ok, so my guy friends just randomly said to me i love you. we arnt that close of frinds, but we've had a history together. i dont know if he meant it seriously or as a friend.
hes kind of a player, but he told my friend he would like to be friends with benifits with me.
ForbiddeN answered Sunday June 12 2005, 12:11 pm: Ok Well you should stop and ask yourself how do I feel for this guy. And then have a friend or you can do ask him does he want a relationship with you. And if he says yes and you feel the same way then totally date him. But only if hes willing to give up the whole "PLAYER" thing. [ ForbiddeN's advice column | Ask ForbiddeN A Question ]
rnobers answered Sunday June 12 2005, 11:09 am: well take this from a guy. I have had a WOMAN say that she wanted to be friends with benefits. So it happened. In my experience, women always become romantically interested. I even asked a friend once what she thought and she knew that if she became a sexual partner with someone, that she would ultimately have develop feelings. To that affect, you may end up losing the friend altogether, since dating and relationships require common goals. Oh, and just remember, a player will play, regardless of who you are. Take care and good luck. [ rnobers's advice column | Ask rnobers A Question ]
Crazy_E_Fish answered Sunday June 12 2005, 11:06 am: He must have meant it seriously, it takes a lot of courage to say that to someone. Even a friend. If you like him a lot, accept. If you only like him as a friend and don't want to be closer don't say anything about it. I hope I've helped!
babyface answered Sunday June 12 2005, 10:54 am: Well if he is a player than just be friends with him. If you really like him and he really likes you just go out with him [ babyface's advice column | Ask babyface A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Sunday June 12 2005, 10:54 am: If you aRen't that close of fRiends, chance aRe he WAS only joking.
And if he claims to be seRious, then you know he OBVIOUSLY has NO CLUE as to what "love" is. And if he's a "playeR" why on EARTH would you want to become Romantically involved with him?? In MY opinion, you shouldn't be setting youRself up foR heaRtache and disappointment. Hope this helps!! :) [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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