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†I'm different from everyone else in this world and i cant be describes in just a couple stuipd sentences/paragraphs. I am who i am and i change for no one. I am the most faked person ever. and i dont think that will ever change. even after im 6 feet under. im 18. i love where i live and the people i know. i love myspace and i love being a local celebrity. im not a prep. i could be one if i wanted to my looks give that off. but im no where near it. im just a gurl. im just me. take it or leave it. my bestfriends are the shit. your friends is shit. im shannon motherfucking bond. and you are ?? †

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Will you help me find prince charming? :( Because apparently I have no luck in the love department. I think it hates me.

im sorry. i wish i could i wish everyone would have atleast one person for them, but this is the real world and not everybody doesnt.. it breaks my heart. you will find love trust me you will. if not now but soon. things happen for a reson remember that. dont give up have faith and hope. you never know who is secretly in love with you. love can either make you super happy or super sad. its a 2 in one package. dont ever think it hates you.it doesnt believe me, your an amazing person with everything beautiful inside and out. and i hardly ever think so highly of someone. i admire you and adore you and just hope for the best for you. just please dont give up and know that i am here for you if you need someone. i know ive hurt you and told you not to talk about somethings.. but we're friends. we're more then friends. your like a sister to me and i know you cant always be happy and it hurts to not talk about something with the one person you wan to.. so you can talk about this stuff with me. just do it on here.. hehe sowwie but its weird if you do it on im. i wont be able to answer you or help you clearly. on here i dont know im able to clear my thoughts and just focus on the topic that is important. I LOVE YOU ALICIA! i really do be strong baby. ♥

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i think i am a lesbian because fansties os sex with women

sweetie that doesnt make you a lesbian. and lets go on a hunch and say it does.. why does it have to be lesbian it could be bi sexual. alot of people go threw this its totally normal. you can be straight but think about sex with woman. i went threw this. and i know its some what freaky because your like i dont think this is right.. but your human no body is perfect. i say if you like thinking about women dont stop or think your a lesbian. unless you want to date a woman. maybe you can become bi curious. and try dating a woman and see how that goes. if you dont like it, then you are no where near being a lesbian.

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i like this guy, i dont want to but i do. i say im over him to my friends and i act like i dont care, but underneath it all, i still have feelings for him. we have a history, i guess you can say we liked eachother, but then things got screwed up and he kissed some random girl when he was drunk. that really hurt me but of course i forgived him and i guess we were just friends since that point.. but now he met another girl, a really pretty nice girl, and of course im jealus i want him to stil like me again but i know that will never happen. recently we havent been talking as much, over this stupid hurricane it sorta put a damper in our friendship, i already lost him as a romantic figure, now i guess i just want him as a friend if thats all i can have, but i want to get over him. i dont know what i should do.

One of my friends has the same problem.The only thing different thing is that he doesn't like her.Well back to your question.I think you should tell him how you feel.Chances r he feels the same about you!Good luck telling him.

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How do i get layouts for my buddy4u profile?

Well you can just go anywhere that has layouts and use them. Or you can make your own. at http://www.strikefile.com

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years..we have been recently getting in arguments about stupid stuff really..but he said hes starting to think that i dont care about him.. i really do care about him alot..How do i prove to him that i havent lost my love for him?

Well you two honestly need to talk to each other. I know how this is I went threw it too. But I'm still with my bf and he knows i love him dearly. Just tell your bf that you do care for him, tell him he completes you and makes you happy. Give him things and try to tell him he's the only one for you. Promise him that no matter what you wont stop caring. Tell him whatever he wants to hear. Ask him how you can prove it. I hope I helped.

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Does everyone find someone that they love and that loves them?

Well Its a 50/50 chance. If you do then hold on to them really tight. But I can tell you that there are people that have found true love with each other, becuz i have,so take it from someone that has found love with a person that loves them back there is a chance and its really great.

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okay so this guy and i have been hanging out a lot. he tells me he likes me, and says he wants to ask me out, but he still hasnt, he told me he was waiting for he right time...well i think he likes his ex gf, bc i was lookin at his phone and he had text messages for her...adn he said she just got a bf, and even tho he doesnt have feelings for her, its ripping him apart. ive already done a lot with him, which is pretty unusual for me, bc i have such a hard time trustung guys...yesterday he expected me to do tuff with him, and when i told him i didnt want to he figured something was wrong...i really like him... more then anyother guy ive ever liked... but i have no idea what to do about him... any ideas?? please help!!

