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i was wondering if anyone knew of any good websties that you can find good love or friendship poems or quotes .... thanks for the help

try www.links2love.com

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my daughter has just had her parent teacher evening in school and a few things came to my attention, they have been monituring my daughters behavior and said that she has been diagnosed with ADHD. all this was done without me knowing a thing. is this normal? my daughter and i both feel this is unacceptable but were not sure if thats the way it happens.. so is anyone else been in this situation?
please help us

i think its illegal to do that without your consent. i would get it checked out.

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ok im 14 and im a girl... my friend mike likes me and i like him only he doesnt know it yet and im afraid what he will say if i do tell him please help

if he likes you, then tell him! you cant go wrong. he'll be glad and he wont say anything mean or bad cuz he likes you!

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hi im Jess for some may know but when i run i get tired very easily and i get a cramp fast how can i avoid these problems thx i rate high.
Love Jess

[scream] i hate when that happens! avoid drinking too much water. that wont help you at all. before soccer, go out for a light jog (after stretching a bit, of coarse) so youll be ready to play or practice. try doing situps or light ab-working excersizes b4 you run...it helps me. just keep goin and dont give up!

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I'm trying out for the JV Cheerleading team for my freshman year on Monday. I'm really nervous and I wanted to know if theres anything you should really know. I was just wondering if there was anything specific. Good advice means a good rating. :)

well im not a cheerleader but im around hem enough during football season and really, it doesnt matter how cheesy the cheer really is, its how you perform it. smile like its the coolest thing youve ever done. some think that if they dont put effort into it or not project, theyll look cuter, but really from a spectators point of view, it looks and sounds really bad. posture...that will make you stand out in a good way so dont slouch! if they do teach you a new cheer, learn it as good as you can and if you mess up, keep going...thats a good thing no matter what you do/play. luck

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okay so i am 14/f and i have never had a boyfriend before. Many times i have come close like this year but then something always gets in the way and ruins it. What i want to know is what is wrong with me i mean i have alot of friends and i am active and athletic and people tell me i am beautiful but i never have had a boyfriend and i dont know if i am doing something wrong. If there is anyone that could help me with trying to fix something that maybe i am doing wrong that would be great!
thanks!~

there is nothing wrong with you! sometimes guys dont think they can be with someone thats pretty, popular, or perfect. its like when a girl like the QB in some cheesy lifetime movie, they can only dream aout it so they dont act on it. im 14 and i just got my first b/f... my single friends have more fun! lol enjoy not bein commited to anyone...the right guy will come around.

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Today i feel like, well i dont know. Like i want to just cry and stuff..and i really dont know why. Im not upset, or anything like that.
Why do i feel like im going to cry?

well girls get really emotional for a lot of different reasons that a lot of ppl already mentioned. guys, im not really sure but for both stress can do that to you. try going out for a jog and get your heart pumping and endorphines going (natural highs). this should help you get happy.

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ok, when your birthday comes, does the age on your column automatically change? thx

no because i think when it asks for you age, it asks for a number, not a date so your going to have to do it yourself by coing to "profile settings"

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Okay here it goes, my boyfriend is really unexperienced, and really shy. I want to know if I should just go for it or wait untill he goes for it (it being the kiss) Or is it more of a "we both will know when its right" type of deal. I was the one to initiate most everyhting else such as holding hands and whatnot,...now what?

i have a situation exactly like this. well against common opinion, im not going to make the first move b/c i would presonally feel kinda pushy. just do what you wanna do.

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I'm a bit overweight and so I've always been a little bit embarassed to exercise in front of people. It seems to just make things worse for me, because then I don't feel like I get enough exercise in the day, but I hate running because I'm slower and always afraid somebody will see me, and I don't even like doing stuff at home because my mom and dad might see me. Any good tips for conquering my fear or ways to exercise alone?

aww! its ok to be a little embarrassed but dont let that keep you from it! you can do crunches, situps and other indoor things in the comfort of you bedroom or living room. you should try running...ts ok to be slow. im not the fastest person either so you can go alone (during the day) and take it slow and dont go against anyone but yourself. lemme know if you need anymore help with this!

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okay well i'm going on a graduation trip in a couple weeks, and i'm kinda having 2 little problems, lol. i'm a teenager, a girl. we bunk with 3 other girls if that helps. anyway..

1. I don't think I'll be able to fall asleep lmao because if I do, I can be a very heavy sleeper and I'm not sure if I trust anyone to wake me up. I don't want to be tired the next day, should I bring like Starbucks double shot expressos or something haha?

2. I have a weird fear of rollercoasters, and I don't know why. I think it might be because I'm afraid of something going wrong. Should I just go on one .. or what ? lol I just don't know, I don't want to be all screaming and embarrass myself either.

sounds like a sweet trip! 1. set an alarm on a cell phone and if your in a hotel, you can request a wake up call. if you think you need coffee, definatly bring it! 2. i used to be scared of roller coasters and i used to get sick on them. just go on them and its ok if you scream...i do even if im not scared! dont close your eyes completely...it will give tyou motion sickness and if you look in the direction that the coaster is going in, it will make the ride a bit more enjoyable.

