ok so this dude im totally into blocked me on msn, and i have no clue why. I know he blocked me because he was online on my friends msn but offline on my. And i havn't even talked to him or anything..i'm soo confused right now.Do you know why he could have done this? /marlena
Well think think think...what could of you done.. maybe you did nothing i really dunno.. but maybe get your friend to see why he has blocked you.. much luv dez
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our gruop of friends is falling apart.wel we were invited to go to this house party last saturday but only one of us could go my freind .she went and ever since she went she just dropped us hasnt said two words all week.i dont want to lose her as a freind but i cant carry on like this?what can we?anyone got ne ideas.plse reply swn xxxx
Sounds like you all need to talk bout whats going on...so do that and youll feel better...much luv dez
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i really like this guy... and he likes me too.. and heres the problem... hes 18... im 14.. and my mom wont let me go anywhere w/out her when im with a guy.. so i cant ever go anywhere with him.. and he doesnt go to my school.. and my mom just said im not allowed to talk to him since hes 18.. what should i do?
Well i mean it sounds like theres nothing you can do this.. jus move on and forget bout him..much luv dez
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Ok, so there is this kid that likes me and I like him. I talk to him on the phone and at school. One day we got into the subject of boyfriends and girlfriends. So I said we would be like perfect and he goes yea let me think about it? Its been a month. How do I bring the subject back up, or do I just let it go?
Well this guy must be shy or not really like you.. cause he hasnt brought that back up... jus ask him like how is love life or something like that.. jus be real with the guy and come out see whats up with it,. i mean i think if he hasnt brought it up he most likely isnt interested more then jus friends... but he could be shy im not sure cause i dont know him but find out...mcuh luv dez
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I like this guy who's quite weird. People calls him a nerd. He seems so quiet, aloof, shy but incredibly smart. I didn't get to talk to him often, but when he talks to me, i notice that his voice goes soft. Other times when we were discussing a project in a group, he either seems bored, brash, flustered or really egoistical. He seldom talks to people in class in the past, but recently he seems happier. He seems to dislike me at first, either ignoring me or giving sarcastic coments just like he does most people, but now he seems to talk to me a bit. Then the other day he suddently comes around and calls my name and calls me his sweetheart. What does that mean? Does he like me or was he just joking?
Well he could be joking cause you said he sarcastic... but really he could of realized your not somebody who gon make fun of him for how he is or anything.,.. he might like you..jus keep being his friend and stuff like you have...dont rush into anything yet.. much luv dez
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I dated somebody for a year. She was my first everything: first person I fell in love with, first person I got close to, first person I became intimate with, everything. We broke up in January. I am over the relationship itself, but I am not over her. I think those feelings will be there for a while, there really isnt anything I can do to make them go away. Well, now I'm dating again. Ive been seeing the same girl for the past few weeks now, and things are starting to become a bit more serious. Not very serious, but its becoming more than just dating. Shes even my date to prom, which is in 2 months now. Problem is, the feelings arent anywhere near as intense as it was with my ex girlfriend. I like this new girl, shes totaly great, but I feel like I've become jaded since my breakup, and therefore dont have much to offer her. Any advice on what to do?
hun* well your *ex* was your first everything and you will always have feelings for that girl... jus really try your best to give what you can to this girl your with now.. its good that you have also tried to move on.. you probably wont feelings for your new girl friend like your ex for a while..cause those feelings for your ex became more and more over a year..you only been with the new girl for a few weeks your not going to have the same kinda feelings in jus a few weeks and you shouldnt.. there is nothing wrong with how you feel or what you are doing.. jus do the best you can for your new girlfriend thats all you can really do now.. much luv dez
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Hey everyone,
Ok heres the problem...my neighbor is the hottest thing, hes a redneck about 15. And i really like him. We were friends when we were younger but his parents got divorced and now he comes down here on the weekends. There was never anything like sexual tension between us until now. But the pathedic part about this I havn't talked to him. i am super nervous and afraid. Of what? I guess rejection. What should I do? I wanna see where we could go? Please help...
BTW: 14 in April : Female
Hun* jus go over and talk to him... youll never find out if you get rejected til you do something... i mean yea you could get rejected but so what.. theres other guys out there and you and him can continue to be friends.. if you dont get rejected then everything is cool.. but you have to say something to find out..much luv dez
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I'm not sure if Frienship is the right catagory or not... Here goes: My friend, Chelsea, was a nervous wreck. She was so scared about telling her boyfriend she wanted to kiss. I told her to write him and note so she did. She said she gave it to him and he said he wanted to, too. That was a week ago and she says they still haven't kissed. I asked if it's because they never see each other except in school where they would get in trouble but she said he'll do anything else. Just won't kiss. Is he lying to her or nervous or what? Neither of us understand and she doesn't want to look dumb by asking. She's mad because if that is the problem, she'll probably never kiss him because they can't see each other out of school. Also, is this type of question common at all? Thanx!