Well I would tell him how much you feel for him. and ask him if the real reason why he hasnt asked you out is because he still has feelings for his ex. You should prepare yourself for the answer though. If he says no, and asks you out dont say yes right away because even though he says he doesnt have feelings for his ex you have to convice yourself he doesnt. Your feelings for him will always be the same. {i know how it is} but you two really need to talk and ask him about the text messages. I hope everything works out! if u have anymore questions just ask me.

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So theres this guy that was in my class last year and i went to the same camp as him and we would hang out toghter like evryday and people kept saying we liked each other.He flirts with me all the time.Hes older guy friends says he does like me but i dont know if i should belive them.Should we be friends or not?

Well take a chance and believe them. You two should be friends no matter what. Friendship is imporant and hey he might like you since he flirts with you alot. But the main thing is you have to think about how you feel about him. If you like him back then ask him if he likes you. He might be your first love {if you havent already had one}

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a few months ago, i was rejected by this guy. now i like his friend. i wanna ask him out, but would i look desperate if i did?

Well that was a few months ago so know hun go for it. If it was a few hours or days ago then yeah you would totally look desperate but its been MONTHS! your just moving on which is really good for you. ♥

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Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird?

Well that would be really cute. Depends on the girl but the chances of her finding it VERY cute is 95% so the other 5% means she will find it weird. But when you ask a girl if you can kiss them they feel all nice and warm inside. It shows that you thought about what you wanted to do and you thought about if she would want it or not, or if she would like it or not. So totally ask!

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hi i need help im not spposted 2 date untill im like 20 !! so shud i date behind my parents bac????

well im not trying to be rude or anything but go over what you type ok? I know how it is though you type something and you dont know that you have made this mistake everyone does it. But It depends on how old you are now. If your 11 or older then you should date behind their back. They will never know but only date the one that is WORTH your time, not some guy that will just make you cry and believe me when you find the one that is worth your tears he will NEVER make you cry!

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Can girls get orgasm's without having sex?

Yes, You can masterbate and have an organsm. You can also do other things to yourself to have an organsm. Like rub your "clit" or using ice, but it depends on the person's body and how it feels for you to have an organsm.

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Ok, here's the deal. I have this boyfriend I have been with since 7th grade. We know each other very well, and are really comfortable around each other. But last winter his parents split up and he got mixed up with the wrong crowd, started doing drugs, starting ruining his life in general, and not to mention ruining our relationship not only as a couple but as I see him. He started blowing me off, not calling, not keeping promises, point blank..doing drugs. So we broke up for awhile, and I met this really great other guy. We talked about everything, and it evetually lead into a relationship. He was really laid back and we had lots of good times together. But to be honest, i couldn't open up to this kid as much as the other one. I was very standoffish and I couldn't like him to the point where I wanted to be more than just friends. He was very sweet to me and would do anything for me. He was the total opposite of what the other kid was, my old boyfriend is very protective of me and gets jealous and mad vey easily. so that was just what I needed. So, a few things happened, I cheated on this kid with my old boyfriend, and I needed to break up with him. I feel like such a bad person because he is such a good guy. After awhile, my old boyfriend went to Florida to figure out who he was and get more self respect for himself. While he was down there he would call me every single night. I was the only thing he had to hold onto. Now he's back up here, and I've hung out with him, but I'm not convinced he's changed and I don't want him to go back to his old ways. I am in love with this kid because we basically grew up together, but in some ways I feel like I made the wrong decision. Sometimes I feel like I should have gone with the other kid. I need some GOOD advise because I have been thinking about this for a long time.



PLEASE HELP, thank you*

Well this is very tough. Love isnt just something that you play with, it comes on its own. But listen to your heart not your brain. If your heart picks the other guy then go with him, if your heart picks the guy your with now then stay with him. If you dont listen to your heart you gonna wonder your whole life. But you owe it to your current boyfriend to tell the truth, if you stay with him just so he wont back to his old ways thats not fair to him or to your heart. I would probably take a break from him. And not see him for a couple days or weeks, the same guys for the guy. And think about the RIGHT decision. Compare them boy to each other. Like personalities, smiles, which you trust more, the one you think is more fun, the one you can tell anything to. Stuff like that. {I am just saying but you could like use a scale and jelly beans and put the left side as your current bf and the right as the other guy. then compare them both and which one has the better outcome then put the jelly bean on there side{example: if your current boyfriend comes out with the better smile then you would put the jelly bean on his side} REMEMBER to always listen to your heart no matter what hope i helped!

