we were having foreplay..n wen i blowjobin he suddenly couldn resist it n he splashed around..n while he was cleaning up his sperm he got it some to his hands n soon he wiped off wit his handkerchief..then after a while he finger penetrated my vagina..will tis cause pregnancy..im 20 n his 19..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Peeps answered Tuesday November 10 2009, 4:06 am: I'm so sad that the rumor that "sperm dies instantly outside of the body" or "sperm dies instantly when it hits air" is still being spread, especially on Advicenators. No, sperm does not "die instantly" or even "within seconds" after being ejaculated outside of the body. The sperm swim slower outside of the body, live shorter lifespans (A LOT more than seconds, believe me), and are mostly dead by the time the ejaculate actually dries (which takes more than seconds, right? Right.). If the sperm is on a body part then the body temperature can keep the little guys alive for quite some time. Sperm are amazing little creatures.
Just for reference, men who are trying to raise their sperm count are told to wear loose clothing on their bottom half to help the temperature drop to a cooler temperature. Hmm...doesn't sound like the sperm are DYING from the temperature drop, does it?
If oxygen (or anything in our air) killed the sperm then NOBODY would get pregnant. It's ridiculously unbelievable to think that we, females, have no sort of "air" or "oxygen" in our vaginas. Our vaginas are simply fleshy HOLES--and what happens to be in holes, typically? Air. And when you shove something in a hole, what is pushed first into that hole? Air. And, speaking of this, what are queefs? Air being released from the...VAGINA! Yes, AIR/OXYGEN does NOT kill sperm!
Yes, you have a fairly good chance of being pregnant! Yes, yes, yes!
Sperm need a moist environment to move in. They are little bitty creatures with tails--the tail flutters and propels them throughout the moist area. They are very small so there IS a chance they can even swim through fabric even as long as it was throughly moistened. These little guys were designed to ensure reproduction--that is the only reason they are alive; they will do what they can to find the goal. Putting a sperm-laced hand on or in your vagina is just asking to be pregnant!
It only takes ONE sperm to fertilize your one egg inside of you. When a guy ejaculates, billions of sperm are game to finding the egg. Sperm can live inside of you, in perfect conditions, for about 5 - 7 days; however, it is definately not unheard of to find live sperm inside of a woman two weeks later. I would safely say that from the second your vaginal area came in contact with sperm until about two weeks time your egg may become fertilized and pregnancy result.
So, in short, yes, you could have been impregnanted if there was fluid contact to your vaginal area.
If your next period misses then good chances are that you are pregnant. You can take a home pregnancy test then (after the missed period) or go to a clinic for a pregnancy test (more accurate; requires blood sample).
Purchase a few home pregnancy tests and test yourself occassionally if your period does not come next month. Some home pregnancy tests are better than others. According to a couple of studies done, First Response and Early Result Pregnancy Test are the two best kinds to purchase because they are slightly more sensitive than the others. You may want to pick up a couple of those for home usage.
xoJoElenox answered Sunday April 10 2005, 5:24 pm: ok, wow i am literally blown away, but im only 14, but i can tell you from taking a class about this that his finger can not make you pregnant! because its like you fingering yourself, your not pregnant so why is his finger different, i cant believe i just dicussed that, but random questions
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Karen answered Saturday April 9 2005, 11:58 am: Once sperm hits air, it takes a few hours to die. There is a chance that you can become pregnant if your boyfriend fingered you when having sperm/cum on his fingers. Since he wiped his fingers with his handkerchief, then you're alright. But you can become pregnant. [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
icey0990 answered Saturday April 9 2005, 11:56 am: Its very unlikely because semen die verry quickly when exposed to air. They need a warm wet environment..such as the vagina to surrvive. So if there was some chance of you being pregnent, he would have to ejaculate on his hands and stick is fingers right into your vagina..almost purposely trying to get his semen in there..even if he did that..its not the same as the chance of becoming pregnent from sex. When you have sex, he ejaculates inside you and it has force; little traces of ejaculation that arent "shot" up there arent likely to swim to the egg and surrvive. So i wouldnt worry..its all ok. [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
EJ47 answered Saturday April 9 2005, 10:12 am: Nahh, if he cleaned his finger off, then you're fine. Maybe a couple hundred made it in, but if they did, they're already dead. Only about 50 make it to the egg really when full intercourse takes place. :P If you're worried though, in about 2 weeks you should take a preg test. I wouldn't worry about it though. [ EJ47's advice column | Ask EJ47 A Question ]
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