Well she probably needs to get a boyfriend she can see outside of school so that it wont be awkward or anything.. she is probably his first kiss to and nervous and doin that in school doesnt sound to exciting... i mean they can get in trouble for someshit like that... but um i think she needs to find a good time and place to do this.. not in school...much luv dez
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ok i have this friend and he's a guy and hes really cute but were just friends and we like to do sexual things but we havent had sex or anything. i showed him things and he's showed me things on our bodys.well we got into 3 fights and when we stop talking to each other he always comes and apologizes to me and i forgive him. now its a regular day in school and he calls my cell phone and askes me to come get him out of class so we can have sex in the stairwell in school. i wanna have sex with him but then im not sure were like really close friends and having sex with him it wont be the same after because it will be akward talking to him after we have sex. well if any one can give me some advice please cwrite back
signed: sexually wrecked princess
Well um okay you guys do sexual things other then have sex and you want to do more... well um having sex with him could bring you closer or farther apart...but if this guy is going to take your virginity i would not have sex with him.. i think if you do that you will regret it...but other then that i still think you shouldnt do it... you probably dont think you'll feel used now or when you have sex with him but you could later.... i know i would feel used cheap and like a hoe if i did that.. but you might look at it different..um and doin it in a stairwell doesnt sound too nice.. if your going to have sex with him do it in a bed or somewhere private.. and if you get caught doin that in a stairwell by like some kid who knows what will get spread around about you guys.. you dont wanna hurt your rep or anything at your school..much luv dez
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Okay.My boyfriend told one of my best friends that he doesnt like me anymore so she can tell me. When I got online she told me and I was really mad. I was mad because all of my friends were telling me to break up with him because he didnt treat me right. He didnt know how to be a boyfriend and plus he was prude. He always told me that he loved me and he would never break up with me but look now he told her he didnt like me
anymore. Im so mad at my self that I didnt listen to my friends before. I didnt want to belive them. Now I`m hurt and I dont know what to do. I dont wanna talk to him and let him know I`m sad or anything. So .. do you think he ever liked me or that he just said he did? Im so confused and hurt. Please help! I rate 5's!
Well your a young girl and you should enjoy your freedom of being single.. but anyways i think you need to talk to him.. ask him why he dont like you and why all the sudden he doesnt like you... that might not make you feel better but you should see what has happened to your relationship with this guy.. i know it hurts to have that happen cause i've had it happen.. but really i know you'll get over it and meet a real good guy... gettin a good guy takes time some girls find em and some don't but i hope your one of the females that does and make standards that you want in a guy and always keep em...much luv dez
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ii havent got my period for the month of february n i was supposed to get it around february 24th n i didnt! what does this mean ii mean i just satrted november 2004
your not regular yet... you will get regular jus not right now you only been on your period for like 4 months..much luv dez
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Where are some good stores to shop for clothes??
Lacey
Well i dont know your style to help you...sorry much luv dez
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Ok, this might be kind of long but here goes...I have been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months, and we are really getting on eachothers nerves, we fight over little things a lot and its getting old. He's always by my side and following me, hes really clingingy and hes just getting annoying. Don't get me wrong, he is the best boyfriend I have ever had--literally--and the longest relationship, but I just want to be friends right now. I don't want any boyfriend at all, but I have issues with breaking up with people. I don't like to hurt people's feelings I hate makeing people feel bad or cry, and I need some ideas as to how I could break up with him, but let him know I still love him, we still have a very big chance, I just need a break and want to be friends for awhile?
I rate high to answers that don't offend or piss me off.
Thanks for you help.
