably nervous about hugging you and what your reaction will be. So just take a stand and give him a hug. Hope I helped :)
Bubblesfariy answered Sunday April 10 2005, 5:05 pm: morgan let the him make the first move its always better. if you think ur moving to fast just tell him that for ow just wave so he knows you care!
luck to you!!! [ Bubblesfariy's advice column | Ask Bubblesfariy A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Sunday April 10 2005, 3:22 pm: Hug him go on why not! there isnt anything wrong with it. its a friendly way of saying hi.
Teza answered Sunday April 10 2005, 3:20 pm: Smile and wave but let him hug you first. You both will get more comftrable with each other and he will start hugging you first. x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
EJ47 answered Sunday April 10 2005, 3:19 pm: Let him hug you. Dont want to rush things now, its only been three days ^^;
However, to me, hugging is a good way to know Im someones friend :P
<3 EJ [ EJ47's advice column | Ask EJ47 A Question ]
ILoveJordan answered Sunday April 10 2005, 3:16 pm: Just keep it simple, wave and stuff. I think you should let him decide when he wants to hug ya, cause you don't wanna seem pushy lol. Good luck!
Tinkerbelle answered Sunday April 10 2005, 3:11 pm: Do whatever feels right to you! But I actually wouldn't hug him first, I mean in the hallway, because he could get embarrassed (some guys don't like PDA). So I'd either wait for him to hug you first or just wave, or ask him if it's okay to hug him.. Sorry, I wasn't much help lol. [ Tinkerbelle's advice column | Ask Tinkerbelle A Question ]
LlamaGal answered Sunday April 10 2005, 3:11 pm: Smile and wave first, but you dont have to hug if you dont feel comfortable. Some ppl only show affection in private. I'd just stick to saying hey and waving for now. [ LlamaGal's advice column | Ask LlamaGal A Question ]
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