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What should you talk about when your on a date or movies etc?? Im always scared its going to be uncomfterable and its going to be silent! please help! i give EASY 5s!

ask him how hes been or what hes doin over the summer.

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i am a dancer (7 classes a week), i eat very healthily, but i cant seem to lose weight! i am 5'3" and a half inch and weigh about 113 pounds. i am not super fat, but my lower stomach, face, and thighs are. how can i help this?

you are not fat...at all. most would kill to be your size or even 10 pounds heavier would be ok with them...and youd still be at a normal weight. its all muscle. most athletes (yes dancers are athletes) have a lot of muscle especeially in the thighs. why do you want to lose weight? as long as you dont look it (if that what you are concerned about), you are fine. just get comfortable with who you are.

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Do crunches help you lose weight? I normally do anywhere from 1000-3000 crunches a day. I eat healthy and i don't eat a lot because i want to lose 30lbs. thanks in advanced. i rate 5's for good answers

if you can do 1000 continuous crunches a day, they arent working you as heard as they should. try sit ups or doing crunches slowly (it works better) if that isnt enough, do some legs lifts.

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My spouse and I have been trying to get pregent for about a year now and we have not been able to. Should we keep trying or should we se a speacilist? I was molested when I was a child could have something happen then to cause me not to be able to have children?

awww! thats hard on both of you! try seeing a specialist. if you just can't for whatever reason,(the molestation might have somthing to do with it.) try adopting. there are a lot of children that need homes to love them.

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Okay. so. i'm 14-years, female, and live in alabama. I've been told soooo many times that i should try out for american idol, however, i have to be 16. I really want to be noticed. I've had voice lessons, and competed in vocal competitions. I realllly need some advice on how to be noticed..i've search for talent auditions and whatnot near me..and had NO luck whatsoever. i need an agent. help me please. xox7hearts;ash

ive wanted to also...all you can do is wait. there are like no competitions open to teens because some people suck and they get all mad lol. if you have talent, why not put it into theater? thats what my voice teacher told me and now im trying out for a show.

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Does anybody know any Fruity Smoothies that are good for you, and don't have a lot of extra sugars and fats. So basicly recipes for a healthy smoothie?

strawberries, low fat milk, low fat ice cream and some ice in a smoothing maker. yummy.

(i dont the eaxact measurements b/c my mom makes it and she estimates for everything.)

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Hey ya'll! I'm a 16/f and I have a question about bathingsuits...I'm pretty tan- but from tennis so i have sock lines and shorts lines. I'm fine with my stomach when it comes to bathing suits but not so much with my thighs. I'm 127 and athletic but my thighs aren't as small as I would want them to be(5/6 AE jeans..) and the short lines don't help. So my question is should i still get a regular bikini? I've tried shorts but most are to big around the waist and don't fit awesome- even after my mom makes the waist smaller. So should i get a regular bikini bottom? If not, should i just work on getting shorts or is there another option? Thanks!

i say just get a regular one then you can tan the part that isnt tan from the shorts. thighs...ugh. i think if you hav a good stomach it will most likely make up for it. if your athletic i doubt theyre ike fat and muscular is good.

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Hi, Im 15 female and Ive been wanting to go to Kings Island *a big amustment park in my state its about 45 minutes away from my house* and the person I want to drive with is a 17 year old male and a 15 year old female. The 17 year old male would be driving but my mom wont let me go because she doesnt know him and hasnt seen him drive. Ive already asked if she could meet him and then even drive with him but she wont go for that. Can anyone give me any advice on how to convince her to let me? Thank you.

well you couldhave her drive you there and then meet with him dow there. i've been to k.i. myself and its easier because if she drops you off you wont have to walk as far in the parking lot. lame, but its true. as to convice er if you hate my idea, try introducing them and making sure the other female is there too. that would be an instant no in my house if she wasnt there.