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I know this is gross and stuff...but its true....i was raped by my teacher and he swore that if i tell anyones hes going to kill me and I see him all the time...like he is following me or something to make sure I am not telling...and so I dont know how to tell anyone beczuse he said he would kill me...anyone have any ideas...because i am scared to tell someone
plz help!
thanks

OMG! I am soo sorry. But you need to tell a trusted adult. The faster you tell he wont be able to do anything. Ask for a police officer if you really think you need one to follow you around. I know it may seem embrassing but if it is what you need then get the protection you need. And you need to tell NOW while he can still get in trouble for what he has done, it was wrong and he knows it. You will end up regreting it your whole life if you dont. and your gonna contiue being scared for the rest of your life!!

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hey.
i am 13/f & i have this cousin that is 10 & she asked me if i have had sex before & i said no & she said that she could "show me" & gave me the choices of having sex with her, her giving me lessons, giving me oral or fingerfucking me! & i went with it just so she would leave me alone & now i am scared of what she might do & i dont know how to react to this & am so creeped out... What should i do? plz help!!! i rate high!!!!
thanks

Ok what is a 10 year old doing giving someone lesson?!? Hun dont do it. First of all thats your cousin which is Incest. And second of all that makes you a lesbian. Even if she is bugging the fuck you dont ever say yes. Tell her that what you guys did was wrong. BECAUSE IT IS! And you can catch diseases like that. And this coul lead to Blackmail you know!!

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What do you do if you have went out with this guy and yalls realationship was really good, and you liked him alot, but when you broke up with him he became very rude towards you and always called you names, prank called you, and pushed you in the hall way?
-14
-female

Ok I know how this is. You just have to give him time to get over the break up and calm down. I suggest not to flirt with guys around him or else his anger will get worst. Maybe you should try explaining why you broke up with him but very nicely say something like, " Im really sorry but i think you should know that I really liked you it was just I think we were growing apart and i wish we can be friends." That is just an example. But this also means that he is hurt and still likes you {probably only a little bit though} but try to not bring up the "OLD" times alot. Talk about the future and tell him that there are other better hotter girls out there for him.

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Im from the uk. And we all have our own slang words or buzz words for things. What does making out mean in like american terms or to anyone really! All help greatley appreciated,
thanks
anthony

Well making out to me means kissing the person you are with using the tongue and staying at that.. not going to sex. to tell you the truth that is what making out is mainly.

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I am goin out with this kid and my friend likes him too I think I should tell her that I am goin out with him or should I not But we tell each other like every thing

I will RATED YOU HIGH
Please help mee

Always
Mee

Well it is better to tell your friend now before it gets to serious. At first she might not want to believe it but then she will understand and be happy for you. Boys come and go but friends are forever. But there is the chances of her being upset. If that do happen then you should give her time to herself for a few days, and if your not sure when you should talk to her, it will work itself out. And you can be expecting the question, "Why didnt you tell me before?" from her...

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Ok i'm 13/f and I've got a solo for our summer music institute "L'ho perduta, me meschina" of Barbarina from Act IV of "Le Nozze de Figaro" (aka. "The Marriage of Figaro")

The time signature is:

6
8


I know I should know, but my brain isn't functioning today. could somebody here remind me what the numbers stand for? Also it would be really nice if anyone here who has sung this solo to give me a few pointers on the piece???


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♠ Sheila ♠
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Well the top partwhich is the 6 stands for the measure and 8 stands for how many beats is in a measure^_^ I had 2 take this a class on it in school. big FUN! *cough* NOT *cough* haha but I have never song that piece but I was also in Choir the best advice on that i can give you is to stand up straight drink lots of water nothing else. NO SODA!! It makes your voice all out of place and it wouldn't sound like it would usually. And gets lots of rest and perfect. And Im pretty sure that the song has to be song In a high pitch voice. so when you practice try not to use your full high voice because if you do it alot then you will lose your voice...

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Eh, I was just wondering who knew what the heck courtship was, or what it means, and if they could like explain it, cause its totally screwing with me right now, Thanks!

Ok I remember when I was like this and had NO clue what courtship was. So this is what it means... A man wanting to needing a woman, um... its sometimes call dating. Here is Websters meaning for COURTSHIP________

*a man's courting of a woman; seeking the affections of a woman (usually with the hope of marriage); "its was a brief and intense courtship"*

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