Breaking up with anybody is always hard and i dont think it will come easy..but jus talk to him *alone* and tell him you love him but you think you guys need a break..*time from eachother* but tell him you want to continue to be friends... he might not like that idea but tell him why you want to just be friends right now.. tell him *alone* is better because you might cry and who knows if he will probably but you dont want this all out in public...best of luck dez
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OK when i first learned about sex back in middle school...i said to myself "im waiting until marriage" right away. I want to wait..because i dont know if i can deal with the emotions..but then again i want to do it (not now..definately not ready) in the future..you know when i find a bf when im like 18 + ..probably more like in my 20's though. I dont know..i just cant picture myself only havving sex with one man..plus im only 15 and im so curious about it now..im scared that what if i dont get married til im 30? I dont know if i can wait 15 more years..it seems to distant. How do i know for sure if im going to wait? or if im not? Do any of you out there have premarital sex..or have done it with a few people? Was the emotion too much for you when you broke up ? Or a one night stand..was that too much for you? I'll rate 5's
Waiting is probably better... the guy im with now i lost my virginity too and like i know if we broke i know that i will be tore up inside he is mty first love basically my first everything other then my first boyfriend but the first person i did anything with.. i dont regret that i had sex with him cause i love him more then anything but i wonder what if i get hurt and that i should of wait but maybe i should of thought bout all that before.. but anyways i think waiting until your in love with somebody would be better.. jus make sure who ever you lose your virginity to is somebody that you wont regret it with...much luv dez
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im 13/m and just wondering. my goal is to be a virgin until i get married, i want that special moment to be with the women i love, can i get some feedback? anything you want to say. ill rate all answers with a 5
irish
13/m
Well i dont know many guys that want to wit til they are married... i wish i would kinda of waited but i plan to get married to the guy im with now and i lost my virginity to him.. i love him alot and dont want anything that i have with him with anybodu else he is my everything.. well anyways i think waiting is a great idea that way you dont have to worry bout STD's or gettin a girl pregnant...or even emotional things like that can affect anybody if you love and care for somebody then have sex with em and get hurt... i've never had that happen but i know alot of females that have and a couple of guys, but i hope my feedback was good..much luv dez
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Okay me and this guy have been friends for this whole school year and we've been pretty tight. I really like him but I'm not sure he feels the same. He smiles at me a lot, we talk in class all the time. And he used to never talk to me at my locker, but now he does. He gives me back rubs in class and I don't know what to do. How can I talk to him and let him know how I feel without wreckin' our friendship?
well i dont think it will wreck your friendship it actually sounds like he likes you more then friends...*i never get back rubs from even my best friend* but um i think you should tell him like you like him alot and you know you have been tight for the whole school year but tell him like you have more for him like you like him more then friends but you dont mind jus staying friends...much luv let him make the decision on what happens next after you tell him that.. dez
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Are you supposed to wear a bra under a cami? Im not very big....like kinda flat...Thanks
well if you are wearing it to bed i wouldnt wear one... but jus to wear yea you probably should wear a bra..much luv dez
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this guy we said we would be friends but at times hes really firty with me and acts like he likes me. he will call me and stuff but then the nexy day he will be different and not call me or talk much to me. what does this mean? i really like this guy i think my age is what bothers him the most i am 3 years younger than him but age isnt everything. what do i do? i rate high.
Well be like dude whats up.. like why you lead me on like you like me... and then the next day you show that you could not give a damn.. ask him why he confuses you..and tell him to be real bout how he feels
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ok well here is the deal. Im a freshman and i have been going out with a senior for two days now. but i decided to break up with him today because i felt like we had no chemistry. but i still like him and i was wondering if you think i should talk to him about wanting to go back out with him when we get back to school on monday or just stay his friend?i rate!!
Well if you think you have no chemistry then why waste the time... but if you want more then go for it.. much luv dez
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People are always asking me about my love life, like people at school. I have had a boyfriend before but that only lasted a week, and I always feel uncomfortable saying 'oh I've only had one boyfriend' when people ask. I know it's not a race or a competition as to who can get the most boyfriends, but it's starting to bug me and I don't want to lie and say I've had loads of boyfriends. The thing is, I'm just not emotionally ready to be in a relationship, and I want any relationship I have to be a long one, so I'm obviously gonna have less boyfriends than everyone else. I don't mind that, I just mind being embarrased when I say 'one'. How can I avoid these conversations, or what should I say when they come up?
Hey i'm like you i dont wanna be with any childish boys i wanna real conversation.. i get emotionaly hurt easy.. but um yea it isn't a race or competition and you shouldnt be ashamed about how many guys you've gone with... if they look at you like *what one* then tell them you aint a girl thats jus goin to jump in and out or relationships and get hurt probably over and over again.. you really shouldnt be embarassed about it tho..and also if you get in the conversation jus say like you want a long term relationship not something that lasts a couple days.. dont avoid it just tell em how it..much luv and best of luck dez
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