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I used to be a really bad kid, like Id sneak out with guys and get drunk and do sexual things. Around New Years Eve (04) I got caught from this and had to go through a drug class. Then in Febuary (05) I got drunk with some guys and got rapped. People have been saying stuff about me because of this. My friends boyfriends tell them not to hang out with me because "I attract niggers, drugs, and alcohol." And my friends parents will say "if you keep hanging out with her youre going to get rapped by black guys." Im not a bad kid anymore, I have moved on from this and do not do drugs or sneak out with guys anymore. I have started being nicer to my mom and decided not to keep anything from her *so everyday I tell her everything that happens even stuff I do with guys.* Is there anyway I can make people stop saying this and realize I am not the same person I was?

im glad you stopped. a lot of people told you everything i was going to say to you but i have one thing to add. maybe change your apperence. i know someone who is known for being a whore so she started to dress like a nun and it worked for her. you could change schools and start over with people that will accept you for who you are now.

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well im gonna be cheering this year, i've only cheered once in 6th grade. but the squad im about to enter they do stunts and jumps, my question is how can i get better in the jumping ? i have until august, i wanna be good at the jumping because this is a competitive squad ! ♥

stretch...that goes for every sport you do and try a trampoline. my friend did it and it worked for her.

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ohk well im 13 and colombian (spic) woot woot yeah i know lol. anyways my mom and my dad asked me what i want to have a sweet 15 or a sweet 16.. its kinda early but they wanna start saving up since they wanna have my party at the hilton ... but the thing is that most if my friends that im going to invite are white or black and like 6 are spanish ... and i think that they will enjoy a sweet 16 better , but i mean its a tradition for a spanish girl to have a sweet 15 ? im confused help me out

ok so say you would spend $500 on one party so try spending $250 on each and have 2 parties. i dont know why the different races would have anything to do with it, but for me a party is a party no matter what its for. im sure the guests will enjoy either one so pick whatever you wanna do.

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how long does a hickey last??? is there a way to get rid of it faster?????

put a spoon in the freezer then put it against it. i read it in a magazine....i know it sounds kinda weird.

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hi my name is jess im 13 and my boyfriends 13 too well when we make-out he always grabs my but and he asks me to make-out with him constantly cause before i went out with him and he said he wanted a g/f to make-out with. My question is do u think he is using me or does he really love me?

he's using you, hunny.

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ok so i took some quiz and my results said..

Your a straight-laced girlie girl with just a hint of your butch side somtimes popping out!

what is straight-laced supposed to mean? and what does it mean "with just a hint of your butch side sometimes popping out!"??

lets just say its not exactly a good thing when they say "with just a hint of you butch side.." well if your straight anyway. dont listen to it, i doubt its a reliable source anyway, taking from the language they use.

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okay this weekend I'm meeting my boyfriend's ENTIRE family at his sister's graduation party, and they're the REALLY formal type who like kiss you on the cheek and stuff. well you know how when girls kiss in the cheek? do you move your head to the left or the right? cause every time i do that i always kiss the wrong side and we always bump and its so embarrassing haha...

what other ways can i make a good impression?

well theres no right or wrong side really, you just go whichever way and put your cheeck on theirs. (all the get togethers i go to do this, im like a pro now) its just how i was taught. hey what do you know...my dad just came up and i went left so yeah go left. be polite, say the food was delicious meaning dont pick out things, finish at least half of what you get. no pdas in front of the parents sit like a lady especially if you wear a skirt then the little things like dont chew with your mouth open. thats basically all you need to know.

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i had sex for the first time and after we were done he took me home and he called me and said there was blood on his sheets and then i checked myself and i was bleeding i never had my cherry popped is that what it was i bleeded for like 2 or 3 days is that normal???

yeah he popped your cherry. it might be that you got your period unexpectedly or somthing. yeah i think it is normal. try asking thuggirl, shes more experienced in this department. thanks for askin tho!

