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Question Posted Sunday April 10 2005, 9:04 pm

my boyfriend just broke up with me and he gave me this necklace while i was going out with him and it meant a lot to me. i want to give it back to him but not to his face, i want to put it in his locker with a note. i don't know what to say in the note. ive thought of everything and nothing feels right to say its got to be short and meaningful. something that says "i'm over you", "its your loss" and stuff like that...but i dont want to say something MEAN b/c i dont want him hating me...i want it to say basically "i've moved on", and "you missed out." something like that Please Help Me. I really want to leave a big MEANINGFUL impression on him....HELP.
(the phrases i put in quotes...i dont want to use those exactly....)
xoxo Arielle


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orphans answered Tuesday April 12 2005, 1:42 pm:
How about "It's all gravy". I love that saying... Though I know what you mean, short, but sweet.. hmm... "In advance, no." haha, wow, that was funny...

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FlukeKid answered Monday April 11 2005, 11:13 pm:
<i>"Your loss not mine"</i>

Says that your over him and it's his loss.

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CameronASTB answered Monday April 11 2005, 8:51 pm:
awww... thats so sweet, I gave my girlfriend a neckless & I got one that matched, but then we broke up & she broke her's(I think it was on purpose)& I kept mine as a memorie of her & it reminds me so much of her, hr name was Mary, & every time I hear that song "Mary" byt Sarah McLachlan it reminds me of her, not just cos of the name, cos of how Mary was, & every time I look at that neckless I hear that sweet song playing through my head...

I would keep the neckless as a reminder, I never wear mine, its valubul to me, & I would keep it if I was you, just to have something that you can just look ay to remember him & all the good memories, even if ya'll don't get along, I'd keep it

-Cameron

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redxroses answered Monday April 11 2005, 12:24 am:
"Here's the necklace back, I didn't want to just throw it away," that's what I'd right...

My ex got me a bracelet before we broke up, but he wanted me to keep it because he said I deserved it at the time or something...

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Always_4forever answered Monday April 11 2005, 12:03 am:
if your seriuosly over him.. then put something on the note " i hope your happy" or something like i m over you dont make it sound like you are obsessed with telling him but give the necklace back dont let it haunt you its for the best

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icey0990 answered Sunday April 10 2005, 9:49 pm:
How about
"it was good while it lasted"
"i know more for my next bf now. hope to be friends" << you can leave the hope to be friends part out if you want>>>
"people grow from relationships to make the next one 5 times better"

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shake answered Sunday April 10 2005, 9:49 pm:
Put
"I've moved on, you missed out"

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just_ask_me answered Sunday April 10 2005, 9:38 pm:
Well, anything you put in there to show him you're 'over him' will be sort of mean. Even if it is his loss (which im sure it is!) two wrongs don't make a right. Before you give the necklace back to him, are you sure you don't want to keep it? Did he ask for it back? If it did mean alot to you, you might want to hold on to that memory. If not, here's something you could write in the note. "I thought you might want this back." It's short and meaningful, straight to the point.

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FlaWlessMonoLith answered Sunday April 10 2005, 9:25 pm:
say i dont need this anymore sence your no longer mine it can stay with you bc if its from u then it deserves to miss out too or sumn like that haha

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LoveNJstyle answered Sunday April 10 2005, 9:22 pm:
make him feel guilty lol. try "i thought you were the one until i got to know you" or something. im not really sure what you want out of it. try quoteland.com if you want a specific quote. also, try lyrics from songs (i.e. since youve been gone). <3

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