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when i go to get a physical for cheerleading, nexy year willl they check to see if im a virgin..and if they do are they alowed to tell my parents???
thanx lotz!!!!
xoxox
leila

well i dont really know why they would wanna know if your a virgin or not...what does it have to do with cheerleading or any other aspect of life? if they do check you out to the core they still cant tell your parents without your consent.

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Sometimes I think that dancing rules my life. I take a very rigid, strict class where everything must be "just so" and I can't do anything when I want to. One day when my friend tied a friendship bracelet around my wrist, my dance teacher saw it and personally cut it off my wrist so I wouldn't wear it again. Also, when I want to try a sport like soccer or basketball, my dance teacher is the one who refuses to let me, saying that I will twist something or break something and I wouldn't be able to dance. My parents just stand around saying "Listen to what she says, dear. Listen." Now I really want to get some gentle highlights in my hair and my parents said yes at first, but they changed their minds when my dance teacher said no. What do I do?

wow! this sounds like a really really advanced class! how do highlights affect your dancing? i mean i can see how playin soccer could affect it but highlights? what a b*tch! ok dont say that to her haha just tell her nicely that you dont think it would affect the way you dance and you should be able to decide for youself sometimes. just dont fight her...some dance teachers kick students out of the studio if they dont like what they see. luck!

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random question... but im like starving right now!! anybody know any good ideas for some food i could eat?!~ lol

grilled cheese sandwhich, cereal (lol, its fast!), ice cream, toast with cream cheese, brownies...this is makin me hungry!

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Yeah...so my friend is staying at my house for a week because her parents are out of town. But my house is so....BORING! And the TV is broken, so that pretty much stinks. =( Any ideas what we can do??? ITS SOOOO BORING!!!! lol

13/f (both of us)

well from being on the site, you probably have a computer so get a ton of dvds from the library or blockbuster and watch them on there or go on a website where you can watch stuff. it you dont like that, listen to music, talk, bake cookies, sing, do an in-home spa thing, do cool stuff to clothes or just have more ppl over and play group games. hope this helps!

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ok well last night i went somewhere and after, i went to this guys house.. we were alone and stuff and we did some sexual stuff... but like i mean i have a boyfriend... and i totally hate myself for doing this to him... i dont want to tell him, but what if someone finds out and tells him...help?

you should really tell him before he finds out. if he confronts you before you get to tell him, dont lie or it will lead to more lies. just dont let it happen again.

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Okay i'm 13 and my boyfriend is 15. We really care about each other and he is really open about his feelings. He told me that he loves me and he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me . He even said if we were old enough he would marry me!He writes me notes and sometimes he will read them over the phone. We went to the movies and he fingered me and he wanted me to touch him but i wouldn't. I feel the same way he does but i'm too scared to say it. I say that I love him but that's all. Im too embarrased to read the notes over the phone i write him. And i love it when he touches me like he does and i want to touch him but for some reason i just wont. What should i do?

if you don want to, then dont! how long have you been together? be glad that he wants to share, it should make you a bit more comfortable but that does not mean you have to do anything physical.

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ok... so i have been playing defense (soccer) for awhile... almost a year or even two... but i have been playing soccer since i was in 3rd grade and im a sophmore in highschool now... i have played every position before mostly mid... but i have a game sunday and my friend's friend came to one of our practices and told my friend that i have a nice kick, like shot on net... and my friend told me i should forget D and play mid but the thing is my couch wants me to stay back... i don't know what to do... should ask my couch or should i stay on D... i rate pretty high

Gomesy

well i play forward and i like it better than defense. you could ask your coach to practice offense if you really want to. then you could at least give it a shot.

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Okay, well i have to do a speech, and im doing it on how girls are just terriably mean to eachother with the backstabbing, and the calling of names such as "whore, slut, skank.. ect" and everything else that has to do with bullying. if anyone has any stories about their lives and being bullying by other girls please comment me. or e-mail me on xobabicakesox@hotmail.com
thanks so much
ashley

there are these 2 girls that have been friends forever and then they both liked this one guy and so girl A trashed B to the guy and lost the friendship for the other girl. then girl b got really mad and ignored her. so girl A starts rumors at school about how she was some asian whore and stuff. she also trashed EVERY girl in the grade and the secrets got out. so there were a bunch or verbal fights about whos man was better and god-knows-what. then girl B starts gettin allies cuz no one liked what A was saying about them. so then girl A was alone and still talking about B to me (i was neutral) so nothin was resolved at that point. after a few days A started the biggest scene- crying, bitching -the whole 9 yards and eventually gained back some ppl. then those ppl told B and they all talked about her. eventually they all apologized but theres still stuff going around about it.
^im not sure this is exactly what you wanted or needed. i have plenty more so leave it in my inbox!

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i want to join cross country next year, and i was wondering... what all do you do and how far do you run?

two of my friends run CC and im going to next year. they both run about 5 miles @ freshman/sophmore level.

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