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A friend of mine is currently in a relationship with some woman from a little town with the name of a kitchen utensil (this isn't some kind of moronic internet relationship - the towns only a few miles from here - its a moronic, yet real relationship) Anyway this dumb bastard found out that his woman was cheating on him, and for about a week he ran around yelling "Dear jesus how can that bastard do that, he took her virginity, that was MY virginity, he took my virginity! I'll get that bastard!" Then he began to think about what he said, took the large amount of gay jokes and sat down. Anyway, this kid is convinced that he will never find anyone better (and this is probably the best thing that will ever happen to him) and hes all depressed because they made all these plans about going off and living with each other next year. Anyway, this kid still wants to be involved with this woman and REALLY just isn't picking up on the hints. The wench got off scott free and the issue doesn't even seem to come up anymore... But for the most part, everyone but that kid knows that the girlfriend is still cheating on him. The two people that tried to talk to him about it - one was direct and was honest with him, the kid thinks hes an asshole now, and the kid that sugarcoated the whole story didn't get anything accomplished. Anyone who wants to take a tackle at the situation, let me know what you'd do.

Sarcastic remarks are appreciated.

ROFL! um wow well i think you should run around naked yellin that he took your virginity, not his.

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ok i know this is weird but i have a question to the song that goes like this i think, "im that star up in the sky, im the moutain peck up hi. Hey i made it, im the worlds greatest..." does any1 kno the name of the song and who it is by please tell me ill rate u a 5

great song...its "worlds greatest" by r. kelly.
here are the lyrics:
I am a mountain
I am a tall tree
ohhhhh
I am a swift wind sweeping the country
I am a river down in the valley
ohhhhh
I'm a vision and I can see clearly

If anybody asks you who I am
Just stand up tall
Look'em at the face and say
ay
Refrain:
I'm that star up in the sky
I'm that mountain peak up high
Hey I made it
I'm the worlds greatest
I'm that little bit of hope
When my back's against the rope
I can feel it I'm the worlds greatest

I am a gaint
I am an eagle
ohhhhhh
I am a lion down in the jungle
I am a marching band
I am the people
ohhhh
I am a helping hand
I am a hero

If anybody asks you who I am
Just stand up tall
Look'em at the face and say

Refrain:

Bridge 1:
I'm that star up in the sky (oohhhhh)
I'm that mountain(peak up high)peak up high
Hey I made It (I said I made it)
im the worlds greatest( I'm that little bit)
I'm that little bit of hope (ohhhhhhohhhh)
When my back's against the wall (when my back's against the ropes)
I can feel it( I can feel it)
I'm the worlds greatest

Bridge 2:
oooohhhhhhhhhhh
I'm that star up in the sky (star up in the sky)
I'm that mountain peak up high (oh yes I am)
Hey I made It ( I made it)
im the worlds greatest( I'm that little bit of hope)
I'm that little bit of hope (ohhhhhhohhhh)
When my back's against the wall (when my back's against the ropes)
I can feel it( I can feel it)
I'm the worlds greatest

again first bridge

His the greatest (his the greatest)
His the greatest can you feel it

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I get sick very often. If something is "going around" i KNOW i will catch it. Is there anything i can do or take (like maybe vitamins or something) to help my imune system so i wont get sick so often?
Thanks

i think taking a daily vitamin (like vitamin c especially) could help your immune system.

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I don't believe in myself..I have very low self esteem..I feel horrible about myself most of the time..How can I boost my confidence..It's not as easy as it sounds..I don't know what to do..I have no friends and my parents (esp. my mom) tells me I'm useless and ugly) I get made fun of all the time..no wonder my self esteem is so low..How can I boost my confidence..All I want to do is feel superior just once..please help

work at something you like to do until you are better than someone you idolize. dont let it get to you, mothers that tell their kids that they are useless and ugly have no confidence in themselves. find an adult you can talk to, im sure there is one that has been there. when i was down, i talked to my friend's mom and it changed my life around completely.

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