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in a situation...
my friend is having her bday party...but my other friend is having hers the same day..but invited me afterwards. I want to go to both..should i try and work where i leave one party early to go to the other..should i just pick one party to go to? i dont want to hurt anyones feelings.
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If you are able to do it I think you should try to go to both. Just explain to them that you want to come to both party's so you will have to leave on early to go to the other. Otherwise they will think you are playing favorites.
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I think you should go to the party of the person who asked you first, then go to the second person's party. That's a bad coincidence?... Too bad your friends have their parties at the same times... Good luck. :)
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Well, the way I see it, you have 2 options:
a) Go to one friend's birthday party (I would go to the friend that asked you first or the one that you said yes to first) or
b) split your time between the two (this might be a good idea if one of your friends is doing one activity at one time and the other is doing a different activity at a different time...just so you could balance what you're doing better)
Problem with b is that your friends might get mad for going to only half of one party...
If it was me, I would go to the one that I said yes to first, just to be fair.
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you should go if you have time for each. if i were you i would go to the one thats family or the person who i have known the longest but it would still hurt the other one if you walked out on her party. if this advice helps rate me.
---montrealfan
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dont stay at the one if it keeps you from being at the other one. you could try leaving early. sorry this isnt exaclty perfect advie, i dont know how to word it right but i say try to go to both. <3
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