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hi my name is jess im 13 and my boyfriends 13 too well when we make-out he always grabs my but and he asks me to make-out with him constantly cause before i went out with him and he said he wanted a g/f to make-out with. My question is do u think he is using me or does he really love me?
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he's using you, hunny. <3
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He could be using you just so he could make out with you, or he could really like you. Why don't you try asking himt this: [Instert boyfriend's name here], are you just going out with me to make out or do you actually have feelings for me, because I remember before we started going out you said you wanted a girlfriend so you could make out with her. Whats the deal? The only way for me to actually tell if he was using you or not is if I knew him personally, along with everyone else on this site. Always go with your instinct, if you feel like he's using you then ask him. You can't just automatically assume he's using you if someone on this site says that he is. You have to do a little research for yourself. He's your boyfriend, you need to be open with him about things like this.
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Wow. Well honestly, it's haRd foR *ME* to tell *YOU* if he's in this Relationship with good intentions, because I only know of a TINY bit of his behavioR. Okay.. so theRe's nothing wRong with kissing and being playful oR intimate if BOTH PARTNERS ARE IN AGREEMENT; so do you eveR TELL him you'Re uncomfoRtable with it?? Maybe he doesn't MEAN TO make you think he's using you, because he thinks you'Re enjoying it just as much as he is. This may seem like an obvious answeR, you Really need to tell him what's on youR mind. Do you guys eveR do anything else togetheR?? Do you eveR hang out OUTSIDE of school to do something otheR than kissing??? Do you eveR hang out INSIDE of school to do something other than kissing??? Can you talk to him easily??? Do you know each otheR well??? How long have you been togetheR??? Chances aRe if it's been a 'long' time [8 months oR so] he's in it foR MORE THAN the kissing. What's the stance on his past Relationships?? Do you even know??? And if not.. WHY NOT??? Could he be tRying to hide something?? Has he been with MANY giRls?? And how long did those Relationships last?? You have to ask all of youRself these questions, and pRobably even confRont him on this to determine whetheR his intentions aRe pooR oR not. The only thing *I* know foR shoRe is that you should NEVER EVER EVER take paRt in engagements that make you feel uncomfoRtable!! Goodluck to you!! Hope I helped!! :) Hope all goes well!!
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