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i like this guy, i dont want to but i do. i say im over him to my friends and i act like i dont care, but underneath it all, i still have feelings for him. we have a history, i guess you can say we liked eachother, but then things got screwed up and he kissed some random girl when he was drunk. that really hurt me but of course i forgived him and i guess we were just friends since that point.. but now he met another girl, a really pretty nice girl, and of course im jealus i want him to stil like me again but i know that will never happen. recently we havent been talking as much, over this stupid hurricane it sorta put a damper in our friendship, i already lost him as a romantic figure, now i guess i just want him as a friend if thats all i can have, but i want to get over him. i dont know what i should do.
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do you guys go to the same school. .maybe you can just start off with a smile in the hallway. then aim? possibly. just talk on there. and really get your friendship up again.
i know what your going through.. im there too. but me and the guy dating for about 7 months.
guys really dont make the first move to be friends.. but they want to.
so you talk to him next time you see him. then move that conversation up to more convos. then maybe hang out some time.
you said you guys would never date. but you can always be best friends.
good luck with this .
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Hey, well i was in da same situation or i still am but what i do to try to get over him is i'm tryin to move on im tryin to find other guys that wont just stop talkin to me out of nowhere and what im startin to think is maybe we can still be friends just not as close. But i hope for the best for u and this guy. If you need more advice or sumtin just IM me at LatinAng3l893. Well i hoped i helped
xox,
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I know exactly how you feel. Except evacuating from hurricane Rita helped me. The guy that I like is my bro's gf's younger bro. We went out for a few days(I liked him for a couple months before he asked) but he broke up cause he found out my mom didn't want me going out with him yet. Since then he hasn't talked to me as much. The way he talks to my best friend though makes me real jealous too. I just want him as a friend too. What I suggest you do is do your best not to think about him and try to find someone else. It might take awhile but things'll get better. If you wanna talk, just email or instant message me, I'm willing to support if you need it.
**hope I helped**
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I think that being being friends because that is all you could have is going to actually hurt more. You aren't going to get over him by being friends and you are just going to suffer in silence. I think only time and distance and ultimately becoming interested in someone else is going to cure this. I know this is probably the LAST thing you want to hear, but I've been there in the past and thats kind of how it works in my experience. The upside is, he may then realize how great you are and work to get you back.. if not, you'll be that much better off to meet the right person when he comes along.
Good luck and keep me posted.
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One of my friends has the same problem.The only thing different thing is that he doesn't like her.Well back to your question.I think you should tell him how you feel.Chances r he feels the same about you!Good luck telling him.
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Hi i think that is a really hard thing to do, let
go but you can do it. I am going through the exact same thing and yes it is upsetting but the thing is no matter what you have to say something if not to him why not confront in a mater or teacher parent. Even better idea why not start a diary it really does help express your feelings wait till this boy is single then talk to him. Meanwhile focus on another boy yuo like maybe something will happen.
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