my daughter has just had her parent teacher evening in school and a few things came to my attention, they have been monituring my daughters behavior and said that she has been diagnosed with ADHD. all this was done without me knowing a thing. is this normal? my daughter and i both feel this is unacceptable but were not sure if thats the way it happens.. so is anyone else been in this situation?
please help us
Mksangel1316 answered Sunday April 24 2005, 2:26 pm: They should not be able to moniter her without your consent unless it is disrupting other children from their work. In this case, I highly doubt it was.
That IS unacceptable and you should talk to the Principle of the school and tell her it is well within your rights to take appropriate action.
Siren_Cytherea answered Sunday April 24 2005, 12:57 pm: That is not the way it happens. To be diagnosed with ADHD, your daughter would need to actually be seen by a doctor. Schools nowadays tend to just assume ADD or ADHD if a kid is distracted. I mean, they even tried to diagnose me with it, which is frankly ridiculous. I doodle in class, yes, but it's because I'm bored.
You and your daughter are correct in feeling that this is unacceptable. If you're worried about her having ADHD, talk to a doctor, NOT a school. Schools know nothing about children, and I stand by that.
I have not been in this exact situation myself, but several of my friends have, and I ask you not to make the same mistake their parents did in simply getting them medicine they may not need. Talk to a doctor about your concerns and see what they say.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
o0xbrianna answered Sunday April 24 2005, 11:54 am: I don't think they can do that without your permission!
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